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 PleasureStick
Joined: 7/16/2012
Msg: 1379
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Older women are better at sex. :D I prefer older. One day.. I will prefer younger.
 TCMWoman
Joined: 4/7/2012
Msg: 1380
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Posted: 7/26/2012 10:40:36 AM
Wow 75 pages on this subject and I was just thinking yesterday how guys close to my age are not interested in women their age. Guys in their 40s on here usually looking for 20 year olds. But guys in their 20s & 30s looking for women in their 40s. So I guess I will have to sacrifice myself and date younger guys, they are more fun anyways. Nice to look at too ;)
 prettyflowers
Joined: 7/16/2012
Msg: 1381
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Posted: 7/28/2012 5:59:37 AM
I am in my 50's and had a young man in his late 20's pursue me. He was extremely good looking, but it just wasn't going to happen. He did all sorts of things to try to get my attention.
He even told his father,who is also a friend of mine that he thought I was "it". Well, needless to say it never came about. I think if the 2 consenting parties agree then have at it. But for me, no way. PF
 Paderic
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 1382
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Posted: 7/28/2012 7:29:46 AM
Men older then me are bitter, resentful, rude, critical, discourteous, prejudice and cynical about everything in life.


So you wouldn't have a problem with a guy about five years younger than you saying, "Women older then (sic) me are bitter, resentful, rude, critical, discourteous, prejudice (sic) and cynical about everything in life."

I don't have an issue with people having a preference for dating younger, but can we try doing it without perpetuating the ignorant stereotypes?
 HiHeelsLover
Joined: 7/13/2012
Msg: 1383
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Posted: 7/28/2012 12:51:59 PM

I don't have an issue with people having a preference for dating younger, but can we try doing it without perpetuating the ignorant stereotypes?


People can only go by their own experiences. My personal experience has been older men tend to be a tab bit bossy. And younger men tend to be cheap and horny.
 Paderic
Joined: 2/23/2010
Msg: 1384
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Posted: 7/28/2012 5:02:28 PM

People can only go by their own experiences.


They can also acknowledge that their experience only brings them in contact with a very small cross section of the population. But I guess it's easier to just assume things about other people without ever bothering to find out the truth...
 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 1385
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Posted: 7/28/2012 8:38:42 PM

They say because we are more mature, know what we want, not jealous , not as demanding, & grateful..


they forgot bitter, angry, never satisfied, endlessly ****ing and whiney. Then theres the cellulite.
 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 1386
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Posted: 7/28/2012 8:42:02 PM

Men older then me are bitter, resentful, rude, critical, discourteous, prejudice and cynical about everything in life.

Men my own age are not really bitter YET....but, trust me, they are headed there on a fast train to no where's ville.

Men younger then me are fun, witty, usually without "baggage" (bad debts, ex-wives and kids...yuck) and pretty much drama free and have "hope for the future" filled with dreams and an enjoyable life..



I feel exactly the same way about women my age. Go figure.
 Mrgiveitright
Joined: 7/24/2010
Msg: 1387
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Posted: 7/29/2012 8:20:10 AM
Great! If they are into each other.
 HiHeelsLover
Joined: 7/13/2012
Msg: 1388
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Posted: 7/29/2012 9:09:52 AM
I tend to be attracted to men in their late 30's early 40's. Men over that age group seem to have stopped taking care of themselves. Men younger than 36, well that is just creepy.
 SpeedracerSmith
Joined: 3/5/2012
Msg: 1389
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Posted: 7/29/2012 9:16:20 AM
I haven't read any of the responses..way too many...

I prefer men close to my own age..but most aren't interested in women my age...so I date younger men by default.

Why not?
 nappydanny
Joined: 8/23/2011
Msg: 1390
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Posted: 7/29/2012 7:24:47 PM
I'm 22 and i've always been dating younger girls and girls around my age because they are attracted to me... older women see me as a kid even when i have approaced them, but I wouldn't mind dating a woman in her 30s for experience!
 Archangel_07
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 1391
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Posted: 7/29/2012 8:16:27 PM
^^^^^^^
I had that too yesterday. A lady asked me how old I was at a Jamaican Party and when I told her my age, she was shocked and she thought I was 10 years younger like 20 Lol. I date young and mature, within my discretion.
 MAMBO27
Joined: 9/15/2011
Msg: 1392
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Posted: 7/29/2012 10:41:41 PM
Its awesome, I have had an encounter with a 39 year old female, and I personally love it. Myself as being young 28 years old, I feel as though an older woman can satisfy all of my needs. Younger females are too ghetto.
 blondrealtor
Joined: 4/6/2009
Msg: 1393
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Posted: 7/30/2012 6:06:59 PM
Good for you! I totally agree!
 alexvanlee
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 1394
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Posted: 7/30/2012 10:07:16 PM
the younger guy can't **** any chicks his age so he goes for the desperate cougar. simple as that.

