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 Bluegold007
Joined: 4/22/2013
Msg: 1454
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If sex is all I want, I pick the hot young guy any day.

That's kinda shallow and self entitled
 Deadliest_Snatch
Joined: 10/25/2012
Msg: 1455
older women younger men
Posted: 4/30/2013 9:01:42 AM


If sex is all I want, I pick the hot young guy any day.


That's kinda shallow and self entitled


Haha! And THAT is a lame attempt at shaming.

Why *not* pick the best candidate for the position if the physical aspect is paramount?

See also MSG 1025:

if it were just a sexual relationship...i would rather enjoy it. what woman wouldnt want a hot young stud?!


Why do you think Playboy features women in their 20's?
 Bluegold007
Joined: 4/22/2013
Msg: 1456
older women younger men
Posted: 4/30/2013 12:10:02 PM

Haha! And THAT is a lame attempt at shaming.

Why *not* pick the best candidate for the position if the physical aspect is paramount?

Oh your funny! Not. Ive seen some women in their 30's that are much more attractive than in their 20's. Women who only go after young have self entitlment issues
 NDTfan
Joined: 6/5/2012
Msg: 1457
older women younger men
Posted: 5/1/2013 3:47:56 AM

Oh your funny! Not. Ive seen some women in their 30's that are much more attractive than in their 20's. Women who only go after young have self entitlment issues


How is going after younger men "entitlement issues"?
 35brock
Joined: 3/20/2013
Msg: 1458
older women younger men
Posted: 5/1/2013 7:08:01 AM
It depends on what I'm looking for at the time. In a short term or casual relationship, age doesn't matter to me. Provided that she is legal. I had sex with women that were about 20 years older than me. In a LTR, my general age limit is about 10 years older.
 jlynn1955
Joined: 8/24/2012
Msg: 1459
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Posted: 5/21/2013 6:20:17 AM
I don't feel anyway about it at all. As long as the 2 people are both adults and they are not cheating on someone else, it's their business....period
 dpwesu
Joined: 3/25/2013
Msg: 1460
older women younger men
Posted: 5/21/2013 10:37:43 AM
I refuse to get involved with a younger man........I don't have time to raise a little boy and don't like the childish immaturity some of these (*cough* cough*) "men" display........

and some of the men who are older display that type of immaturity as well.....which I find disturbing.
 Hanoverfella
Joined: 2/14/2013
Msg: 1461
older women younger men
Posted: 5/21/2013 10:41:39 AM
I once dated a woman 11 years older than I was, beautiful and bubbly, great body, she was the one who was self conscious and always brought up the age difference, it never mattered to me..in the end it was distance that ended the relationship.. Seems to be the biggest hurdle on here.
 Khal25
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 1462
older women younger men
Posted: 5/21/2013 3:53:28 PM
I've always dated older women and been interested in older women from as far back as I can remember lol. It all started with Miss Mclean my 3rd grade teacher. I had the biggest crush on her and ever since then I have always dated older women. They are fun, most are secure in themselves and know when to take charge and when to let me have my "i'm the man moment" lol.

I'm all for it
 ouija2013
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 1463
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Posted: 5/21/2013 4:34:24 PM
I like younger men. I like older men. I basically just like Men - don't understand them but like them :) Who cares who is dating whom anyways? Unless you are paying my mortgage and giving me an allowance it isn't anyone's business .
 jessebunnies
Joined: 2/18/2013
Msg: 1464
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Posted: 5/21/2013 4:56:49 PM
Younger men rock! I spent 8 years with a guy who was 10 years younger and it was awesome!

Age is really just a number. I have met men who are 45 where guys in their 20's act older than they are and visa versa. A number does not always equate to chemistry, energy and maturity.
 NinerV
Joined: 4/16/2012
Msg: 1465
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Posted: 5/22/2013 1:23:28 PM
I've dated a few women in the last few years that were pissed about being dumped by a younger guy, the reason is always "they started tripping because I was about to turn 50". In my early 40's, I was li'l more fit and muscular than now, at the gym I was approached by many 20 somethings and had mucho fun, but never for a moment thought it would be a lasting thing... okay, maybe there was one. :)

 dpwesu
Joined: 3/25/2013
Msg: 1466
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Posted: 5/24/2013 4:56:11 AM

Younger men rock! I spent 8 years with a guy who was 10 years younger and it was awesome!

Age is really just a number. I have met men who are 45 where guys in their 20's act older than they are and visa versa. A number does not always equate to chemistry, energy and maturity.


If it was so wonderful, then why are you talking about it in the past tense??? What happened?

He dump you to find a playmate his own age???

It IS usually what happens......these younger boys will hang with an older mature woman who is established, has her education, career, and her sh*t together......sure things are good for a bit.....until the little boy decides he wants to "grow up" get married, and have a family......then he in essence trades his older mature playmate for a much younger model.

