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 redredrose1948
Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 1105
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Well, age is a matter of the mind. If you don't mind it does't matter. I was married to my guy for 30 years and we were together 2 years befor that and it worked just fine. He was 10 years my junior and he just passed away on Christmas Eve of 08. So don't tell me that that can't work, you both have to work at it .
 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 1107
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Posted: 8/6/2009 12:19:39 AM
it's a very personal preference...my boyfriend of 5 years was 14 years younger than me...it worked for us..probably because I have the mentality of an 11 year old and he is really an old man , lol.
 DR_RUTHLESS
Joined: 11/2/2009
Msg: 1108
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Posted: 11/7/2009 9:38:26 PM
"Why is it that most of the guys who are critical of the subject at hand are guys in their 40's ?? Is it because women their age are having fun with the younger guys? Is it because they aren't too successful with the younger females? "

you are generalizing and what kind of fun, I am sure the fella is having a riot too if that's what she wants

I don't see too many couples on the streets where the man is younger, it is unnatural /freaky.

I am not sure who would want to try to be successful with anyone much younger regardless of gender unless it was just dating or bordering intimate encounter anyway

personally, cougars are a dead turn off, anything seeking more than a few years younger strike me as unstable or immoral but each to their own I guess... I can see anyone with class taking them seriously in my opinion.
 spunkybum52
Joined: 9/8/2009
Msg: 1112
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Posted: 11/10/2009 4:20:45 AM
It has to be whatever suits the 2 people involved..... you can't just make one rule for everyone and say its ok, or it's not ok. The same with younger women/ older men. Personally, I feel if it's just for sex, then there must be some kind of chemistry there between them for them to have a good sex life. If it's a relationship, then you have to be more careful. My friend married a man 15 years younger than her, and in the beginning it was good, but as time went on, the age difference definitely came out, and they ended the marriage in disaster. That's not saying it can't work, because I feel it can. I'm just saying if you are planning to make a real relationship out of it, you will have to work at the differences.
 spunkybum52
Joined: 9/8/2009
Msg: 1114
older women younger men
Posted: 11/10/2009 4:14:32 PM
Well I have had younger men, and I can tell you, a lot of them have disappointed me big time
 chameleonf
Joined: 12/22/2008
Msg: 1115
older women younger men
Posted: 11/10/2009 4:54:33 PM
I say to each their own, but sitting back and watching in a club (people watching in clubs is sooooo entertaining), the cougars are pretty sad to watch. The ones who purposefully are going out of their way to attract the younger guys...and the same thing applies to the men who are attempting to attract the younger women. The younger guys are obviously out for sex from a woman they deem to have all kinds of sexual experience and will show and do things to them that they won't or can't get from younger women. Just because they think that, doesn't necessarily make it true, but that's the perception.

Young guys are pretty much hormonal thinking and will get what they can. I'm not saying every young guy - that would just be stupid...but the ones who go after some of these older women in the clubs are a different breed. Frankly, I find the women who are actively seeking the younger guy, at least in this type of setting, pretty pathetic. They have a certain look of desperation about them. They don't generally dress age appropriate. It's not that a number of them don't have very nice bodies. Half the time I'll see them from behind first and think how nice they look because the body suits the clothing...and then they turn around and it's like either the face of The Joker from so much plastic surgery, or it's the face of the old Sea Hag from the Popeye cartoons. Who am I to judge though...they're both out to prove or get something to stroke their egos...or just to stroke whatever they feel like stroking physically. The guys may also be looking for someone to provide them with material perks, just as some young women will do with older men.

The above is a different sort of scenario, however, than two people who actually find themselves well suited to each other, for various reasons that go beyond sex. There are a number of young men who are more mature than their age, and there are a number of women who are younger at heart and in actions and even looks than other women their age. It's unusual to find this though. I'd wager to say that the majority of people seeking others or being drawn to others of an extreme age difference tend to suffer from some form of emotional problems, the examples of which are likely many and not singular at all.

At any rate, it's their life to live and their own skin they have to be comfortable in. It's just not for me. My guy is only 6 years younger than myself. At this stage, that's not considered a difference at all, but that's probably as big of a difference I'd ever be comfortable with - again for many reasons.
 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 1117
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Posted: 11/10/2009 5:13:49 PM

"so when can I come over for sex?" is usually all they write...


