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 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 714
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I've thought about this for a long time. I usually get the "I can keep up with men 1/2 my age" emails. Well, wonderful. No need for me to date someone older when they can keep up with those 1/2 their age, I'll just date those 1/2 their age and not worry about it. (Kidding guys, settle down.) For me, I want someone in my time-zone. I once thought 35-45 would be ok. Today ~ nope. It's now more like 40-45. And it keeps narrowing. I just keep finding reasons to narrow the criterium. I want someone in my own time frame...hell, if I could meet a man with my birthday and year ~ I'd probably turn kartwheels.
 *mandrake*
Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 715
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Posted: 6/29/2007 4:08:34 PM
The way some of you ladies talk, I feel like an old washed up dinosaur! jk

everyone has their preference, and that is their right. Never feel guilty about what you like or don't like. It's your life, live it! I'll just go turn in my fossil now.
 fsu1965
Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 719
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Posted: 7/2/2007 2:21:16 PM
Exactly TJ. What man offered the chance to sleep with an older woman, even one 10 to 15 years older would pass it up. i know i probably wouldn't have when I was 30 or so. Lots and lots of good looking 40 - 45 year olds out there.
 fsu1965
Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 722
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Posted: 7/3/2007 4:13:44 AM
I like sex and I see nothing wrong with it when a woman is younger. I suspect that women who date younger men feel the same, just admit it and don't try to rationalize it. The younger man may be a good catch, but ladies don't break their hearts.
 fsu1965
Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 723
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Posted: 7/3/2007 10:15:42 AM
Funny, that's the same thing younger women say to me...that young men don't have a brain in their head and all they think of is boinking and that an older man is some much more mature and patient.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 727
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Posted: 7/4/2007 4:53:25 PM
~OT~ It's all about "fitting" with someone. I prefer someone very near my age, whatever someone else prefers is entirely up to them. I still maintain not all older women/younger men relationships are based on sex and sex alone and it's still perplexing to me that some think so. But, to each their own. I'm a little perplexed about most all things ~ this is just another example of that.

Happy 4th all.
 *mandrake*
Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 728
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Posted: 7/4/2007 4:59:35 PM
Hey woman...I'm home! Ya got my supper ready yet??? where's my beer?<img ^^^^src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_135.gif border=0>

OT...anyone who bases a relationship on sex, is doomed from the start. Once you subtract the sex, what do you have left? NOTHING! You become strangers under the same roof. That is sad.
 uinme
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 732
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Posted: 7/5/2007 6:29:41 AM
Age is rarely a barrier to attraction, in my book. But there are certain realities which seem to rear up every now and again. Many younger guys lack the maturity that more experienced men have, experienced with life, that is. Which is not to say every man my age is incredibly refined and mature.
But I do get tired of younger guys thinking they're doing you a favour by being interested. That's just insulting. It's also common to run into young guys who, since THEY are attracted to older women, believe you must reciprocate. But the thing that separates them the most is that if you tell a younger guy you're not interested, they will persist ad infinitum, trying to get you to change your mind, while most older guys will take no for an answer very graciously, and just go their own way.
All that said though, I have no qualms about being with men far junior to myself...as long as they have the stamina :)

Susan
 fsu1965
Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 733
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Posted: 7/5/2007 8:53:14 AM
I have stamina and I'm not worried about young women keeping up.
 Mosey_Burns
Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 734
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Posted: 7/5/2007 2:08:29 PM
As a younger man just let me say I prefer older women. They are more sexually adventurous, less inclined to play games, and the fact that shes older is a turn on in iteself
 fsu1965
Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 737
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Posted: 7/5/2007 5:34:26 PM
Now for a message to the young bucks out there...a little piece of advise. If a woman older or younger wants sex...I say give it to her. I always have, but if you think that playing on the "weakness" of an older woman telling her how she is a great conversationalist, give us all a break. I'm not talking about 5 years difference. So ladies, men young or old, but more specially young, will run any line to get laid. So fellows, get a grip.
 Wolfblade25
Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 738
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Posted: 7/6/2007 5:34:53 PM
With my experiences, I've found older women to be much more mature, considerate, and mindful than women my age. It seems a great deal of people 13-25 I've encountered are hard to have conversations with because they act immature. Holding steadfast to that "Highschool drama" mentality. Ive dated a few older women (10-16 years older) and they were some of the best relationships i have ever had.

Besides that fact, I find older women to be much more experienced, not necessarily in sex, but in life in general. I love it when I contemplate a theory or share my experiences and they share theirs; or just in general express their wisdom and logic. Getting to know one another better is important in any relationship. I've never become dependent on anyone in a relationship, nor do I want a "2nd mom" but its great to meet someone with Great logic, great Intellect, and wonderful maturity yet still keeping their "teen years" when they desire.

But thats just my two cents.
 Dreamerxoxoxo
Joined: 3/2/2006
Msg: 740
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Posted: 7/7/2007 2:03:13 PM
omg!! I can't believe this thread is still going after 2 yrs!! This thread is one I put on my "track" list to follow but haven't looked at it in quite a while... I just read the last few pages of it and it certainly has taken on a life of it's own! I had to go back to the original post to remind myself of the context on the subject of "older women younger men" the OP wanted discussion about...

