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Joined: 4/24/2008
Msg: 948
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Why would anyone cheat on you...if your personallity is anything like your smile they would have no reason to cheat!!!!!!!!!!!!
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 950
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Posted: 9/22/2008 6:42:31 AM

It's okay if the young fellow is looking for a mommy to take care of him. Or the young man whose too ugly to hit it with a woman his own age. Every young man knows older women are easier to bed.

It's ok for an older man to date a younger woman if the young woman is looking for a daddy to take care of her. Every young woman knows older men are easier to separate from their money.

See? I can project stupid thoughts based on nothing too. Works the same in reverse.
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 951
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Posted: 9/22/2008 6:53:09 AM
I don't think I've ever seen a woman with a younger man that made me feel jealous, or as though I were missing out on anything. I say go for it.
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 953
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Posted: 9/22/2008 8:35:52 AM
DJChickie, When you go out with your boytoy who is paying? Boytoys don't come cheap.

First, why don't you show me where I said I had one...?? My point was generalizing sucks...if someone wants a boytoy, why does anyone care?

P.S. From what I have learned, boytoys aren't for "out" (you know - toy=shelf and all that?) - that's what the guy your dating is for. And if you always pay for yourself, you don't owe anyone anything. Get it straight! lol
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 955
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Posted: 9/22/2008 1:42:13 PM
I love hanging out with and dating younger men...18 and up to usually 35 is my generally range that im most attracted to. ...and yes im old enought to have an 18 year old son...but i make SURE they are not related to me first!!! I'd love to find someone around 30 to settle down with for good...I havent given up still
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 956
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Posted: 9/22/2008 1:49:50 PM
****If age really is "just a number" AARP wouldn't be in business.****

~OT~ I prefer younger. I have many reasons for my preference and I stick to that preference. As I've gotten older, I don't venture very far from my own age. Ideally, 40-44 works for me.
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 957
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Posted: 9/22/2008 2:40:15 PM
The big bonus isn't the sex, although... wow. The big bonus is the energy. It's clean and wholesome and kind. The younger men today fall into two groups, the unevolved and the evolved. The unevolved ones are just your ordinary, run of the mill guy. But the self-aware guy who has a vision and his act together, there's no age to them. They are the quintessential hero who is still in his prime and has ideals backed by the energy to carry them out. I can't save the men my age who I've met - they would be "projects." After living my life out for others, I'm done with fixing and projects. I am working on me and paying attention to taking care of my own needs. It seems the only ones on the same page are younger men who are not clinging to some emotional wound, vibing on co-dependency or give off the energy of being "on the make." They're not desperate and neither am I, so it works out. There's no games because neither one of us would be in the relationship if we didn't really appreciate and like each other's qualities.
Joined: 7/17/2007
Msg: 958
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Posted: 9/22/2008 5:06:26 PM
I think its great! I am an older man who loves dated and fooling around with younger women..but not too young. I dont need and feel very awkward having a relationship or sex with a woman who is old enough to be my daughter. That to me is just...wrong!
Older women, similar to older guy, sometimes look for a sexual relationship with a young person. Its the experience..make me feel young! And they share different perspectives, if they decide to talk. Older women are more adventurous in bed.
Depends on how young the younger man is!
Women in their late 30's & 40's, I love. Married or divorced or widowed!
The older woman is wanting to recapture her youth (and so do I)...maybe her husband , the old man is not paying attention to her. The older woman is usually dynamite in bed! She will be experience or wants to be held more!
Joined: 3/18/2007
Msg: 959
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Posted: 9/22/2008 8:01:48 PM
I have been approached by many men as much as 20 years younger. At first, I was shocked, but always flattered. I would never approach a much younger man myself though because of the fear of being inappropriate. Although it seems to me that they would find it inappropriate, it seems that many young men do not feel that way. I would suggest, if you are interested, strike up a polite conversation and then invite her for coffee. Be polite. Don't call her a MILF or GILF or be too overtly sexual. You will soon find out if she is interested. If not, you will likely make her day. Or she may want you for her daughter.
Also, when I was on here, I would send winks to younger men who I found interesting. That way they could look at my profile and if they found me interesting, despite my age, they could contact me. If they didn't, I would never contact them again. Most had not seen my profile because of the age category.
Joined: 9/2/2007
Msg: 961
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Posted: 9/24/2008 10:19:58 AM
Your last line sounds dangerously close to a challenge and one thing I sincerely enjoy is a challenge. The more I've read about you the more intriguing you become. Sure looking forward to learning more about you.

