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 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 1021
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The old "No offense, but..." routine?


If I am banned from the forums one more time, I can't come back. So, yeah, I have learned to be PC.


(Very mature of you BTW.)


I am very immature and am the first to admit it.


But... I still find plenty of attractive women to date. So far, they tend not to be as attractive on the inside, or grown enough mentally and emotionally.


I am truly confused . . . you can't find attractive women, yet you date them. Or, wait, you just can't find attractive women who are mature? What you REALLY want is a good-looking woman who is mentally and emotionally "grown," but an emotionally and mentally stable ugly one is not desirable.

Is that it?
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 1022
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Posted: 1/6/2009 7:18:33 PM

I am truly confused . . .


See. If we discuss something long enough we can find something we agree upon.
 VivaciousVixen2010
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 1023
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Posted: 1/6/2009 7:20:25 PM
Because older men or 30's 40's don't take responsibility and a younger man has a hard****that rocks the night and the day all the time :) with a great BIG STRONG SMILE
plus old men old deadbeats!!!!!!!!!!! demanding.........don't call...........only want it once a week

LAME
I would rather have a fertile turtle
Give me happy balls and A NICE LONG FIRM TERM
 good_catch77
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 1025
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Posted: 1/6/2009 8:23:48 PM

Because older men or 30's 40's don't take responsibility and a younger man has a hard****that rocks the night and the day all the time :) with a great BIG STRONG SMILE
plus old men old deadbeats!!!!!!!!!!! demanding.........don't call...........only want it once a week


If I was to put the same words in form of why I'd rather have a younger chick, I would have been bashed all the way to next week and then some. Proof that this is a double standard.

Like so

Because older women in there 30's 40's have too much baggage and a younger woman has a tight ****** that rocks the night and day all the time :) with a great BIG SEXY SMILE.

Plus older women are deadbeats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!demanding........don't call......only want it once a week.

Case and point have a nice day.
 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 1026
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Posted: 1/7/2009 6:42:32 AM

See. If we discuss something long enough we can find something we agree upon.


Witty comeback (snort), but you didn't answer my questions.


Older women can give off The! ego killer that can make a younger guy scorn for life.


Okay Smile, why would rejection from an older woman be any more hurtful or scathing than a rejection from a younger woman? Is it because SOME younger men perceive older women as desperate for young guys, so to be rejected would be a rejection from a desperate woman? I think a rejection from an "undesirable" is probably more ego killing that a rejection from someone hot.
 Onceuponatime61
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 1027
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Posted: 1/7/2009 12:07:38 PM
MSG#1430 gwendolyn2008 wrote;Okay Smile, why would rejection from an older woman be any more hurtful or scathing than a rejection from a younger woman?
Rejection being most hurtful to me has nothing to do with being young or old. Rejection hurts me the most when it's someone I really like an am attracted to at any age. As a general rule I've always been a bit more attraced to women slightly older than me with a little extra junk in the trunk.
 Fifi47
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 1029
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Posted: 1/8/2009 3:58:13 PM
Everyone has a right to state an opinion, but the comment regarding "fat chicks or older women" I found to be offensive. As an older, "fat chick", I still have my share of older and younger men who find me sexy, attractive and interesting. Believe it or not, some men do find fat, intelligent, older women quite appealing.
 p3hndrx
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 1030
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Posted: 1/8/2009 6:16:27 PM
I was 23, she was 36 (~13 years). it was great. We really clicked physically and intellectually. She was a total fantasy for me; experience, few hang-ups, confident, independent. I was young, mature, energetic. We were together for about 6 months, and it ended nicely. Still very close.

My last real relationship lasted about 11 months.. I was 24, she was 32 (~7 years). She was not quite with-it.

