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 gocatalinatoday
Joined: 10/31/2007
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If you hate sex, why are you reading this Forum?

If you hate sex, why are you on a dating website?

That you hate sex would be a handy bit of information to include in your profile...
 scottiscool
Joined: 3/23/2006
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Can you be too wet?
Posted: 2/18/2008 4:35:53 PM
Lets me know I am doing my job. Have had my whole head soaked already, I aim to please.!!!!
 dixierae2008
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Posted: 2/18/2008 4:51:29 PM

Isnt that why they invented snorkel gear? ;)


oh damn, singleguy001 ...too funny!!
 dixierae2008
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wet girl
Posted: 2/18/2008 5:04:12 PM
A Spiritual Man, I think I love you!



 dontmakecookies
Joined: 11/1/2006
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wet girl
Posted: 2/18/2008 5:26:58 PM
Many many pages on women's wetness claiming the wetter the better...

Many many pages on women's tightness claiming the tighter the better...

And a whole bunch of people who just don't understand varying viscosity of female lubrication (what squirts is not a good lubricant) and simple physics of friction...
 GREAT EXPERT 900
Joined: 2/14/2008
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Posted: 2/18/2008 5:34:01 PM
being to wet is a problem, i like to feel some friction while i'm having sex. its harder for me to cum if shes to wet. one time i was going down on this chic i swear i felt like i was licking a wet glossy taco. her **** was plastered with cum, thats what it tasted like. it turned me off, i never licked a plastered **** like that before
 edward1224
Joined: 10/29/2005
Msg: 132
Can you be to wet?
Posted: 2/18/2008 5:38:47 PM
Ahhh, yea, actually sometimes it slips in and out too easily and we can't feel as much. Then it's harder for us to get off.

Ed
 GREAT EXPERT 900
Joined: 2/14/2008
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Posted: 2/20/2008 9:42:54 AM
i love wet chix, some chix don't get wet enough. a few times i had to put some vaseline on her ****. onetime i was about to lick this woman's **** but she was sooo wet, it tasted like cum. i asked her if she squirted on herself or something because her **** was plastered with cum. i guess she did it on herself while she was giving me a blowjob before i started licking her.
 MichelleDRB
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Posted: 2/20/2008 10:35:05 AM
You werent too wet, he was too small. I was told that once too, but he didnt realize that it wasnt me, it was his tiny penis. I could not hardly feel anything, if he was bigger he would have loved it, as would i have. Thats crazy when a man tells a woman she is too wet.
 forum101
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Posted: 2/22/2008 12:10:44 AM
grat expert 900 said: "being to wet is a problem, i like to feel some friction while i'm having sex. its harder for me to cum if shes to wet. "


without sounding too crude, hopefully, if it is friction that is your problem, Take you hand and swipe it over you willy to remove the excess. Taadaa!!! more friction. unless the problem is not friction, but size. but them, thats a whole other forum topic.
 Wildcherye
Joined: 3/1/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2008 12:49:16 AM
Hey Scorpio85......

you just need to go away........



or just GET IT GOOD!!!!
 MANganese
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Posted: 2/22/2008 1:25:01 AM
Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, Volume 4, August 25, 2001
www.ejhs.org
Urethral Expulsions During Sensual Arousal and Bladder Catheterization in Seven Human Females


Chapter 3

RESEARCH ISSUES

FEMALE ORGASM

For the last 50 years modern science has generally accepted first Kinsey’s and then Masters and Johnson’s premise that the clitoris alone was responsible for triggering female orgasm with the pudendal nerve as the sensory pathway. They saw the creation of an “orgasmic platform” which underwent myatonic build-up which was then released during orgasm.43 However, in 1981, Perry and Whipple presented a theory of a second form of orgasm. This “uterine” orgasm “includes the Gräfenberg spot (presumed to be the female prostate) as its major source of stimulation, the pelvic nerve as its major pathway and the musculature of the uterus (in females), the bladder, the urethra, the prostate gland and the proximal portion of the pubococcygeus muscle as its major myatonic manifestation.”44

Singer and Singer go on to describe a blended orgasm which “combines elements of the previous two kinds. ...it is characterized by contractions of the orgasmic platform, but the orgasm is subjectively regarded as deeper than a vulval orgasm.”45

What all of this highlights is how subjective and personal a woman’s experience of orgasm is, and how much there is yet to know about the intricacies of female orgasm, including the emotional and intellectual components. This point was made repeatedly in the comments in the questionnaires of the female subjects (see Appendix A).

In The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Human Sexuality, the authors saw women’s experience of orgasm as not one way or another, correct or incorrect, but as a continuum of experience. They argue that there can be a blending of different types of orgasmic experience unique to the individual.46 One woman who is a participant in the current study has categorized and kept notes on 126 different types of orgasm to date and she is constantly finding new and more subtle variations.

