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 SweeetCatch
Joined: 11/18/2012
Msg: 1951
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I know all too well exactly what you're talking about... the 40+ y/o men don't function do they? Looks like we may have to supply the Viagra. js :)
 whoamar
Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 1952
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Posted: 3/25/2013 10:19:16 PM
I'm 60 and still date older women and enjoy and love it!!!
 lilmiclo
Joined: 11/30/2012
Msg: 1953
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Posted: 3/25/2013 11:23:58 PM
thats real talk right there !!!
 AquaLinda
Joined: 12/12/2012
Msg: 1954
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Posted: 3/26/2013 6:20:08 PM
Younger men contact me for sex all the time - but so do men my age, so there is no difference. If sex is all I want, I pick the hot young guy any day.
 Chelseabound
Joined: 8/6/2012
Msg: 1955
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Posted: 4/30/2013 5:25:23 AM
Surely, it all depends on the person, but I have been fortunate to have come to know what is possible with the right older woman, such that i will only date women a good bit older than me. I will find her, and it will be amazing.
 Bluegold007
Joined: 4/22/2013
Msg: 1956
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Posted: 4/30/2013 8:14:27 AM

If sex is all I want, I pick the hot young guy any day.

That's kinda shallow and self entitled
 Deadliest_Snatch
Joined: 10/25/2012
Msg: 1957
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Posted: 4/30/2013 9:01:42 AM


If sex is all I want, I pick the hot young guy any day.


That's kinda shallow and self entitled


Haha! And THAT is a lame attempt at shaming.

Why *not* pick the best candidate for the position if the physical aspect is paramount?

See also MSG 1025:

if it were just a sexual relationship...i would rather enjoy it. what woman wouldnt want a hot young stud?!


Why do you think Playboy features women in their 20's?
 Bluegold007
Joined: 4/22/2013
Msg: 1958
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Posted: 4/30/2013 12:10:02 PM

Haha! And THAT is a lame attempt at shaming.

Why *not* pick the best candidate for the position if the physical aspect is paramount?

Oh your funny! Not. Ive seen some women in their 30's that are much more attractive than in their 20's. Women who only go after young have self entitlment issues
 NDTfan
Joined: 6/5/2012
Msg: 1959
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Posted: 5/1/2013 3:47:56 AM

Oh your funny! Not. Ive seen some women in their 30's that are much more attractive than in their 20's. Women who only go after young have self entitlment issues


How is going after younger men "entitlement issues"?
 35brock
Joined: 3/20/2013
Msg: 1960
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Posted: 5/1/2013 7:08:01 AM
It depends on what I'm looking for at the time. In a short term or casual relationship, age doesn't matter to me. Provided that she is legal. I had sex with women that were about 20 years older than me. In a LTR, my general age limit is about 10 years older.
 jlynn1955
Joined: 8/24/2012
Msg: 1961
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Posted: 5/21/2013 6:20:17 AM
I don't feel anyway about it at all. As long as the 2 people are both adults and they are not cheating on someone else, it's their business....period
 dpwesu
Joined: 3/25/2013
Msg: 1962
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Posted: 5/21/2013 10:37:43 AM
I refuse to get involved with a younger man........I don't have time to raise a little boy and don't like the childish immaturity some of these (*cough* cough*) "men" display........

and some of the men who are older display that type of immaturity as well.....which I find disturbing.
 Hanoverfella
Joined: 2/14/2013
Msg: 1963
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Posted: 5/21/2013 10:41:39 AM
I once dated a woman 11 years older than I was, beautiful and bubbly, great body, she was the one who was self conscious and always brought up the age difference, it never mattered to me..in the end it was distance that ended the relationship.. Seems to be the biggest hurdle on here.
 Khal25
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 1964
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Posted: 5/21/2013 3:53:28 PM
I've always dated older women and been interested in older women from as far back as I can remember lol. It all started with Miss Mclean my 3rd grade teacher. I had the biggest crush on her and ever since then I have always dated older women. They are fun, most are secure in themselves and know when to take charge and when to let me have my "i'm the man moment" lol.

I'm all for it
 ouija2013
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 1965
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Posted: 5/21/2013 4:34:24 PM
I like younger men. I like older men. I basically just like Men - don't understand them but like them :) Who cares who is dating whom anyways? Unless you are paying my mortgage and giving me an allowance it isn't anyone's business .
 jessebunnies
Joined: 2/18/2013
Msg: 1966
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Posted: 5/21/2013 4:56:49 PM
Younger men rock! I spent 8 years with a guy who was 10 years younger and it was awesome!

