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 ocean_park
Joined: 6/17/2011
Msg: 1229
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I have dated men that were 5, 10, even 15 yrs younger than me. However I do think age can matter when the age difference is really large even when the younger man is mature. A FWB / casual relationship between myself and a man who is 20+ years younger than me could work out. But I doubt we would have enough in common for a LTR to work out.
 sarahbc
Joined: 6/22/2011
Msg: 1230
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Posted: 6/27/2011 4:01:27 PM
Well they seem to always say try something once. I went on my first date with a younger guy he was 32 and I am 49. Wow (there was no sex involved) but he made me feel like the most important woman around. His eyes never left me and he definetely new how to hold a conversation. As far as it becoming a serious relationship I think I would have to look at myself and the insecurities I might have being with someone that much younger. I plan on seeing him again and just enjoy what is being placed in my life at this time and moment. :)
 55young
Joined: 10/8/2007
Msg: 1231
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Posted: 6/27/2011 10:05:10 PM
I think it all depends on the individuals. There are a lot of older women out there that prefer a younger sex partner. I do feel there are more people who have a hard time accepting a younger man with an older woman than if it were the other way around.
 AprilTaurus01
Joined: 6/25/2011
Msg: 1232
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Posted: 6/28/2011 11:10:54 AM
I def enjoy the company of a younger man......esp if he is mature mentally and emotionally and into health and taking care of himself...
 sweetjeezus
Joined: 12/28/2010
Msg: 1233
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Posted: 6/28/2011 1:06:51 PM
As cliche as this may sound, it is all in the chemistry, that being said, I have experienced a long term relationship with a much younger man. We met shortly after my divorce and it was fireworks from the beginning. It worked VERY WELL until we reached the "next step" part. Meeting his family was not an issue for he or I but I was met by a wall from them. I was comfortable with the whole situation until the questions, comment, glares, and the manipulation that began from his family, especially his sister. It ended in a disaster. He felt as though he was forced to choose his family or me and in the end, I was the one to break up. He became very angry.. and for a couple months getting me back was his only focus..

So it all depends on where this relationship leads.. Draw lines from the beginning and if something comes of it, be prepared for what will come.. women are very protective of their children and you may be met by the same issues I did. But ENJOY IT til then.
 Landi1AZ
Joined: 6/17/2011
Msg: 1234
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Posted: 6/28/2011 2:38:48 PM
Key words, EX. Chatted with one online, 42yrs old and looking for 30-44? Asked her whats wrong with guys her age? Her reply, "both my ex husbands were much younger than me." In the words of Dr. Phil (the tool) "hows that working for ya?" Oh wait, BOTH my EX'S! The definition of insanity, is to keep making the same mistakes. But expecting a different result. Can't say they let for younger girls, but high potential!
This coming from a guy. Who has "dated" older women almost exclusively, for many years. We e-mail them, because some are still attractive. And because ALL are easy lays. Middle aged women are horny old broads, with self esteem issues. They HATE getting older, want to show they can still "compete." Show their EX, they upgraded, make their girlfriends jealous, etc. (read other postings)
Truly, the sex can be very good. But emotionally, they all seem to think the foutain of youth. Comes from between a young mans legs. It's shallow and untrue. And who are all these 40-50 guys you women are meeting, that can't seem to preform? Is it HIS age causing it? Or just maybe, HE needs a younger, fitter, hotter and MORE exciting girl, to get it up? (food for thought)
 Friendly widow
Joined: 11/24/2009
Msg: 1235
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Posted: 6/28/2011 2:43:52 PM
I think that is a crock of BS!^^^
 4ms4me
Joined: 4/24/2010
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Posted: 6/28/2011 3:18:47 PM

And because ALL are easy lays. Middle aged women are horny old broads, with self esteem issues. They HATE getting older, want to show they can still "compete."

Are you trolling?

Is it HIS age causing it? Or just maybe, HE needs a younger, fitter, hotter and MORE exciting girl, to get it up?

If a young(ish) man, such as yourself, can get it up with a horny-old-middle-aged-semi-attractive broad, why can't an older man? Is it because he's getting old, hates it, has self-esteem issues, wants to know he can still "compete"?

But emotionally, they all seem to think the foutain of youth. Comes from between a young (wo)mans legs

