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 Kiss_My_Karma~
Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 25
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I'd still like to see you answer my question in the other thread that you're avoiding, Fairmont--I mean seasiren. You know, the one that asks what motivates you to be on a one 'woman' crusade to bash us? Post in no other threads than these? That one?
 Kiss_My_Karma~
Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 26
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Posted: 5/10/2008 12:57:17 PM
Seasiren, you are still ignoring my question.





 NotInnocent
Joined: 9/7/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 5/10/2008 6:44:49 PM
I wonder seasiren..were you this wise 20 years ago? Did you have the ability to pick out red flags from men, when you barly knew how to have a proper relationship? Were you this condenseding and self-rightous 20 years ago? I am much wiser now then I was even 10 years ago. But I don't go around calling everyone else an idiot who is 1o years younger then me and not getting it. Now if when i'm 40, if i meet a 40 year old acting like an 18 year old, then perhaps I will.

My son wants me to use these smileys..

and no he isn't reading these posts..
 desertrhino
Joined: 11/30/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 5/10/2008 7:17:27 PM

For a few centuries we did the love marriage children thing in that oder now it seems to be infactuation and rush into things have a child and move on.

More people should work on their relationships and we would not have as many young single moms. Also take time to get to know the other person better to find out if they are really marriage material before having sex with them.


Oh heck. I couldn't let this egregious pile of horse hockey pass... your "a few centuries" of "love marriage children" is completely false and shows exactly how much thought and effort you are putting into your debating.

Check out: http://www2.hu-berlin.de/sexology/ATLAS_EN/html/history_of_marriage_in_western.html

Perhaps we should just go back to arranged marriages. Then at least the parents of the people involved will have vetted their child's partner on some level. Of course, love as we know it would once again be completely divorced from marriage, but that's a small price to pay for 2-parent households for all kids. Or we could just flat outlaw divorce. *SHRUG*
 Kiss_My_Karma~
Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 5/10/2008 7:21:04 PM
Let's not forget that before the divorce laws became easier, people used to stay in very unhappy marriages to abusive spouses, adulterers, alcoholics, and there was NO WAY OUT. If you did get out, you might as well have had a scarlet letter on your forehead. Which is oddly enough the way some people still seem to see it. Who says we've evolved?
 desertrhino
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Msg: 30
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Posted: 5/24/2008 8:54:21 AM
Johne, why don't you take your vast, informed knowledge about how to make relationships and marriages work and GET MARRIED AND/OR HAVE KIDS YOURSELF, *before* you open your mouth about others' efforts in that arena. If you had been married 20 years and had a couple of kids, and were happy and together, people might take your opinions on the matter of successful relationships a little more seriously.

Instead, you come off as a nebbishy single man who's allowed his bitterness over living in mom's basement and getting treated poorly by a few single moms or single women in general turn him into a forum-stalking blowhard with one or two stock responses that get dragged out to beat every. single. single. mother. with. Hey, it's cool you're starting to add the occasional disclaimer, like "(both me and women)" and "(again not all but some)" but you know, we can actually see right through that ploy. Just sayin.
 desertrhino
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Posted: 5/24/2008 12:38:44 PM
Johne, I didn't say you live with your parents... I said that's how you come across in the forum.

Now, you're totally entitled to your opinion, but you seem to think it's better than everyone else's opinion... and you have no f-ing clue what you're talking about. You're like the armchair quarterback (never even played college football) who could easily have won the Superbowl when that idiot (who's made a career of actually playing pro ball) just threw it away. WTF-ever.

Show us a long-term, well-established relationship, or even one that failed and taught you something about saving a marriage, and we'll listen, mmmkay? Until then, you're completely ignorant of what it's REALLY about, and you're just calling the plays at the watercooler on Monday with your equally ignorant cow-orkers.

Of COURSE having an established life plan and career before having kids is a great idea. When has the age of the single mother involved EVER had any effect on your bashing? Whether she was married and hubby left, died, was abusive, alcoholic, what-have-you? I'll answer for you: not once. Grow up, dude.

Just to show there's no hard feelings, I even framed you up a nice print: http://www.cafepress.com/tblurts.89620415
 desertrhino
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Posted: 5/24/2008 12:56:13 PM

I was engaged to a woman but she started to develop a cocaine habbit and I was smart enough to get out before it got worse. Some people are not smart and would have had a child in that situation...not me though.


...and if she'd developed that blow habit 5 years and a kid or two later, guess what boat YOU would be in, buddy. I'll give you a hint: It involves the words "single" and "parent."

LUCKY is not the same as smart.

But I'll tell you what, Johne-me-lad. Show me a single ANSWER, as opposed to your ignorant speculation and bashing on a topic with which you have no experience, and I'll buy you a beer.
 poett1984
Joined: 4/30/2016
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Posted: 5/4/2016 3:38:54 PM
You did not write this poem. I did (Ashley Angell). I would appreciate it if you would delete your post. You did not have my permission to post it on this website. Every other website I found that had posted it deleted it. I have sent you several messages requesting that you take it down. I have also contacted the administrator of this website. The poem is copywritten, and I don't appreciate it being posted. What upsets me the most is you posted it as if you were the one who wrote it. You know nothing about me, and I don't want this poem that I wrote to my mother when I was 12 years old on the internet. PLEASE TAKE IT DOWN.
 poett1984
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Posted: 5/4/2016 3:41:04 PM
Pierced_Chick....
You did not write this poem. I did (Ashley Angell). I would appreciate it if you would delete your post. You did not have my permission to post it on this website. Every other website I found that had posted it deleted it. I have sent you several messages requesting that you take it down. I have also contacted the administrator of this website. The poem is copywritten, and I don't appreciate it being posted. What upsets me the most is you posted it as if you were the one who wrote it. You know nothing about me, and I don't want this poem that I wrote to my mother when I was 12 years old on the internet. PLEASE TAKE IT DOWN.
 poett1984
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Posted: 5/4/2016 3:41:27 PM
Pierced_Chick....
You did not write this poem. I did (Ashley Angell). I would appreciate it if you would delete your post. You did not have my permission to post it on this website. Every other website I found that had posted it deleted it. I have sent you several messages requesting that you take it down. I have also contacted the administrator of this website. The poem is copywritten, and I don't appreciate it being posted. What upsets me the most is you posted it as if you were the one who wrote it. You know nothing about me, and I don't want this poem that I wrote to my mother when I was 12 years old on the internet. PLEASE TAKE IT DOWN.


 CarefreeBeauty
Joined: 5/30/2014
Msg: 36
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Posted: 5/4/2016 4:13:52 PM
^^^I understand you're upset, but remember the saying 'imitation is the best form of flattery'<
 poett1984
Joined: 4/30/2016
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Posted: 5/9/2016 12:20:32 PM
I don't understand why she just won't take it down. I have asked her repeatedly. She didn't even give me credit for it, and posted it as her own. I don't want the poem on this website.
 GoodtimeswithNste
Joined: 9/20/2012
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Posted: 6/29/2016 11:16:16 PM
I prefer it. Hard to understand that love till you have a child
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