Age is really just a number. I have met men who are 45 where guys in their 20's act older than they are and visa versa. A number does not always equate to chemistry, energy and maturity.
 NinerV
Joined: 4/16/2012
Msg: 1967
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Posted: 5/22/2013 1:23:28 PM
I've dated a few women in the last few years that were pissed about being dumped by a younger guy, the reason is always "they started tripping because I was about to turn 50". In my early 40's, I was li'l more fit and muscular than now, at the gym I was approached by many 20 somethings and had mucho fun, but never for a moment thought it would be a lasting thing... okay, maybe there was one. :)

 dpwesu
Joined: 3/25/2013
Msg: 1968
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Posted: 5/24/2013 4:56:11 AM

Younger men rock! I spent 8 years with a guy who was 10 years younger and it was awesome!

Age is really just a number. I have met men who are 45 where guys in their 20's act older than they are and visa versa. A number does not always equate to chemistry, energy and maturity.


If it was so wonderful, then why are you talking about it in the past tense??? What happened?

He dump you to find a playmate his own age???

It IS usually what happens......these younger boys will hang with an older mature woman who is established, has her education, career, and her sh*t together......sure things are good for a bit.....until the little boy decides he wants to "grow up" get married, and have a family......then he in essence trades his older mature playmate for a much younger model.

I see that all the time.
 JJ02013
Joined: 3/28/2013
Msg: 1969
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Posted: 5/26/2013 3:40:24 AM
If the man is mature and stable I see nothing wrong with it (but in those cases it is quite rare)

Most of the women I have dated were older then I was and they were able to see past my age. I lost my virginity at 15 to someone who was 7 years older then I was and even though the age difference was large, I was never able to fully connect or relate to a woman until I met her. I'm happy with my choices and they are some of my most fondest moments.
 o0O0o0O0o0O0o
Joined: 3/30/2011
Msg: 1970
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Posted: 5/27/2013 8:34:47 AM
I was always "age is just a number" guy. My ex-wife was 8 years older than me. Once you get to know someone, their age is the last thing you think about. ...but even if you're as progressive & egalitarian as the modern age dictates, I think most people still innately crave the traditional power dynamic in a relationship where the woman feels "protected" by her man, and the man feels like he's shepherding things.

But this thread wasn't about relationships. It was about sex. In which case I would wholeheartedly recommend older women. :D
 rockstar1118nj
Joined: 3/28/2013
Msg: 1971
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Posted: 5/31/2013 11:54:43 AM
I'm not into too much older than me, but I can see where guys in their early 20s are getting into women in their late 30s and 40s... Collectively, women in their 20s and 3os are some of the most shallow, terrible people that I've ever seen. It's unbelievable that anyone can actually act like a lot of these girls. Every guy is expendable, he needs to be completely flawless, even though she lives with her parents, he can't... Is it really any mystery why so many young guys are messaging older women?

If I was 10 years younger, I'd be the same way. I only know very few girls in their 20s who are actually worth talking to. When your potential dating pool is full of only people that you'll never be good enough for, you're going to start looking for a different type of person.
 TuMuchFun
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 1972
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Posted: 5/31/2013 1:59:05 PM
Older women/Younger...POF forbids it now
 huggybearlover
Joined: 3/4/2013
Msg: 1973
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Posted: 5/31/2013 3:48:35 PM
I was married to a guy for over 20 years and he was 13 1/2 years younger than me. We have a adult son also. My story, Six months after I turned 40 I met my husband the day after he turned 27. That was in June but we did not go out until late August. We were married 4 years later. We have been divorced for a little more than three years and we are just friends. So I see no reason an older women could not date younger men even if it is not just for sex. I too believe age is just a number. It is how you feel inside.
 Jam600
Joined: 7/17/2013
Msg: 1974
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Posted: 8/6/2013 5:08:16 AM
Hi how r u this morning.
 floral2
Joined: 7/10/2013
Msg: 1975
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Posted: 8/8/2013 6:42:16 AM
Depends on how younger. I wouldn't really consider an age difference of less than 5 years to be younger since we would be close to the same age. 5 to about 10 years younger would be acceptable. However it is unlikely I would seriously date a man that is more than 15 yrs younger than me. Although there could be a few exceptions, I think we would be in different life stages.
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