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 sundress2
Joined: 12/12/2015
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I would have no problem having a serious relationship with a man that is about 10 years younger than me. I would tend to agree it is more likely ( not always though ) to be a largely a sexual relationship when the age difference is 15-20 years or more. A big age difference can add additional challenges in a serious and/or long term relationship.
 Haulroad
Joined: 7/21/2013
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Posted: 1/24/2016 11:52:58 PM
A woman your own age somewhere in her brain is hearing wedding bells or at least playing house when she dates you, no matter how much she denies it to you and to herself. If that is what is in the back of your mind too, then a woman your own age is what you want.

A woman enough older than you for marriage or living together to be impractical or inappropriate wants what you want. She wants to have sex and fun times just like you do. A relationship with an older woman is more likely to be more about sex and less likely to be about white picket fences and children. Because there is less at stake there is less to quarrel about.

The thread question asked about a sexual relationship. A woman your age may have sex to please you. An older woman has sex to please herself. I can assure you that that is a much better sexual experience.
 alpharomeo47
Joined: 10/27/2014
Msg: 1906
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Posted: 1/30/2016 9:24:54 AM
It's great as long as communication is open :)
 ThatGirlNamedAlli
Joined: 12/28/2013
Msg: 1907
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Posted: 2/25/2016 9:31:42 PM
The last dream I had the other night, I woke up after making out with a maybe 27, 28 year old guy. It was kinda cool. Then the next night I was making out with a mid 50s fellow in my dream. That was cool too. Sadly, they were both only in my dreams :)
 TrvstInKarma
Joined: 9/1/2015
Msg: 1908
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Posted: 2/26/2016 7:15:00 AM
I just found out that my guy friend who's been taking me out was married to a woman 10 years older than him. She is a very attractive woman, even in her mid 50s, and he looks very in his mid 40s. Hard to tell there is much of an age difference between the two. I strongly believe this is much more common than people want to believe, because you can't tell the age difference many times when you see them out.
 Dallasroadie
Joined: 2/12/2016
Msg: 1909
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Posted: 2/26/2016 10:38:01 AM
Ten years is not that big a deal. But if you're 50 and dating someone 30, you can certainly tell the difference and it doesn't matter if the man is older or the woman is older dating 15 to 20 years younger. Or 46 and 28 or whatever.

My brother married 25 years younger. He looks his age and she looks 25 year years younger. So......
 showboatsupreme
Joined: 1/25/2016
Msg: 1910
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Posted: 2/26/2016 11:50:26 AM
Someone's going to bed with a smile on their face...
 TrvstInKarma
Joined: 9/1/2015
Msg: 1911
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Posted: 2/26/2016 7:10:08 PM
Ten years is not that big a deal.

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The guy I had a date with today is 35, so 11 years younger. So it's all good, ha!
 Stellan77
Joined: 2/8/2016
Msg: 1912
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Posted: 2/26/2016 7:15:43 PM
My ex was 12 yours older than me- I've come to realize that such a big age gap won't work for me. I prefer women around my age.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 1913
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Posted: 2/27/2016 10:53:56 AM

The last dream I had the other night, I woke up after making out with a maybe 27, 28 year old guy.

Did you check his ID? :)

Then the next night I was making out with a mid 50s fellow in my dream. That was cool too. Sadly, they were both only in my dreams :)

I think it's your mind telling you to land a date -- and it ain't picky on age at this point! :)

I just found out that my guy friend who's been taking me out was married to a woman 10 years older than him. She is a very attractive woman, even in her mid 50s, and he looks very in his mid 40s. Hard to tell there is much of an age difference

Oh, the guy you're Dating (not a guy-friend)? :) Yeah, mid 50s / mid 40s -- there can be that age difference of no bother, if they both look roughly the same age. The older you get, the less a 10 year gap's going to mean. And for casual dating, it doesn't matter much either. Just younger ages with a 10 year gap when it's serious dating is when people raise an eyebrow.
 NYCKOSI
Joined: 4/24/2015
Msg: 1914
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Posted: 4/4/2016 11:33:50 AM
Maybe sexually yes. But not for anything serious
 Whisky_River
Joined: 12/2/2015
Msg: 1915
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Posted: 4/4/2016 12:42:33 PM

But not for anything serious

Lol...what else is there to "some" younger men? Besides it's nonsense....if you think men in the real world aren't attracted to older women!
I've said it before on here...my 2nd husband was 10 years younger and we were together close to 18 years and he was "hot"!
And I was "hot" to him....and others did not notice the age difference.
My next guy...and we met irl...was 7 years younger...so what?
I didn't purposely look for younger or cared....I have met younger that are arseholes....I don't choose a man because of his age.
 BadResponseGuy
Joined: 3/26/2013
Msg: 1916
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Posted: 4/6/2016 11:52:46 AM
All based on maturity. But let's be realistic.
 SoleilMax
Joined: 8/27/2016
Msg: 1917
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Posted: 9/20/2016 10:40:26 AM
I totally agree with your post!