Old guys do the same thing. I had a man my age write to me this morning, wanting to come to my town and spend a couple of nights with me.
 chameleonf
Joined: 12/22/2008
Msg: 1118
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Posted: 11/10/2009 5:17:39 PM
I had a man my age write to me this morning, wanting to come to my town and spend a couple of nights with me.

Which proves there are just plain downright pigs at any age (of both genders - but you do find this more so prevelant with males - some women may wish for it but don't even attempt to contact in that way).
 salam1973
Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 1119
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Posted: 11/22/2009 10:43:02 PM
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 kylad
Joined: 10/17/2007
Msg: 1120
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Posted: 11/23/2009 3:13:15 PM
I think sexually tis possible to date women older but thier bodies are rarely hot, I can remember one my age that was incredible, I think a woman dating a man 15 years younger than her is getting a loser usually and he cant find women his age at least. OR more readily younger. The women fools her self into believing they like her and of course shes hot for his 15 year younger body. HEs out of their fast the next morning I bet. HA HA.
 Mr.Versatility
Joined: 11/12/2009
Msg: 1121
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Posted: 11/23/2009 3:32:44 PM
Hey theres nothing sexier than an older woman, who takes care of herself is independant and knows what she wants...

I dont know why people care so much, to each his own....

I still run across older women who are dead set against dating a younger man or having anything to do with them, As much as I know I could change their whole perspective, I let it go, everyone has the right to their own preference....
 LaughterReigns
Joined: 5/18/2009
Msg: 1122
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Posted: 11/23/2009 8:08:00 PM

I think a woman dating a man 15 years younger than her is getting a loser usually and he cant find women his age at least. OR more readily younger. The women fools her self into believing they like her and of course shes hot for his 15 year younger body. HEs out of their fast the next morning I bet. HA HA.


It must be difficult to see with your head up your arse. Men like you amaze me. Double standards...gotta love them.
 LaughterReigns
Joined: 5/18/2009
Msg: 1123
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Posted: 11/23/2009 9:02:57 PM
This coming from a man who is willing to date women who are 16 years younger. Do you have an addiction problem? That's exactly what I'm talking about -- double standards -- I absolutely despise them.
 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 1126
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Posted: 11/27/2009 8:45:17 PM

I think sexually tis possible to date women older but thier bodies are rarely hot,


I am not quite sure what you mean by saying it is "sexually possible"--it makes it sounds as if dating a man my age isn't sexually possible.

As far as hot bodies and older women having them: My body is hotter than the plethora of young women who weigh in excess of 200 pounds. In truth, fewer and fewer women of any age have "hot bodies," and if the trend of morbid obesity in the young continues, older women who take care of themselves will get even hotter.


I can remember one my age that was incredible,


Do you mean "can" or "can't"?


I think a woman dating a man 15 years younger than her is getting a loser


Hmm . . . you diss the bodies of old women, which means that you probably don't desire them and date younger women, yet those younger women are not losers? You think that they are dating YOU for YOUR hot body? Snort.

I would rather have sex with a young loser who has a hard body than an older loser with a flaccid penis.


I was molested as a teen by an older woman . . . and no it wasnt fun . . . . so I dont approve.


Who is talking about sex with minors???


I guess what I am saying is that you would be further ahead if you think about yourself and your relationships (sort of like minding your own business)


Same to you.
 ashley868
Joined: 1/15/2008
Msg: 1130
older women younger men
Posted: 11/28/2009 4:04:37 PM
I won't do it, but I don't see anything wrong with other people doing it. My older sister is with a guy two years younger then her and they are a good couple. I can't imagine her with anyone else. I dated a guy three years younger then me very briefly and I couldn't do it. He was a great guy, but I couldn't stop thinking about that fact that he was too young. A year younger maybe... I liked a guy who was 21 when I was 22. I prefer older guys.
 DCEG
Joined: 7/7/2009
Msg: 1133
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Posted: 12/9/2009 11:15:47 PM
Sixty-three pages later and most of these older women are still lying their ass off about their willingness to have a sexual, discrete relationship with younger men!