URINARY STRESS INCONTINENCE

Urinary stress incontinence is considered to be a dysfunction of the bladder outlet that leads to the involuntary leakage of urine as intra-abdominal pressure is raised above urethral resistance during such activities as bearing down, coughing, sneezing, bending, or lifting heavy objects. The volume of urine leakage is generally modest at each occurrence and, in uncomplicated cases, post void residual volume is low. Urinary stress incontinence is usually a result of weakness of the muscles of the pelvic floor and/or a weakening of bladder neck supports.47

Urinary stress incontinence during sexual arousal is a poorly understood problem. There have been relatively few studies involving urinary stress incontinence and sexuality. In those there were disagreements whether the diagnosis was, in fact, urinary stress incontinence or related bladder control issues, such as detrusor instability.48

One thing that this researcher has rediscovered during this research project is the reality that much of the world views controversies such as this in an either/or framework. In this instance, one view adopted by the medical science has been that all urethral expulsions during sensual and/or sexual activity were a result of urinary stress incontinence. Another viewpoint, held by women who expel fluid during sensual/sexual arousal and their partners, was that this is a natural expulsion of fluid that does not appear to be urine and might involve a process similar to prostatic ejaculation in males. In reality, both may be the case. A 1985 study done by the New York City Beth Israel Medical Center Department of Urology concluded that, “female ejaculation may have other explanations. These include: (1) an episode of stress incontinence, (2) secretion leakage of variable amounts of fluid from Skene’s glands caused by sexual arousal or orgasm, and (3) mixed expulsion of urine and Skenean secretion.”49

Previous research has clearly shown that the lack of strength of a woman’s pelvic muscles has a correlation to incidents of urinary stress incontinence. Tested on a Perineometer, women diagnosed with urinary stress incontinence usually test in the range of from 0 to 10 mm/Hg.50

Research by Perry and Whipple has shown that female ejaculators “have significantly stronger pubococcygeal muscle contractions and significantly stronger uterine contractions than non-ejaculators.”51 In that study, utilizing the Electronic Perineometer, non-ejaculators had an average reading of 6.71 microvolts, while the ejaculators averaged 11.84 microvolts.52

THE WOMEN SUBJECTS

The problem with conducting this experiment previously has been the unavailability of test subjects who could generate the questioned fluid in a clinical environment. This researcher's access to highly trained women who were capable of achieving the desired result under scrutiny created the opportunity for this unique experiment. All these women are very comfortable with their bodies as well as their sexuality. They also teach other women body awareness along with how to experience more sexual and sensual pleasure including G {Goddess (their terminology)} spot stimulation. They were not chosen to be statistically representative of all women but instead were chosen because, if a urethral expulsion during sensual arousal was possible, these women were the most likely to be able to produce it in a scientific environment.

The age range of the seven female subjects is 41 to 71 with the average age being 49.14 and a median age of 45. They reported having expelled fluid during sensual/sexual activity for an average of seven and two thirds years.

Most of the women subjects reported a preference in type of stimulation to orgasm, multiple orgasm and/or expulsion of fluid. In order, the preferences were: digital, then oral and, finally a combination of those two choices. In terms of penile contact, the majority reported that it only “sometimes” contributes to stimulation to orgasm, multiple orgasm and/or expulsion of fluid.

Five of the seven women subjects reported doing exercises to develop their vaginal muscles and all of those reported increased sexual responsiveness as a result. All reported contracting and/or pushing out with their vaginal muscles during sensual/sexual arousal and/or orgasm. All but one reported pushing out. The effects of this type of training are evident in the videotape record of the experiment.

Results of a pre arousal perineometer test on the current study subjects demonstrated that their average pelvic muscle strength was 26.67 mm/Hg. This was not only significantly higher than the reported average of women in general53 but particularly contrasted with women diagnosed with urinary stress incontinence.54

The experiences of the female subjects in this study provided interesting insights into ways that their body awareness has expanded their personal experience of their sexuality. Following the kind of suggestions made in The G Spot for women to exercise their pubococcygeal muscles, learn breathing techniques and push out rather than contract their muscles at orgasm, the subjects in this study reported that the intensity and duration of their orgasms have increased (see Appendix A).

