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 mystique-elle
Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 819
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but, would still feed me. will you still need me , would you change my diapers when I crap my pants.. when I am 64 or is it 74... can not remember ... I am aging already
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 822
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Posted: 10/5/2007 3:06:09 AM
Taniron: That's a popular misconception. It is true in many cases but a lot of time the opposite is true. After menopause around 30% of women actually lose interest in sex all together from the statistics I've seen. I personally have the same level of interest since I was young and from women I've talked to their interest isn't over the top just because they're older.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 824
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Posted: 11/3/2007 9:19:24 AM
Very true statement Mike. Older definitely doesn't mean more mature from what I've seen lately.
 misterdj1160
Joined: 10/4/2007
Msg: 827
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Posted: 11/4/2007 8:05:58 PM
Actually, I'm 35, I fancy older women. I am finding that women my age and younger are not right in the head. They're nutty and cold-hearted.

A sexual relationship with an older woman, to me, would be great. I bet she would know how to please a man and she can f$%k like a champ in bed. What I wouldn't give for that.
 favilack
Joined: 11/3/2007
Msg: 828
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Posted: 11/7/2007 7:55:53 AM
hey hi wanna talk and have a good conversation
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 829
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Posted: 11/7/2007 1:25:31 PM
misterd: I don't know what older women you've been talking to/dating but I find it the opposite. Older women are more insecure, immature, judgemental and negative than most younger women I've spoken to. I think middle age makes women try to regain some kind of lost youth. It's like they always want to prove they can be young if you read through the profiles/posts. What's so wrong with just being the age you are?
I don't know why they always want to point it out in the forums or in profiles. It's so sad and obnoxious. If you're beautiful, people will let you know. I've luckily also talked to a few older women who are great people, unfortunately I just don't see very many of them online. It's a bad stereotype that younger women only want to play games and older women have their act together because it's definitely not true.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 837
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Posted: 11/11/2007 8:53:20 AM
37heidi: What does sex drive have to do with age? I've yet to find a woman of any age that has a sex drive even close to mine. My sex drive hasn't changed as I've aged. I find that the opposite is true as far as sexual interest is concened. A lot of middle aged women seem to have very little interest in sex. Most of the men my age that I know have the same complaint but I'm sure there are people of different ages and sexes who have both high and low sex drives. These are very tired and old stereotypes that aren't true and should die once and for all.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 841
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Posted: 11/14/2007 5:47:48 PM

I've almost always dated guys a little younger (2-3 years) than me and it's worked out great.