I've had the pleasure of meeting NUMEROUS older women who claim to be open to any age partners, and the majority of them are all talk and no sex. If you want "older women younger man" then go Google some porn. Until then, step up your game and go younger women all the way!
 Georgeesco
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 1134
older women younger men
Posted: 12/10/2009 10:01:52 PM
I agree! Nothing wrong at all!
 DR_RUTHLESS
Joined: 11/2/2009
Msg: 1135
older women younger men
Posted: 12/12/2009 12:24:01 PM
women prefer it... but no man respects it

women are left empty after the younger fella arrives late, stays a short time, and leaves early only to infrequently call.... most men been there done that but not most wimmen

each to their own but cougars will never find their soul mate, imagine telling the real deal what they did and then there is always the loss of self respect that can never be regained ...

it's gross... though wimmen don't think so from a psychological perspective... they type best avoided like the plague.

We get who we are, not who we want. Well worth building character like exercising a muscle than permanently damaging it.

poor brave cougars, I feel sorry for them
 Mr.Versatility
Joined: 11/12/2009
Msg: 1136
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Posted: 12/12/2009 12:59:07 PM

women prefer it... but no man respects it

women are left empty after the younger fella arrives late, stays a short time, and leaves early only to infrequently call.... most men been there done that but not most wimmen

each to their own but cougars will never find their soul mate, imagine telling the real deal what they did and then there is always the loss of self respect that can never be regained ...

it's gross... though wimmen don't think so from a psychological perspective... they type best avoided like the plague.

We get who we are, not who we want. Well worth building character like exercising a muscle than permanently damaging it.

poor brave cougars, I feel sorry for them



some peoples perspectives really show you the lack of intelligence this world has...

Ok, I don't really see why people care so much what other people do with their lives or how they live it, the only people I see whining about older women liking younger men, are older men who are insecure enough to let it bother them, and the few older women who maybe never met a younger man that could let her see younger men in a brighter light.. or just prudes...

I'm sorry but I will take a woman whos 35+ any day of the year opposed to a woman who is 25, Older women in most cases are done with the games, they go for what they want, and they value good guys alot better than younger women do, they see for their character more than younger women do......


Another thing, not all younger men show up late or seldem call and all that bs that this guy says in my quoted paragraph....

SO whats the point in letting this get to you people, Older women will continue living more fullfilling prosperous lives with their younger men and some will be lonely...lol and never really know what the better things in life are like.
 english lass
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 1137
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Posted: 12/12/2009 1:12:16 PM
if that's what they want, then why not

as long as both parties are clear on what their expectations/hopes are
 Possessions
Joined: 10/3/2009
Msg: 1138
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Posted: 12/12/2009 1:16:50 PM
If I could find an older man that wasn't boring, I might try to date an older man. I've also come across older men who act just as immature as the younger men do.

I am more drawn to younger men as they have a fun spirit. A more positive spirit and positive outlook on life that I don't find in a lot of older men. Most the older men I find that same positive energy and spirit it are already married.
 northwoods57
Joined: 7/17/2007
Msg: 1139
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Posted: 4/10/2010 11:43:09 AM
enjoy! The much older men take their time, bring a woman to orgasm. She is looking for a man that will make her feel young again, go for it, and HAVE FUN!
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 1140
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Posted: 4/10/2010 6:19:34 PM

I just wish I had met all these younger men who have been contacting me (before I put age restrictions on my profile) when I was in my twenties. Oh, wait... They weren't born yet!

I asked the last two to fix me up with their dads.


 urs60609
Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 1141
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Posted: 4/12/2010 1:42:11 PM
I am already in my early 50's, so the fun of getting to date an older woman is evaporating. But it's always been my fantasy. Even one long kiss with a woman several years older than myself would be wonderful. (sigh)
 OSUguy99
Joined: 4/8/2009
Msg: 1145
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Posted: 4/12/2010 10:54:09 PM
i see alot of women prefacing their comments in if its just for fun, or just sex its fun fun fun. i would see this as a defense mechanism to claim your using the guy for sex because you know 9 times out of 10 any 24 yr old male seeking women 30 and up its only about one thing. i dont think its cool in the reverse either, any 24 yr old woman with a 40 yr old is in it for security and cash. i guess the question is why are so many people (espescially the older "more mature") ok with being used and using others. some things just aint natural. i would think more older women would have more self worth than being some checkmark crossed off some guys to do fetish list.
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