All the best and bye for now, Joe
Joined: 2/1/2008
Msg: 962
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Posted: 10/4/2008 10:41:38 PM
Hello. I am 32 looking for an older lady to be with and my number is 770-906-7705.

Joined: 6/6/2006
Msg: 964
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Posted: 10/12/2008 6:01:46 AM
I've been with a women who have been 10 and 15 years older then me and i have enjoyed the experiance. I like dealign with older women becuase they generaly have their act together and don't want to play stupid little games. :)
Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 965
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Posted: 10/12/2008 9:19:30 AM
There is something absolutely erotic about a cougar. As for love and a relationship, won't work. If the sex is good, go for it.
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 967
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Posted: 10/12/2008 9:55:07 AM
Works for me if the younger guys feels the same...
Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 969
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Posted: 10/12/2008 1:33:45 PM
I dated one sweet, considerate and hardworking guy 14 years younger for a few months. Too bad we both had very busy heavy duty schedules that conflicted a lot.
Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 972
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Posted: 10/12/2008 5:17:34 PM
It's no wonder some older guys seem a bit jealous. But please don't hate the messenger, hate the player...

Younger men actually prefer mature women and date them exclusively since girls their age are self centered, clueless about what they want in life and play way tooooo many head games. I've been told on many many occasions why they don't want to date women their age so I think it's the young men who should be held responsible for their feelings instead of yet again, putting it on women for attracting their interest.

So if a young man decides to ogle and pursue an older woman, don't be jealous of the older jealous that the younger men know what they want. At least they do the pursuing.
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 973
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Posted: 10/12/2008 7:10:03 PM
I came across a great song that is the perfect anthem for the cougars among you.

Oh, it's free to listen to, by the way. No copyright infringement.

It's called Middle Aged Blues Boogie by a fantastic female trio... Saffire - Uppity Blues Women.

If you listen to the lyrics, you'll hear some very familiar refrains that echo through all of the Forums. Enjoy!
Joined: 4/15/2008
Msg: 974
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Posted: 10/12/2008 7:20:24 PM
Go for it!

P.S. Just got a message saying, messages this short might not get posted, geez I have nothing else to say, why force me saying more??? lol
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 976
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Posted: 10/29/2008 9:03:19 PM
If that's what your into go for it. Just don't expect a lot of responses from guys that would fit better in your life if your in your 40s and list preferences to date between 20s and 40s. It's just my opinion but if someone is looking for someone with a 20 year age difference I don't want to date her. I actually turned down a quite attractive girl that was 20 years younger not long ago. She was also very mature and intelligent but I really didn't think it would be fair to her. Still kicking myself once in awhile lol...
Joined: 8/16/2008
Msg: 978
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Posted: 11/3/2008 10:04:21 AM
i feel fine so long as i'm not the younger man LOL.
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 979
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Posted: 11/3/2008 10:37:59 AM
Age is nothing but a number. As long as the person doesn't say its "fine" for me but its "wrong" for everyone else. I could care less.

Best of luck to everyone
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 982
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Posted: 11/7/2008 8:21:13 AM
rigger: After reading your profile I think you should be worrying less about finding an older woman and more about how you can relocate to Thailand. lol. Sorry I couldn't resist. My friend married a woman from Thailand and while he was visiting one time the girls thought he was an actor and were following him around as well. lol.
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 983
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Posted: 11/7/2008 12:39:22 PM
Just curious as to where the term "cougar" comes from.
Joined: 11/12/2007
Msg: 984
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Posted: 11/7/2008 8:07:47 PM
If the chemistry is there, I don't see why not!
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