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 ponygt
Joined: 12/26/2011
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Oh wow. The ignorance in this thread is absolutely hilarious. Ignorance full of assumptions.

I personally prefer an older woman. my last LTR was with someone 14 years older than me. And we are still very good friends to this day. One of hte first things she said to me was how mature I was for my age. That she knew guys her age that weren't even as mature as I am. It has NOTHING to do with age. It has everything to do with maturity level, life experience, goals, attraction, personality, etc.

To actually believe it could never happen is obsurd.

And BTW, Until recently, I had my profile set to where you couldn't contact me unless you were above a certain age. I then figured all the older women thought all I wanted was a fling or sugar mama, so I lowered that age requirement. And I've received more views and 'meet mes' ever since. But like I've said before, if these older women want to assume, not my fault......kinda like what I've read in this thread.
 Clariacatfish
Joined: 1/7/2012
Msg: 1330
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Posted: 1/12/2012 9:13:47 PM
I agree, dating is another thing altogether and if the differences are obvious then it can be awkward in public and the generational gap clearly shows.... Women get the toyboy label and cougar.. I contemplated a much younger man who was very hot and I had suspicions as to his intentions as to my material assets... He wanted to come to my house rather than go out.. So no go.
Often it is implied that the woman foot the bill in subtle ways or not so subtle.
Paying to play. HOwever older men have always done that with the hotter younger woman so fair is fair.......
 ponygt
Joined: 12/26/2011
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Posted: 1/12/2012 9:22:54 PM

I agree, dating is another thing altogether and if the differences are obvious then it can be awkward in public and the generational gap clearly shows.... Women get the toyboy label and cougar..
I couldn't care less what the general public or society think of me or who I'm with. It's my life, my relationship; not theirs. And if they haven't walked in my shoes...........
 tom1232u
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 1332
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Posted: 1/12/2012 9:38:02 PM
older women younger men for a sexual relationship is good. i enjoy a sexual relationship with older women (hot). but, romanic relationship between a younger man and an older woman usually does not work
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 1333
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Posted: 2/7/2012 12:14:39 PM
I say go for it!! men have been chasing younger women for years an will continue too

if a older woman wants to date,marry,have sex or be friends OR ALL OF THE ABOVE with a younger guy might as well get it while it's hot..hell might find somebody that puts the spark back into your life or pep back into your step..

i know ever since i turned 32 recently i feel like i shaved 10yrs off my age now im bouncing around like im 22yr agian looking at the younger men like dammmm where have i been for the past 3yr years...lol
 CleverLady2012
Joined: 2/2/2012
Msg: 1334
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Posted: 2/7/2012 12:34:05 PM
intriguing.........
 chicago3000
Joined: 4/28/2010
Msg: 1335
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Posted: 2/17/2012 8:45:23 AM
Hi there,i like your smile,so what's your name..?

Ron
 DameWrite
Joined: 2/27/2010
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Posted: 2/17/2012 8:53:21 AM
It feels pretty darn good, stay in the moment and be secure that the reasons you are together are good enough reason for you both. Never mind what anyone else thinks.
 BrookfieldGentlemanTom
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 1337
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Posted: 2/17/2012 5:14:14 PM
i had a hott 1 month affair with a 63 year old woman when i was in my 20's.
i banged her like a screen door in a Texas Tornado!!! she's probably STILL shaking from it.
 ixtlan09
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 1338
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Posted: 2/17/2012 8:26:32 PM
What are we talking about? An older woman in her forties or fifties? And a younger man about five or six?

Because that's just sick.
 BrookfieldGentlemanTom
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 1339
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Posted: 2/18/2012 6:35:22 AM
^^^^^^a younger man of 5 or 6????^^^^^^^^^^

hey anybody remember their first hard on???
i remember my first wet dream.

it was like.....WTF??????????
 LSUdude24
Joined: 7/6/2008
Msg: 1340
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Posted: 2/18/2012 10:49:50 AM
"i had a hott 1 month affair with a 63 year old woman when i was in my 20's.
i banged her like a screen door in a Texas Tornado!!! she's probably STILL shaking from it"




That was probably just her Parkinsons causing all the shaking. Sorry dude.
 grove_22
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 1341
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Posted: 2/18/2012 12:26:38 PM
I had short term / casual relationships with women that were 15-20 years older than me. Although they were nice people and the sex was great (LOL), it is highly unlikely I would have a serious relationship with a woman that much older than me.