its not that they're more experienced, mature, all that bullshit. its that they're desperate and the guys can't get any better.
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 5/27/2012
Msg: 1395
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Posted: 8/15/2012 10:24:40 PM
I dated a guy who is a couple of years older than me who used to date older women. Women in their 40s and i even think one in her 50s. I find it odd, and maybe a fetish of some sort. But he liked me too and I was younger so maybe it was a maturity thing..lol
 c0wg1rl
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 1396
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Posted: 8/15/2012 10:39:16 PM
Ugh...my boyfriend was dating a woman 22 years his senior before me. People are often shocked when he tells them how old she was, but he now considers it to be part of "growing up". They lasted about 2 years, before it eventually got "too hard" for her. I'm older than him too........but only by 8 days. lol.
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 1397
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Posted: 8/16/2012 12:10:51 AM
Depends on the age gap and the people involved. I prefer younger men myself but not more than 10 years or so.
Men have always preferred the younger woman in the main and why shouldnt women? We are hotter longer these days and a lot of guys like an sexperienced woman.
 c0wg1rl
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 1398
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Posted: 8/16/2012 12:58:46 AM


Now YOU are talking about her Cowg1rl?


I guess I've picked up his bad habits ^_^
 valerie555
Joined: 1/25/2012
Msg: 1399
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Posted: 8/16/2012 9:09:26 PM
Fun, fun, fun, and more fun
 sunriseguy5
Joined: 12/26/2011
Msg: 1400
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Posted: 8/16/2012 9:30:12 PM
so there are only older women who want to date younger men for sex?

i don't know about others but if i prefer a long term relationship with an older woman, no flings for me.
 Johnnycycle
Joined: 8/20/2010
Msg: 1401
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Posted: 8/17/2012 5:17:54 AM
It is your life... Like money, You spend it as you please. And so does the person your with.
If you like being with young guys its your choice, no one else's.
It has its advantages and drawbacks, and if it works for you, it works for you.
Your free to do so within reason. Just as older men can date younger women.
If they want to be with you that's their choice.
So as long as both parties are good with their arrangement there really is nothing wrong.

As long as you feel the benefits outweigh the drawbacks, carry on.
But keep in mind, this may be temporary and you may need to change your strategy later on if your target audience is looking for better venues.
 Triumph800rider
Joined: 10/10/2009
Msg: 1402
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Posted: 8/17/2012 10:03:46 AM
I started dating women a decade or more older than me when I was in my twenties. Married a woman closer to my age, had kids. Shortly after the divorce I went back to older women and am happier that way.

My theory is that men when they are younger buy into the "experienced" thing and have a fling or two with someone older. Usually it is a guy in his early twenties who meets a thirty something at work or in college. Most go back to women their own age. But for a percentage of these guys older women will become their preference. It has little to do with sex. I mean, sex is sex and the age does not necessarily equate with experience or expertise in that area. Instead, it comes down to who you are comfortable spending time with and who you tend to fall in love with. I am much more open and real with a woman older than me. I am less trusting with someone closer to my age and reveal less about myself.

The older women/younger men phenomenon is more out in the open these days with dating sites (easier to approach a woman and gauge her interest) and the media hyping it. But it has been around for decades if not centuries. It went on right underneath your noses; the professor and her teaching assistant, the woman and her younger co-worker, the guy who spends a little bit too much time at his upstairs neighbor's apartment. They were all getting it on.
 sunriseguy5
Joined: 12/26/2011
Msg: 1403
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Posted: 8/17/2012 12:14:57 PM

But for a percentage of these guys older women will become their preference.


that's me, i prefer older women and seems like more and more there are older women and younger guys couples and it is more accepted.
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