I think it really depends on the chemistry.
 Arkainium
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 1032
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Posted: 1/16/2009 7:16:37 PM
Thank you! and some of us younger men realize just how nice it is to hang with someone who isn't into all that night clubbing stuff that we once were, and the girls of our age group still are!
 GELLIS87
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 1033
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Posted: 1/16/2009 7:20:17 PM
Same here trooper. im fed up with girls who are so into looks they dont put their mirror down when we are having dinner
 Arkainium
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 1034
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Posted: 1/16/2009 7:46:55 PM
Anytime my friend! Anytime, and good luck! I'm just so tired of loud music, smoking, being drunk, etc... Howabout some culture! Some closeness. Hay, maybe even some kids!
 chuckyB51
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 1035
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Posted: 1/16/2009 9:59:38 PM
Sometimes an older woman is nice. It's great to have someone that is mature and hasn't been raised by MTV.
 Meowza
Joined: 1/2/2009
Msg: 1036
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Posted: 1/16/2009 11:35:47 PM
In my particular case, it worked out great! He approached me. I was a little hesitant because of the age difference (BIG), but he assured me it was fine. And it was! I think it really depends on what both people want out of the relationship. For me, it was pure play and fun. He liked older women. It worked for both of us.
 Fifi47
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 1037
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Posted: 1/17/2009 11:07:59 AM
All older women do not have a lot of baggage, and many men seem to love and want younger women with a lot of baggage. Deadbeats? I seem to know a lot of younger women who are living off their parents or their boyfriends, and a lot of older women who have worked at least one or two jobs for years to support themselves and/or their children, or help out with family members.
 Fifi47
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 1040
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Posted: 1/17/2009 11:16:53 AM
Most of my replies on POF as of late have been from men who are between 25 and 30, which is way too young for me (and also shows me that they did not read my profile)...they always say that older women are more sexual, etc., some say that larger women are desperate for sex ( that one really makes me want to respond to his message...haha)....Some younger men might appreciate an older woman's life experiences and maturity, most of the ones that I have encountered online seem to think we are an easy sexual target.
 good_catch77
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 1041
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Posted: 1/18/2009 6:04:05 PM
[quote}Older, with a tight Yoni that rocks... and you sound like someone who never dated and older woman or you sucked as a lover. Women peak sexually when older while men peak at a young age. Sounds like nature wanted cougars to be with cubs

Hey I was just turning around a quote from an older woman on why they love younger men after this it proves my double standard point. The woman can critize the older men by saying that the younger men can do more than the older men. But I put her in her place and get critized saying that I "sucked as a lover." I guess you only read what you choose to read. And not the entire post. Woops, your bad.

By the way that is not my opinion of older women I was just "flipping the coin" to show how rediculous that sounded. IMO I think as long as the older women don't get on to me about wanting someone younger than me then I won't get on to them wanting the same. But I will be the first to point out a double standard no matter what my personal opinion.

Best of luck to everyone.
 good_catch77
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 1042
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Posted: 1/18/2009 6:05:48 PM
just fyi on which post I quoted msg 1425 on page 57
 10of6
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 1043
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Posted: 1/18/2009 6:21:06 PM

How do you feel about a sexual relationship between a younger man and an older woman?
I feel it's none of mine--or anyone else's--business. Epic fail of a question [with credit to BigDaddyJinx for the use of the term].
 chaos1367
Joined: 1/17/2009
Msg: 1044
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Posted: 1/20/2009 3:26:55 PM
i would love to have sex with a older woman i feel that if you still got it use it and i will be there to get it ladies
 UpanComin
Joined: 10/26/2008
Msg: 1045
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Posted: 1/21/2009 8:49:17 PM
i think it's been a fantasy for every man at least once to start a relationship with their teacher, men like women with experience too.
 ComicDoc
Joined: 2/24/2008
Msg: 1051
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Posted: 1/29/2009 4:59:38 PM
Age is just a number. It's all about the attraction, chemisty, etc..

That being said, there is something about an older woman that is very sexy. What it is, I'm not sure.
 annnabella33
Joined: 9/9/2008
Msg: 1054
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Posted: 1/29/2009 5:57:30 PM
I honestly believe that it depends on the people.. Older women and younger men are definately physically compatible but all the science books already tell us that.. but it comes down to is a individual thing.. everyone carries / handles themselves in a different manor.
 ComicDoc
Joined: 2/24/2008
Msg: 1055
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Posted: 1/29/2009 6:02:06 PM
Blue Note - if the chemistry was instantly there, why deny yourself the happiness. Don't worry about what others think - well, as long as he's legal :)
 mscloverct
Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 1058
52/60 = ok
Posted: 2/14/2009 7:41:02 AM
just wanted to add my 2 cents worth without getting into my business to much but,52 and 60 works out just fine. At first i didn't think it was going to work but works very well, i'm outgoing and he's more layed back not sure yet where i'ts going it's been 1 yr. that's all ya need to know. Happy Valentines Day to all you wonderful men.
 ByronHayes
Joined: 1/30/2009
Msg: 1062
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Posted: 2/21/2009 7:25:43 PM
I only date women about a decade or so older than myself. Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for a midlife crisis in play. Meaning, I am not looking for a 40 year old trying hard to be 25, I'm looking for a 40 year old IN GOOD SHAPE that behaves/dresses/talks like a 40 year old. So age is important to me. But younger women don't make any sense to me WHATSOEVER!!
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