I see that all the time.
 JJ02013
Joined: 3/28/2013
Msg: 1467
older women younger men
Posted: 5/26/2013 3:40:24 AM
If the man is mature and stable I see nothing wrong with it (but in those cases it is quite rare)

Most of the women I have dated were older then I was and they were able to see past my age. I lost my virginity at 15 to someone who was 7 years older then I was and even though the age difference was large, I was never able to fully connect or relate to a woman until I met her. I'm happy with my choices and they are some of my most fondest moments.
 rockstar1118nj
Joined: 3/28/2013
Msg: 1468
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Posted: 5/31/2013 11:54:43 AM
I'm not into too much older than me, but I can see where guys in their early 20s are getting into women in their late 30s and 40s... Collectively, women in their 20s and 3os are some of the most shallow, terrible people that I've ever seen. It's unbelievable that anyone can actually act like a lot of these girls. Every guy is expendable, he needs to be completely flawless, even though she lives with her parents, he can't... Is it really any mystery why so many young guys are messaging older women?

If I was 10 years younger, I'd be the same way. I only know very few girls in their 20s who are actually worth talking to. When your potential dating pool is full of only people that you'll never be good enough for, you're going to start looking for a different type of person.
 TuMuchFun
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 1469
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Posted: 5/31/2013 1:59:05 PM
Older women/Younger...POF forbids it now
 huggybearlover
Joined: 3/4/2013
Msg: 1470
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Posted: 5/31/2013 3:48:35 PM
I was married to a guy for over 20 years and he was 13 1/2 years younger than me. We have a adult son also. My story, Six months after I turned 40 I met my husband the day after he turned 27. That was in June but we did not go out until late August. We were married 4 years later. We have been divorced for a little more than three years and we are just friends. So I see no reason an older women could not date younger men even if it is not just for sex. I too believe age is just a number. It is how you feel inside.
 Jam600
Joined: 7/17/2013
Msg: 1471
older women with younger men
Posted: 8/6/2013 5:08:16 AM
Hi how r u this morning.
 floral2
Joined: 7/10/2013
Msg: 1472
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Posted: 8/8/2013 6:42:16 AM
Depends on how younger. I wouldn't really consider an age difference of less than 5 years to be younger since we would be close to the same age. 5 to about 10 years younger would be acceptable. However it is unlikely I would seriously date a man that is more than 15 yrs younger than me. Although there could be a few exceptions, I think we would be in different life stages.
 daughteroftheking1
Joined: 1/23/2013
Msg: 1473
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Posted: 8/8/2013 12:51:36 PM
Regardless of age, use wisdom. Give your heart and not your body. Respect self and the opposite sex will either run or take courage and respect you.
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 1474
Looks like the most popular thread
Posted: 12/20/2014 11:10:10 PM

bibbear86(d338024)
How do you feel about a sexual relationship between a younger man and an older woman?



Don't care what other people do.
If the older woman is sexy, attractive.... sure, why not?

Seems this is the most popular thread in this category called "Relationship Issues".
 tall_fit
Joined: 12/13/2014
Msg: 1475
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Posted: 12/21/2014 9:58:52 AM
Within 5 years is my preference. I am willing to make some exceptions and date a man that is a little bit outside of that age range. But it's highly unlikely I would date a man that is more than 10 years younger than myself. I think the age difference would be too large at that point.
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 1476
older women younger men
Posted: 12/21/2014 7:45:49 PM
I agree that the younger man older woman scenario is great for the sex but not so much dating. Most younger guys don't want to actually go out on a date and spend money on the older woman. He in fact may expect her to pay. Seriously I have had that scenario......not into gigolos, pass..........
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 1477
Looks like the most popular thread
Posted: 12/21/2014 7:47:40 PM
seducelove,

You are here to advertise your website, that is about it. Against the rules I would have thought.
 ClooneysTutor
Joined: 3/30/2014
Msg: 1478
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Posted: 12/21/2014 8:02:17 PM
^^^
Interesting Petula.

I met a woman 12 years older (58) and we both eagerly and happily agreed to a FWB type arrangement:)

We both want monogamy but understand that someone else might come along that we deem LTR. I'm a tad too young and she's a tad too old. There's enough physical attraction though.

We're enjoying the moment while it lasts.

As much as I wanted to be generous and accomodating with her, she insists on either paying half or offering to do other things, like sharing her timeshare with me or cooking the groceries that I payed for at the market.

I never once treated an older gal any differently then a younger gal.

Her complaints about men her age? The 'ambitious' men are type A a$$holes that are passive aggressive and want to be chased.

And then there's the men that have no libidos and want to settle down asap.

So...she wants passion. That's where I come in:)
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