First of all, in my case, all my friends ~ both males and females ~ are younger than I so the sexual aspect of the younger/older platonic relationship is not something I automatically equate with my younger male friends.

To answer the OP's question about how I feel about a sexual relationship between a younger man and an older woman, I don't feel any differently about it than I would about a younger female/older male or same age couple, for that matter. Age is irrelevant. If there is a mutual sexual attraction between two adult people and they decide to act on it, why should age make a difference? It just so happens the majority of the guys I've dated are younger than I but that doesn't mean I limit myself to dating younger guys. I believe in exclusivity when it comes to having a sexual relationship so I guess I'm considered old fashioned in that respect. I still contend that the best sex begins mentally and there has to be that special connection on several levels before I can open myself up that way to anyone. So having sex without those elements in place is not on my agenda.

I just can't understand why the subject of younger guys/older women is still such a hot topic ~ I don't see the same interest in these forums ~ or anywhere else ~ involving younger women/older men relationships.
 Tim0066
Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 745
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Posted: 7/12/2007 8:27:43 PM

I wish I new of a few older women looking for a youger sexual man like myself.


Ummm like the spelling quality?

Being a younger man sexualy just means you finish before her and pass out leaving her wondering what she see's in younger men.
 snowflake27
Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 749
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Posted: 7/16/2007 1:44:24 PM
I see nothing wrong w/it, so long as both are legal adults... =)
If men can have a relationship with younger women, why couldn't a woman have a relationship w/a younger man.
It all depends on the two people, the attraction, and maturity levels.
Just my opinion. =)
 Sandie90
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 753
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Posted: 7/17/2007 9:20:12 AM
Wow...what a long thread. I only read the OP, plus the last few pages. Lots if interesting opinions out there.
I was recently asked out by a younger man (23) and was surprised, flattered and weary at the same time. I would never date someone in their 20's (I'm in my 40's) as I think that the age difference is too great. I'm open but still cautious with men 5 - 10 yrs younger than me! My radar goes up when men between 20-30yrs approach me. I wonder what their true motivation is. I think younger men who like older women certainly have their work cut out for them in overcoming the barriers that some women have when it comes to dating beyond a certain age range.
 snuggles29108
Joined: 6/28/2007
Msg: 754
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Posted: 7/18/2007 6:49:55 AM
well im still dating my 25 yr old he says he loves me and as weird as it sounds we have alot in common we both love 2 sing camp shoot pool and lots of other things not all about sex either
 boytoy247
Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 755
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Posted: 7/18/2007 9:13:09 AM
i love older women and don't see anything wrong with it, old ones are more open and give wicked head and taste so sweet so anyone want to meet
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 756
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Posted: 7/18/2007 6:32:57 PM
17: Um, do you understand sarcasm and humor, or are you just that dumb. I'm also not an evolutionist. Maybe you would back down from your beliefs to "get all the girls" but I wouldn't. I stand by my non-belief. My statement merely stems from the viewpoint that most evil and violence in mankind's history is because of a "god".

crazy: I must be worth the effort since you're mouthing off at me again. lol.
If I was arrogant and thought I was so perfect, I wouldn't really notice how arrogant a lot of the statements in here are would I? You say I'm the bad guy but yet I'm not the one swearing at others. I'm sorry I can't paint the comments in here with the pretty light you want but that's my opinion as I see things in here. Get over it. The funny part is that there used to be a thread about older men and younger women where women hurled insults and other disgusting comments about the men but all the women thought that was great. I guess it's okay to say what you think as long as you're a woman.
Yet another item in the giant list of double standards.

 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 757
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Posted: 7/18/2007 7:24:21 PM
crazy: How am I feeling slighted because I point out what I think? Very confusing statement on your part. So how many "final posts" are you going to have. lol. Don't worry, you're garbage to me as well.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 758
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Posted: 7/18/2007 7:39:43 PM
Your entire posts personally attack and bash me so what do you expect back? Should I run away and cry in the corner like a good little boy next time? You're some piece of work. If you act vile towards me you'll get it back. I'm done with being called names and having my profile attacked in these threads. I have tried to refrain from doing that to people but if that's the way it is I'll start going there.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 759
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Posted: 7/18/2007 7:46:22 PM
No, you don't always DIRECTLY call names but you sling obvious personal insults between the lines. Same thing. You did start it by calling me an ass so I guess I'm not the only childish one.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 760
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Posted: 7/18/2007 7:54:18 PM
Nice excuse. What are you a forum moderator now? Show me how I was being cruel because I don't think I was. Also why would I care if my behavior is acceptable to you? Are you actually that full of yourself?
 silkysoftme
Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 764
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Posted: 7/19/2007 10:24:23 PM
I prefer a younger male....i can train him... nuff said...sometime u just can't teach an old dawg new tricks...and older men are just plain lazy
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