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Joined: 4/4/2012
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I love older women.... but now that Im 45... not so much:( I had a few when I was 23-26 and they were lots of fun:)
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 1355
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Posted: 4/13/2012 1:47:02 AM
GREAT!-- Men have been seeking younger women throughout history. So why is it odd that women would be any different?
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 1356
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Posted: 4/19/2012 6:04:33 PM
I had so much fun with younger men after my divorce that I may want to try it out again. I can't believe how we are constantly being compared to their slip up and POOF..disappear! Haven't had that problem with younger men.
Joined: 4/16/2012
Msg: 1357
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Posted: 4/20/2012 11:00:35 AM
if shes hot, im down for that action lol
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 1358
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Posted: 4/21/2012 10:12:08 PM
I often wonder why women view men their age as all boring, not fun etc. Yet those same women when they would meet a guy like that who is their age, well they will call him immature, irresponsible etc. Why is that ladies?
Joined: 9/2/2011
Msg: 1359
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Posted: 4/21/2012 10:39:00 PM
It's all based on culture. In some places, boys can't become "men" until they have been with an older woman. The older woman has the responsibility of preparing the boy to please a woman. Now, me, I have experience and stamina!
Joined: 12/12/2010
Msg: 1360
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Posted: 4/22/2012 8:10:19 AM
Personally, I find is funnier than hell when someone, male or female, desperately seeking to cling to their fading youth, hooks up with someone much younger. The best part is when they tell you that they look young for their age or that people their own age can't keep up with them. It just shows what sad, pathetic creatures they really are.
Joined: 7/4/2011
Msg: 1361
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Posted: 4/22/2012 8:40:14 AM
I can,t see an issue with this surely its about the person not their age . I had someone last night reject me beacuase I was six years younger !!!! I know that was no doubt an excuse bit it hurt especially when I have dated a man twenty younger has he no issue had no issuse of course if it was the other way round no one would bat an eye lid us older women will never win with this
Joined: 3/3/2008
Msg: 1362
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Posted: 4/30/2012 10:50:27 PM
Im really do like older women but havent really had a chance to meet any on this site, I have messaged quite a bit of women ranging from 40-50 and none seem interested, Im sure its because they know that there cannot be anything serious with a younger man, I just turned 30 so i dont see myself being that young, If any older women from Inland Empire cali see this then dont be shy! lol
Joined: 12/2/2011
Msg: 1363
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Posted: 4/30/2012 11:42:11 PM
I've been into older women, since I've been in H.s, I feel that they are able to accept a guy for who he is and aren't judgmental, too much about what he has. Even though I always been a gentleman, and do the whole chivalry thing. Older women seem to just be about going out enjoying life, and not care what others think or say behind their back for being with a certain guy.....Yes I know theirs younger females that way. But I guess I've always had my eyes on older females..........take care
Joined: 10/31/2011
Msg: 1364
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Posted: 5/12/2012 6:25:22 PM
It just a sexual thing.....Why would a young guy want a old women?
Joined: 11/16/2011
Msg: 1365
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Posted: 5/12/2012 7:57:23 PM
Younger guys are more fun to be with and want to engage with you on an emotional level. Older guys as you say just seem to have given up trying, apart from trying to get you into bed and then they are a 2 minute wonder. Younger guys are better lovers. I have had a few younger partners and they could teach the oldies a thing or two! The also seem to be more outgoing rather than inwards looking.
Joined: 1/20/2012
Msg: 1366
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Posted: 5/12/2012 8:10:19 PM
"Why would a younger guy want an older woman" :) ....Because WE are tons of fun;) some of us dont go looking for them; they are attracted to us, so why turn them dowm! Older women are more attractive to some men because we are OFTEN in better physical and mental shape than those women in their own age group! The last guy I dated was 9 years younger than me and boy was he FUN:). Younger men have way more stamina;) and unlike a lot of guys my age they are not couch potatoes! The last guy I dated that was 6 years older than me was all talk and no action, if u know what I mean:/ such a disappointment , worst part he thought I be Ok with it! DON'T THINK SO! No more dating Older men for me! NOT until I HAVE TO.. Lol!
Joined: 5/10/2012
Msg: 1367
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Posted: 5/25/2012 3:25:37 PM
amen to my ageseem to let themselves go physically..u have to be hot,but no big deal if they have a beer gut!
Joined: 5/12/2012
Msg: 1368
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Posted: 5/25/2012 4:30:55 PM
I think it's great because actually a woman is in her prime at 40-48 and men are in there prime about 28-35 so watch out you young girls I have more experience and better insurance as Kathy Bates said in Fried Green Tomatoes!!!!! Was married 23 years to someone my own age and he cheated so writing my own rules NOW!
Joined: 6/18/2010
Msg: 1369
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Posted: 5/25/2012 9:12:33 PM
Yes because its notroious in N. America men are kept behind bars with their sexual life.
If you go to Brasil - you would be at the bottom of the barrel if you ar lucky.
Yes there are men choosing older women but just for sex - and JUST because they can't get their youger counterparts which are known for the high demand for cash in a relationship.... and minimum 8000 $ rings for a wedding ? Also youner women don't have anything ot share....those just expect to get

Also older women are at the end of their "interval' and running to get back some of their lost years..squizzing out something they lost...because they waited for Mr Right forever and "tha guy" never showed up..

