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 Verissa
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 411
Do men feel anything when they have sex or are they emotionless?Page 19 of 19    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19)

So men dont fall in love when they have sex over a long period of time...?

I think its different for women... its harder not to get emotionally involved.


It is different if you want it to be different. I have had a few "friends" over the years that I adore and have had sex with but do not love romantically in the least. Yet my husband, whom I had no intention at first of falling in love with at first, I fell for fast and it hit me like a ton of bricks to the point that I cannot see my life without him. Now what makes him different from the other men I honestly do not know..he is no sweeter, no kinder, no better looking..he is just different in the fact that I fell head over heels in love with him.
 Slip_Kid
Joined: 3/9/2009
Msg: 417
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Do men feel anything when they have sex or are they emotionless?
Posted: 4/14/2009 7:59:02 PM
My advice to you:

Cut him off and see if he gets emotional then!
 Tarnished_Knight
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 422
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Do men feel anything when they have sex or are they emotionless?
Posted: 4/20/2009 9:59:06 PM
I do not differentiate sex/intercourse from love/emotional bonding. That apparently makes me an odd duck. From so many of the comments in this thread there seems to be a prevailing thought that women and fleshlights are equivalent. Ick.

I am not, never have been, never will be a sexual satyr (not necessarily redundant). I do not view sex as a mechanical function void of emotion. It is a bonding / joyful act between (and with this next phrase I'm realize I'm way out in right field) a married man and woman. To me sex is special and should be treated and affirmed as something almost sacred; not to be casually tossed around like a virgin condom. Yeah, I know, I'm an odd duck.

TK; quack, quack
 Romantic man here
Joined: 11/12/2007
Msg: 432
Do men feel anything when they have sex or are they emotionless?
Posted: 7/2/2011 4:44:20 PM
There has to be romantic feelings for sex to be good for me. One can't generalize a gender men or women that broadly.
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 436
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Do men feel anything when they have sex or are they emotionless?
Posted: 7/3/2011 6:26:40 PM
Post #436


Well said.... an ideal lover practices Tantric like methods
 bayliner1102
Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 437
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Do men feel anything when they have sex or are they emotionless?
Posted: 7/3/2011 9:59:07 PM
I will be honest, I don't have sex with a lady unless I feel something with her. I guess I am old fashion
 CharWebb
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 446
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Do men feel anything when they have sex or are they emotionless?
Posted: 8/14/2011 8:00:38 AM
It's all just physical for men. They can sleep with someone and feel absolutely NO EMOTIONAL attachment whatsoever. Women on the other hand...fall 'in love' far too quickly - assuming that the man is actually interested in them!
Having been on the receiving end of just such a relationship..I would advocate any woman to simply WAIT and test the emotional waters first. It's really nasty to think someone is emotionally mature enough to want more...and realize after you've been physical...that he simply is not there.

Oh...and ladies...just cuz you sleep with a guy...doesn't mean he won't suddenly have an EX pop back into the picture. Or keep looking for another woman. Or keep dating other women. Wake up....
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 447
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Do men feel anything when they have sex or are they emotionless?
Posted: 8/14/2011 8:51:38 AM

They can sleep with someone and feel absolutely NO EMOTIONAL attachment whatsoever.


Thank you for sleeping with all of the men on the planet. I must have been out that week, thankfully.

You paint with a very broad brush, your man picker must be broken.


Oh...and ladies...just cuz you sleep with a guy...doesn't mean he won't suddenly have an EX pop back into the picture. Or keep looking for another woman. Or keep dating other women. Wake up....


See..told you your man picker was broken. Experience speaking?
 yourstillhere
Joined: 7/30/2008
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Seriously!
Posted: 12/3/2011 6:16:59 PM
of course we feel something.

you wont find too many men who fake their orgasms.
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