43. Whipple and Komisaruk, 1991, pg. 230
44. Perry and Whipple, 1981, pg.32
45. Singer and Singer, in Handbook of Sex Therapy, pg. 179
46. Ladas, et al, The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Human Sexuality, pg. 152.
47. Tanagho and McAninch, Smith's General Urology, pg. 538
48. Khan, pg. 281
49. Khan, pg. 281.
50. Kegel, 1956, pg. 497
51. Perry and Whipple, 1981, pg. 23
52. Ibid., pg. 23
53. Levitt, et al, pg. 429
54. Kegel, 1956, pg. 497

Bibliography

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 MANganese
Joined: 2/18/2008
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Posted: 2/22/2008 1:26:20 AM
That being said I don't mind wetness. I just mind the golden showers all over my face. lol
 custis
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 139
Can you be to wet?
Posted: 2/22/2008 4:11:06 AM
I may be coming to Florida this summer and I will be happy to let you know how wet you are.
 xrayman
Joined: 12/29/2005
Msg: 140
Can you be to wet?
Posted: 2/22/2008 8:42:42 AM
omg what the heck to wet ,lol;lol; the wetter the better it tells me shes real real happy and got hers so i have no problem getting mine.as far as to wet ,never for me
 supersnuggle
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Posted: 2/22/2008 5:32:40 PM

You werent too wet, he was too small. I was told that once too, but he didnt realize that it wasnt me, it was his tiny penis. I could not hardly feel anything, if he was bigger he would have loved it, as would i have. Thats crazy when a man tells a woman she is too wet.


That may sometimes be the case, but not necessarily. According to what I have read, I am above average in penis size, and my girlfriend has a pretty tight one. But it seems that depending on the stage in her cycle, the amount of moisture does vary a good bit. She is never too dry, but sometimes gets pretty sloppy wet. When that happens, things just don't seem as tight, and it doesn't feel quite as good. Still good, just not as good. And makes continuous stroking for 30 to 40 minutes more difficult.

Some things we have tried...keep a towel handy, pull out for a quick dry off, only takes a few seconds. Get her on top, so it is running out instead of staying in. Or get down there and lap it up for a few minutes. When it gets really wet, that stuff does taste good.

And girls... keep doing those kegal excercises....tightness overcomes a lot of wetness.
 blacksuperwoman
Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 142
Can you be to wet?
Posted: 2/22/2008 5:46:30 PM
nope i dont think so..better then being all dried up..
 Ima Lady
Joined: 1/30/2008
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Posted: 2/22/2008 11:22:29 PM
Too wet? Wet means, he got your 'head', and your body followed, and your heart, thats reserved for last.

Wow, too wet.. he'd really be ****ing if you were too dry, ouch Look at all the 'lube' they sell at the drug stores, what a fat head.
 eribarton
Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 144
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Posted: 2/22/2008 11:25:20 PM
wow, I was actually with a guy for a year and a half and he used to complain about me being too wet. He always had to have tissues next to us if we were having sex so he could wipe himself up.



btw...someone made a comment that the only man that wouldnt like wetness would have to be small because it would keep slipping out....hahahaha he was small and it happened to us all the time.


every guy Ive had sex with has told me they think its wonderful except him, so I dont worry about it.
 dancecard
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Posted: 2/23/2008 12:02:51 AM
tissues! ~ I'd call the need for tissues somewhere around just right.

My thoughts where more along the line of a beach towel, maybe two ~ well beyond the reach of any dual ply paper towel ~ much less and tiny tissue. ~

Yes ~ I feel like you can be too wet ~ but let us get all on the same sheet of music about wet. ~ Too much luberication, I get the feeling I might get charged for "assult with a dead weapon"

~dar
 brnigrl2u
Joined: 2/15/2008
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Posted: 2/23/2008 7:51:33 AM
Yes, heard of that...
I think if the "size" is compatible, wetness just enhances the whole experience...ever heard of a towel????
Giving head makes me the wettest, and if it's "too much" well then, use your mouth, and clean the "field"....
 DenaliDadd
Joined: 11/20/2007
Msg: 147
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Posted: 2/23/2008 9:16:46 AM
Ah, but "cleaning the field" with my mouth would probably not get the job done, would it? If what you say about giving you head is right, giving you head to 'clean the field' might 'moisten' up the field a bit more, eh?
 happyrebel
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Posted: 2/23/2008 11:09:21 AM
AK transplant: Its possible to lap a puddle of any fluid-so long as you can swallow quickly. If the tongue is quick enough to lap up the excess, the moisture from the tongue will dry up quicker than if the puddle is left alone.

Sounds like a fun experiment though! Far easier to keep a towel (or 3-4) handy

HR
 krazyk0674
Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 149
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Posted: 2/23/2008 12:50:27 PM
get it wet and you can do anything ! lol
 missbehavingkristi
Joined: 2/18/2008
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wet girl
Posted: 2/23/2008 2:15:06 PM
hey scorpio,,why are you on the sex forum then????? and go to E harmony.com,,or any christian singles site,,it is a thread for ppl to get advice and or vent..get over it and get over yourself,,good luck fishing..
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