Ahhhh ... that explains it.
 Handyman434
Joined: 3/15/2011
Msg: 1237
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Posted: 6/28/2011 6:03:45 PM
I have always liked older women because most didn't have all that drama. But now I am 50 and my target enviroment has shrunk miserably! lol
 spdlmt69
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 1238
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Posted: 8/15/2011 4:01:58 AM
i married a much younger guy even though we did not meet on here. And it has been great sexual and everything else. He is 12 years younger then i am.
 ayo4424
Joined: 8/7/2011
Msg: 1239
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Posted: 8/15/2011 8:58:30 AM
I love me some older women.
 domo30
Joined: 6/7/2010
Msg: 1240
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Posted: 8/24/2011 10:18:46 AM
Im only into younger men. Im not attracted to grey hair or guys with 6 kids or divorced more than one time at my age and physically men in their 30s arent appealing to me
 unYOUsual
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 1241
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Posted: 8/24/2011 11:08:57 AM
I think that in any relationship with an age disparity one or both individuals have an emotional or psychological issue....there is no reason to date someone more than 10 years younger or older than you are...
 carolineb177
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 1242
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Posted: 8/24/2011 12:09:09 PM
i just like to add ! i've always been into younger men .i dont know why just have .. they have to bee in there 40"s nothing younger ..as a matter of fact i'm seeing a 44 yr old now ,, we dont let the age difference bother us ..like they say its only a number .. i've had 20 yr olds hitting on me ,,and they say its only a number ,,, i tell them i could be your mother ,,they just say its only a number .. and you really have to take it in how you feel .. he;s mature and its no problem ,then its no problem for me either >>.
 Jypzee
Joined: 6/22/2011
Msg: 1243
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Posted: 8/24/2011 3:51:17 PM
i prefer younger men..10-20 yrs younger..
 OneShotRising
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 1244
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Posted: 8/24/2011 7:57:42 PM
Wasn't Dustin hoffman in a movie about that in the 60's??
 Jypzee
Joined: 6/22/2011
Msg: 1245
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Posted: 8/24/2011 9:48:43 PM
there r women that are age 40 and up that looked damn good and they are not suffering from cellulite, sagging boobs, and bellies or stretchmarks, or wrinkly face and one of the reasons they r confident and good in bed is cos they know they look good and have known it all their lives..and i have seen women under age 40 that didnt look near as good as some of these older women...click around on some of the profiles on here and u will see what i mean: there r good-looking/average-looking/homely younger and older women and men on here..it just depends on the individual, their genes, their health, their body's porportions, physique, excercise, diet, ect, and some were lucky and got a good roll of the dice when it came to looks...i have also known women and men that looked good in their 20s and lost it all by their 50s and some that kept it...depends on the person..but it is a shame that looks r so important
 domo30
Joined: 6/7/2010
Msg: 1246
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Posted: 8/24/2011 9:57:36 PM
People cant date someone they can not stand to look at
 Sean4MD
Joined: 7/13/2011
Msg: 1247
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Posted: 8/24/2011 10:36:24 PM
I don't mind older women
 ArtzyWoman
Joined: 6/30/2011
Msg: 1248
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Posted: 8/29/2011 2:06:56 PM
All my relationships have been younger and there is nothing wrong with it. The problem was they couldn't keep up with me. My mother kept telling me why are you going out with old men? They were 4, 10 and 17 yrs younger than me! In a relationship you need the intimacy but you also need a lot of common interests with that person to sustain a great relationship.
 Giggles10000
Joined: 6/17/2011
Msg: 1249
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Posted: 9/30/2011 3:40:08 PM
This might be a foreign concept for a few of ya..but you realize there are many many different types of fruit...cherry, grapes, apples, oranges, mangos, tomatos, pineapple, peaches etc.

Well there are more different type of people! Imagine that!

So like some people like apples but don't care for grapes; and some might like watermelon and hate peaches...so some people have a preference for a certain type of person.

However, some are so geared into doing what they feel society (friends, family and social networks) will accept they would live on a diet on grapes even if it makes them sick and they would love a nice juicy apple.

How do you wish to live your life? Do you want to be limited by what others think is right or wrong? Or do you have the guts to trust your instincts and be with a person that you like...cause you like them?

See the person not the age, if they make you happy why in the world would you care what anyone else thinks...they aren't in bed with you, they dont see the day to day interaction, and for god sakes the type who would *hate on you for your choice for happiness about age will also hate on you for other things and you will never make them happy so why should you care what they think? Why seek the approval of people who are haters?
 musical_turtle
Joined: 3/11/2011
Msg: 1250
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Posted: 9/30/2011 4:12:20 PM
I think everyone's entitled to their preferences; including a younger man & an older woman's sexual relationship. If it works for some people, and makes them happy...that's good. However, personally I couldn't date a guy younger than me or even a guy that's the same age as me. I'm not sure why lol. I've always been attracted to older men (8-10yrs older). That's what I've dated in the past, and it was a pleasant experience. No young guys for me lol sorry
 kinley68
Joined: 8/4/2011
Msg: 1251
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Posted: 9/30/2011 7:46:09 PM
I'm attracted to men older than myself...I like the maturity. Besides, I'm just not into young men.
 statemachine500
Joined: 8/25/2011
Msg: 1252
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Posted: 10/1/2011 10:38:57 AM
I see it as being mostly the same as an older guy thinking a younger woman is actually interested in him and not his assets.Works for a short while.When the women reach a certain age they can no longer attract the real studs...escort services are busy apparently.
 HappySingleSpirit
Joined: 9/10/2011
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Posted: 10/1/2011 5:36:00 PM
I have nothing against age differences. My only concern is being desired because of my age or other psychological reasons instead of ME and who I am. This becomes even more evident in online dating since there is no way anyone can fall in love with someone through their profile & picture alone. Besides, younger men don’t even hide their age fetish. Ugh, I find it disgusting. Makes me want to puke. For the same reason I would never date anyone who likes me for my nationality, or other superficial reason.
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