Aslo "everobody knows" younger americans want and like old cars even wrecks so therefore they like older women. That maskes lots of sense. Don't you think ?
What does this tell you really ?

I am wondering why Donald Trunp does not have an older wife.
Joined: 4/22/2009
Msg: 1370
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Posted: 5/26/2012 4:27:39 AM
I've usually date younger women. I just feel more of a connection with them than older women. And I've dated women my age, and a few years older than myself, so I know from experience that I just don't connect with them. And it's not only a sexual thing.

Another thing. I've received messages from older women who have been a little upset with me for wanting to date younger women. And that I should give older women a chance. And I have. But by these women contacting me and telling me to give them a chance, means they are seeking out younger men, i.e, myself. So why are they upset with me about my preference when they have the very same preference? That confuses me!
Joined: 6/15/2011
Msg: 1371
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Posted: 7/5/2012 9:54:14 PM
Hi my name is Josh and im tired of young girls they do not know what they want so I tried out the older field turned out to be great would like to continue with the old women came upon yours thinking I'd try 1 last time
Joined: 6/15/2011
Msg: 1372
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Posted: 7/5/2012 9:54:46 PM
Hi my name is Josh and im tired of young girls they do not know what they want so I tried out the older field turned out to be great would like to continue with the old women came upon yours thinking I'd try 1 last time
Joined: 6/25/2012
Msg: 1373
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Posted: 7/5/2012 11:33:08 PM
32? Old? How young are you going hun? They are legal right? lol. I don't look my age either, I don't mind dating younger. It's the maturity level that makes all the difference in the world. If they are calling you old at 32,they are obviously not very mature. But they are out there. And they would be happy to date you or even have a relationship with you. Relationship wise, the biggest problem might be kids. I'm 45. I don't want kids. It's the first question I ask. If they do, I stop right there. I would never take someones opportunity to have children away from them.

BTW, I have some cats, lol you are STILL alone. Learn to like yourself and your own company. Any man who talks to you because he is bored or lonely is not a man you want to talk with.
Joined: 11/14/2011
Msg: 1374
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Posted: 7/14/2012 11:57:44 AM
I dated a woman that was 20 years older that me for about 3 years.
And another that was 27 years older for just under a year.
I've been on several dates with women 10-15 years older.
Joined: 6/14/2012
Msg: 1375
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Posted: 7/14/2012 4:54:54 PM
Men older then me are bitter, resentful, rude, critical, discourteous, prejudice and cynical about everything in life.

Men my own age are not really bitter YET....but, trust me, they are headed there on a fast train to no where's ville.

Men younger then me are fun, witty, usually without "baggage" (bad debts, ex-wives and kids...yuck) and pretty much drama free and have "hope for the future" filled with dreams and an enjoyable life.

The only problem with the younger guys (that I have personally encountered - I am not speaking for ALL of them):
The fellas younger then me have a tendency towards "SMOTHERING" me. They want to "plan my future" and "own and control" me. I don't like being "caged and trapped" by ANYONE (of any age).

So, if there are any cutie pies out there in this fish pond who are carefree, "baggage" free, drama free and looking to fall wildly in love on a moment-by-moment basis (I'm not looking for permanent bf or husband...yikes!! ) then you know how to find me here in this fish pond.
Joined: 6/18/2010
Msg: 1376
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Posted: 7/14/2012 8:08:21 PM
Yes older men are bitter because the bulshit women put them through their life. (this just adds up to the "kiss ass" they need to do at work...either if they have a boss or if they have direct customers not even mentioning the bad co-workers)
I know a cinical aphorism which states: The best 10 years of a woman life is betwen 28 and 30. :-)
Joined: 11/27/2010
Msg: 1377
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Posted: 7/14/2012 9:14:35 PM
LUV younger men! At least the ones I have experienced are fun, lighthearted, and energetic. They want to go places and do things. They understand just wanting to keep it casual!
Joined: 4/21/2010
Msg: 1378
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Posted: 7/25/2012 11:34:17 PM
Divine is trying to get it
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