I have tried the Cougar life dating site and the majority of guys on there just seem to want sex only. The sex with younger men is indeed the best I've ever had but I do want a relationship and that's where there seems to be a problem...

Older men want a serious relationship but the sex is usually so so...Younger guys want sex only which is the best but no relationship. Isn't there anyone in between these two extremes here?
 PlutoLover68
Joined: 7/28/2016
Msg: 1918
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Posted: 9/20/2016 11:21:18 AM
I disagree that the sex is better when younger men. While they don't suffer from ED, like many of the older men, that is the only advantage I've found. ED can be very easily treated with meds. The younger men, in my experience, are more self centered, its about their needs and wants. The older men are more likely to make sure the women is completely satisfied and have the skills to do so.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 9/20/2016 3:30:30 PM

I have tried the Cougar life dating site and the majority of guys on there just seem to want sex only.

No way! I heard on Adult FF website they just want the same thing, too! The nerve! ;)

The sex with younger men is indeed the best I've ever had but

... but you do have to realize that that's what the site IS made for. Just casual hookups, not expecting anything more than casual dating, tops.
 BornOnAnIsland
Joined: 8/4/2016
Msg: 1920
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Posted: 9/22/2016 10:57:26 PM
I have no idea how or why this is happening, but when I turn this age I've attracted much younger men. One was 25, another was 28 and the youngest being 18, only I thought he was 25. The 25 year old I ran away from, the 28 year old I had a few phone calls with and I eventually stopped calling him and the 18 year old, he would call and text me all hours of the day and night. He was a performer/singer and toured. I blocked him. He was extremely persistent. Nothing physical happened with any of these men.
 fh7ddj7dchud55
Joined: 9/19/2016
Msg: 1921
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Posted: 9/23/2016 1:21:57 PM
Well adjusted people are generally attracted to people in the same age range. A 50 plus woman with an 18 year old guy . . even a 28 year old guy? Abursidity. You are being played . .. its good you didn't play along, but not so good you are not attracted to guys your own age. Perhaps a therapist?
 fh7ddj7dchud55
Joined: 9/19/2016
Msg: 1922
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Posted: 9/23/2016 1:23:32 PM
You know, I can look at a girl 25 years younger (I'm much older than my randomly generated profile says) and I can say to myself . . she is pretty. But I could not imagine myself in bed with what I would consider a child.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 1923
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Posted: 9/23/2016 4:26:02 PM
I often wonder if the older person is developmentally delayed and the younger person is within the normal range of intelligence, it could even out what might otherwise be a power imbalance?
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 1924
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Posted: 9/23/2016 5:24:40 PM
A friend in her 40s only dates men in their 20s. She says they are still hopeful and sweet.. all the men her age she claims are bitter and complain about past relationships
I admire her confidence
And no, she isn't just a booty call, she is going to Paris with one. IDK, I would be uncomfy, she isn't. More power to her
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 1925
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Posted: 9/24/2016 10:14:13 AM
I'll be waiting in room 237 silva fox.

The temps in Colorado are getting chilly so get ready to create some heat...
 FullMoonGuy
Joined: 3/7/2014
Msg: 1926
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Posted: 9/24/2016 10:21:31 AM

Well adjusted people are generally attracted to people in the same age range.


Is there a definitive authoritative guidebook to reference for that?
 SS4544Spd
Joined: 8/31/2016
Msg: 1927
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Posted: 9/24/2016 8:26:54 PM
BornOnAnIsland wrote:


I have no idea how or why this is happening, but when I turn this age I've attracted much younger men.


Well, since your profile says you prefer YOUNGER men, yes in caps.....I'd say thar's your problem, mam. If you even consider it a problem....You're a well preserved 53, which, along with your "YOUNGER," will attract scads of cougarbait.
 Escape2bfree
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Posted: 9/27/2016 2:51:12 PM
Depends on what your looking for. If your looking for shared interests, someone who understands you and a forever after then probably best to go within your own age range. If you want a laugh, some fun, just laughing, flirting and some interesting, experimental sex then younger is probably best ( though below 25 I don't like. 25+ are men). If you want the first, no harm in filling the gap til he comes along with the second. Although now I've typed this, Mr perfect, for me, is likely the later. Besides, not all relationships need to be forever after, some can be just about being in the moment without a life plan. Again, I think I prefer the later.
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