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 ComplekCity
Joined: 1/17/2011
Msg: 73
69 Top or BottomPage 2 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
The bottom for me because :

a) I can run my hands up and down her back and also grab/carress her tush
b) It turns me on to feel "pinned down"/"force fed"

 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 74
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69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 2/21/2011 8:27:51 AM
Why top or bottom? What about doing it both lying on your sides? There's a lot more"mobility" too.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 75
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 2/21/2011 10:08:18 AM
standard basic 69 isn't really my cup of tea.

as damassteel has said- there are lots of other ways to do 69 that are more comfortable and interesting for all involved...
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 76
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 2/21/2011 7:28:29 PM
Women lately tend to not like 69....they want to take turns....they also tend to not want to be on top when receiving oral...even though its way more comfortable for guys...no craning our necks...
 venndiagram
Joined: 10/29/2009
Msg: 77
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 2/23/2011 4:44:56 PM
I need to concentrate to do my best work. *shrugs*
 BrookfieldMan
Joined: 2/6/2011
Msg: 78
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 2/27/2011 11:08:25 AM
i like to be on the bottom because it feels better for her to be on my dikk on top.

but it strains my neck, i like to go one hole up too.

gotta use a pillow or a something to support my head or my neck might be stiff instead of my dikk.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 80
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 2/27/2011 2:08:19 PM
Interesting question . I think it's most common for the woman on top. I think I forgot the reasoning behind that. I'm sure I once did come up with my own reason for it. Happy orals
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 81
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 6/21/2011 10:58:07 AM
As far as le soissant-neuf goes...
I like the bottom...
Love Having my face sat-on!
And I wouldn't want to discomfort her throat with the 9 x 2...
She can control how much she wants to take.
And anyway...the head is the most sensitive area, so taking more than 4" isn't actually necessary.
Personally, I like a 1-on-1 approach...
I lie her on her back and let her relax and not have to concentrate on what shes doing...
except _Enjoying_!!!
I'm fairly sure that the *Even-Trade* will be just as rewarding!!!
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 82
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 6/21/2011 11:36:07 AM
I prefer the top. otherwise I have to bend his penis backwards and I feel like Im hurting him. It just doesnt seem natural. But I do prefer to take turns even more. It's nice to just get lost in it.
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 83
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 6/21/2011 3:34:01 PM
I prefer to concentrate on my work, so I am not a 69 fan.
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 85
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 6/22/2011 4:59:40 AM
I prefer the top. otherwise I have to bend his penis backwards and I feel like Im hurting him.

Believe me that is exactly right, for me unless she is on top it does hurt me once it is pointed north it hurts should it try to be moved south.
edit: well it does not hurt pointed north but only if it is bent or tried to move east or south.
 sitonmyface62
Joined: 4/30/2011
Msg: 86
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/6/2011 3:56:45 PM
now thats what i'm talkin about
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 87
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/6/2011 4:21:12 PM
bottom.
the view is much better.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 88
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/6/2011 4:31:26 PM
Is it really 69 if she can't concentrate on what she's doing?

 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 89
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69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/6/2011 6:37:49 PM
^^ That's the whole point of 69 for me.......seeing how can distract who the most!

I actually like the guy on top......and I've never had one complain about the angle of his penis hurting.
And I can deep throat better with that angle!
 goldaglet
Joined: 7/2/2011
Msg: 90
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/6/2011 7:03:01 PM
That depends on the physical comfort and agility of the parties involved. Weight is an important issue. You might consider the 68...they do you and you owe 'em one.
 leadpipe1958
Joined: 6/19/2009
Msg: 91
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/6/2011 10:16:21 PM
I will see how it goes.If she wants to ride rather then pushed .Works for me.
A fun thing to do is she starts on top then change positions with out separating.It's fun to see how many positions you can do be for you fall off the bed.
 nfynetquest
Joined: 10/3/2010
Msg: 92
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/6/2011 10:24:31 PM
Top for me to concentrate on him, bottom for me to concentrate on me.
 barefootkitten
Joined: 12/17/2009
Msg: 93
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/6/2011 10:54:19 PM
Why top or bottom? What about doing it both lying on your sides? There's a lot more"mobility" too.
Was kinda thinking the same thing. I find if I'm on top I only have the use of one of my hands as I have to use the other to hold myself up. I MUCH prefer side by side, that way neither one has to hold themselves up and both partners get to use both their hands to please the other.
 doc2702
Joined: 5/8/2011
Msg: 94
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/7/2011 12:30:26 PM
depends on size, I like to pick her up and turn her upside down. don't know why. when I'm on bottom my neck sometimes cramps as I'm sure hers can too. Side by side works depending on how short or tall you each are. size can matter and effect positioning of the 69
 garvey14
Joined: 6/6/2011
Msg: 95
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/7/2011 8:59:10 PM
Silly question. How can she enjoy the mustache ride if she is on bottom. Plus with her being on top it's a lot easier to use fingers to go along with the tongue. That and she can grind away. Just be sure not to hurt your neck.
 Coxgirl
Joined: 5/24/2010
Msg: 96
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/7/2011 9:28:55 PM
This whole post really makes me want oral.. lol

I am a bottom girl.. only cause I havent gotten used to the sitting on the guys face thing yet. but I am working on it :) Just need to find A suitable practice buddy :)
 Uneverknow67
Joined: 5/19/2011
Msg: 97
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/7/2011 11:20:45 PM
I like the bottom. She can move with more freedom and allows her to work with my manhood with her in control. I must say top or bottom both work for me. Love foreplay.
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 98
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/8/2011 1:38:25 AM

depends on size, I like to pick her up and turn her upside down.


I've been in that position. As sexy as it looks, it doesn't last long due to the blood rushing to the head. Makes for a great Kodak moment though.
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 99
69 Top or Bottom
Posted: 7/8/2011 10:53:50 AM
....I've got the camera ready...*GRIN*
I've always wanted to try the Vertical way....It looks Ultra-erotic!!
...which is another reason I prefer slimmer women over the large size.
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