If I was looking for a LTR with an older woman, then I think a 5-10 age difference would be more realsistic.
 jude9
Joined: 1/5/2007
Msg: 1342
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Posted: 4/9/2012 5:36:12 AM
hey, how are u doing this fine evening?
 jude9
Joined: 1/5/2007
Msg: 1343
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Posted: 4/9/2012 5:38:33 AM
i will tell you right now i could definately keep up, how are u doing tonight?
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 1344
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Posted: 4/9/2012 12:14:17 PM
@ dopest ghost uhhh ya know your in the forums right??? i dont know who you thought you was emailing.
 vampyreshadow
Joined: 3/21/2011
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Posted: 4/9/2012 12:30:34 PM
I see nothing wrong with it, if it is what is right for the people involved, to me, it just feels weird :) I don't look my age, so allot of my friends are younger then me and wind up mind blown about my age (think that is weird, I went to a 21st birthday as a friends wingman and designated driver, and the birthday girl parents were gushing over me for being such a mature and responsible young adult) so I get allot of offers from younger men, but even if I am genuinely interested, I start thinking, I have a 15 year old, and an 18 year old daughter.
 richardcard82
Joined: 3/3/2008
Msg: 1346
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Posted: 4/9/2012 10:56:44 PM
I was with a 40 year old heavier set woman back in early 08 and it was a great experiance.... Once again in early 09 it was with a 40 year old doctor who had an amazing body. We hooked up twice but then she began getting attached she wanted more but i wasnt looking for it. I do find myself attracted to older women. I do message a lot of them on here but a lot think im too young... (between 40-50) so its not a big difference, Im guessing its because they know that anything with a younger man its purely sexual and they obviously want something more... A little fun wouldnt hurt tho but most of them seem very eager to stick in their age, I think older women should be willing to be with a younger man atleast once. Theres really nothing to lose and its just a fun expiriance . Im from Inland Empire here in cali so if any of you see my profile and like what you see hit me up! lol
 RomeoDuke
Joined: 12/18/2011
Msg: 1347
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Posted: 4/10/2012 1:10:06 AM
As per the original question of this thread, there is nothing wrong with an older woman and a younger man. In fact, I highly recommend it.

@Guys: Older women will teach you things you've never even heard of before. Everything from life lesson, to chivalry, to pick-up, to sexual technique. Keeping that in mind gents, you NEED an older lover at some point in your young life. You will NOT regret it.

@Cougars: Just keep in mind that if you want a younger man, you need to fit the slot. Take care of yourself, get healthy & make yourselves pretty for your young boyfriends. Young guys are exceptionally easy to please but you DO need to put forth the effort. THEY should be jumping YOUR bones after the first encounter.

Happy hunting gentry ;)
 kellybr549
Joined: 4/1/2012
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Posted: 4/10/2012 1:15:16 AM
whats up journeyingsoul,i seen your profile and im interisted.i hope im not too young.
 licoricecat_1
Joined: 11/23/2008
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Posted: 4/10/2012 2:53:29 AM
Most of the men I have dated have been younger. Except the last one who was 13 years older than me. The younger men are not as financially stable and they seem to not wine and dine you. I like to be treated like a lady, the doors opened for me, chivalry, be brought out and treated with respect. Of course they have to have a good sense of humor. lol
 sfokorikos
Joined: 9/12/2010
Msg: 1350
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Posted: 4/10/2012 6:01:17 AM
All depends from how mature is the young man and the older woman. I would do it if i had the chance. I would like to experience it. I know im mature enough to handle and respect an older woman. Because lets face it it straight,an older woman is looking a few things from a young man. She doesnt want to stay with him forever. In other words i wish i had a sexual relationship with and older woman it will be worth of my time and my life!
 brooklynbabs
Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 1351
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Posted: 4/11/2012 9:23:42 AM
THANKS EVERYONE I am so damn glad I have your approval then! Since, the last two guys I dated were 14 & 15 years younger than me. I have to say I am having so much more fun now than I did when I was married to someone 10 years older than me! So, I guess this means I don' t need to leave my little angel outside the liquor store any more then, KIDDING YOU PERV'S :-) !!!
 livingwithadog
Joined: 7/11/2011
Msg: 1352
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Posted: 4/11/2012 11:44:09 AM

In my experience, younger men seem to be more laid back, more fun, less judgemental and more active. They aren't trying intensely to nail down a serious relationship, however they are open to one if they happen to fall into it with someone they are into who wants the same.

And for the older women who are in it for the fun, I say go for it...nothing wrong with that at all...

Yep. I agree with you entirely, here.
 DameWrite
Joined: 2/27/2010
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Posted: 4/11/2012 11:49:47 AM
^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ me too ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^

I'm seeing a fellow now who is younger and I can add that it is very refreshing. He's cool, sexy, kind, physical, talented, caring, sweet, a brat, aware, funny and interesting. He's willing to grow, he's got his own gig going on, he's a homebody (gardenbody) and the beer he drinks is root beer. He is also a bit of a slob, grumpy in the a.m. has a.d.d. and likes me to be around more than I can always be. He is not sexist, lewd or mean spirited, he cares for the earth and all it's critters. We laugh and have a lot of fun. He's also has a bit of a devil may care attitude that throws me for a loop at times but it also helps me overcome my insecurities and challenges me to be even more free spirited, spontaneous and physical.

OP, never mind what others may think or what the future holds. Loving is what matters.

He's very happy with me too b.t.w. and he's not afraid to express it which is another cool thing. He's not big on discussing the "obvious" and would rather play in the dirt than talk about relationships but I have the forums for that.

If you feel more suited to younger, go for it!
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