I agree. Most in my life have been within a year or two. My ex-husband was 8 months older ~ but I still had to raise him and our son...LOL I stay in my own time-zone ~ seems to work best for me personally.
 JazzFan333
Joined: 11/1/2007
Msg: 843
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Posted: 11/14/2007 7:50:45 PM
I wouldn't date a much younger man. Since I'm 28, most men that are 8-10 years younger than me are immature and inexperienced about many things in life. They couldn't even legally drink. If I'm still single when I'm 38, I might consider dating men that are 8-10 years younger than me. There are plenty of men in their late 20s / early 30s that are successful and mature.
 doubleohseven
Joined: 3/7/2006
Msg: 847
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Posted: 11/21/2007 12:14:23 PM
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 mustang_guy_2007
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 848
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Posted: 11/22/2007 12:31:27 AM
hell, i love older women. but none seem to be attracted to me. oh well. :P
 Darkelysium
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 849
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Posted: 11/23/2007 4:03:33 PM
I have the same problem. You just sit there wondering ok what are they looking for in a guy. So many women approach it as taboo that it just gets frustrating. I went on a date with a woman 10 years my senior once and we had a great time. In the end it came down to her worrying about what her friends would think of her dating a younger man. Men have been dating younger women for ages and I just wish it was more appropriate on the other end.
 mustang_guy_2007
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 850
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Posted: 11/24/2007 1:22:30 PM
it all goes back to the whole double standard thing. for some reason, our society deems it more respectable for guys to get away with things of this nature but when women try to do the same thing, people look down upon it as if it's immoral. i dont think its right and i think the only way to fix it is for women to stand up for what they believe in and if that means that they want to date a younger guy, then they should go for what they want and not give a damn what society thinks.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 854
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Posted: 11/25/2007 7:02:31 PM
Given all the negative things being said about guys my age in here by the women my age, maybe it wouldn't be such a bad idea to start aiming for the 20-25 year old range. At least they don't seem to have such a cynical attitude towards men my age. Thanks for the eye opener ladies. At least now I know better than to waste my time with women in the 35-50 year old range.
 TTC 2008
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 858
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Posted: 11/30/2007 7:22:20 AM
Are we talking about a guy in his 30' s and a woman in her 90's. Then I say go for it
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 867
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Posted: 12/14/2007 7:30:52 PM
Outofthedesert: I don't really care who they're polling, it's a fact. This has been proven to me by a lot of women I've spoken to. I know that there is a theory that women want sex the more they have it. The catch is that the 30% that don't want it probably won't bother so it's impossible for them to have it enough to want it. I've even found that a lot of younger women don't think sex is a big deal either. I've heard plenty of women say that they do it if their boyfriend wants it to be nice but time could be spent doing more important things, etc. This isn't everyone but it's definitely an attitude that's out there.
 newfinland
Joined: 2/17/2007
Msg: 868
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Posted: 12/14/2007 8:15:18 PM
You know this is 2007, therefore why are we even debating age differences?
If I, you, we, are attracted to someone there shouldn't be any reason possible NOT to 'go for it'.....whether it's a sexual relationship or friendship which can lead into a LTR.
The term "robbing the cradle" is assinine and outdated!
There are 40, 50, 60+ women who think, look and ARE great in their intelligence, appearance and demeanors.
If there's an attraction and the guy isn't too young, why not, men have been doing this for years, and years and it's rarely questioned.
There's a definite attitude which has prevailed for too damn long re older women going out with younger men.
I can't stand the double standard; it's not always for sex, it's enjoying each other's company, doing things together.
There has to be an attraction. Period....it's time we stopped debating the older women, younger men thing. If the possibilities are there between two people, just simply GO FOR IT, FOR WHATEVER REASON.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 869
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Posted: 12/14/2007 8:28:32 PM
"Double standard" ???. You mean like the way women can date men no matter how young but still be thought of as in control and someone who knows what she wants or my favorite, "young at heart". When a man chases younger women he's always thought of as a letch, immature or pathetic. You tell me where the REAL double standard is. Even if the guy is a minor, women rarely face the same consequences from society and the law that men do. The situation is often blamed on the male involved. Now that's a double standard.
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 873
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Posted: 12/15/2007 5:01:25 AM
I think it depends on the maturity of the woman. I meet a lot of very immature men, but even more immature women. So for those women, it makes sense.
 Creestar
Joined: 12/3/2006
Msg: 875
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Posted: 12/16/2007 2:08:02 PM
Way to go Hatha! I would love to date a younger man too...which I have before. However, I have also dated 40 and 50 yr old men, some were very interesting and active. Anyone in Alberta interested?
 Mr Bain
Joined: 12/6/2004
Msg: 879
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Posted: 12/17/2007 4:54:00 PM
It's kind of amusing watching an older women pretend to act offended or appalled when I ask her out. I'm not fooled, and I know she has to keep her guard up.
 magnusfl
Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 880
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Posted: 12/19/2007 7:33:00 PM
Not a problem as long as they look relatively appropriate in age if not,
it looks just as bad as a man who is dating some one younger
Personally I date women 10-15 years younger as I never found a single lady my age that did not look 10- 15 years older then me
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 883
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Posted: 3/6/2008 1:08:30 PM
Younger is far more trainable....but you do have to find a balance where you can actually have a conversation when you want to...so there's that too. : )
 travd_ky
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 886
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Posted: 3/9/2008 9:09:33 PM
anyone under 38 in here
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 889
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Posted: 3/11/2008 9:02:28 PM
Enchanted: I think I can make the same argument for a lot of younger women. They seem more together and open to conversation vs. the judgmental seemingly immature and fickle attitudes of older women. Combine that with the irritating urge that older women seem to have for constantly trying to show how "youthful" they are (which screams insecurity to me) and I'm gradually coming to the conclusion that everyone is right and maybe dating younger is the way to go. Not that it matters because the majority of women my age probably wouldn't give me the time of day once they find out I'm over 30 anyway. Suits me fine since I'm probably dodging a giant bullet.
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