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 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 1022
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ummmmm....nobody could trick me into sex...I have it because I like it...unless you're talking about taking advantage of someone who is not mentally there..yes there are laws about that.
If you mean lying and professing their love , getting laid , and then leaving. Then no, I do not think there should be laws against this at all. Yes, I do think it's despicable. It should be a lesson learned to your friends ...sex is a big deal, it's not something to play games with , and you need to start with yourself. Then find a man of character. Worry about the sex after that. Picking up guys in bars doesn't count...
I can't think of any other way a guy could 'trick' a girl into having sex....Peace.

edit...lol..I should really start checking the dates on these :beer:
 motownmaniax
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 1023
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 8/18/2009 12:40:12 AM

how are those hypnotist classes coming along?


I don't think they're helping, RO. For some reason I still keep seeing beer icons.
 AceOfSpace
Joined: 5/28/2007
Msg: 1027
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 8/19/2009 9:43:40 AM

Marriage: You risk your heart, your finances, make concessions in your career and body to have a family together and limit your sexual experiences only to see it end after your prime years are spent.


And even when marriage does "work out," it eventually ends. One or the other of you dies first, leaving the other abandoned and alone after 50+ years. Can you even begin to imagine a more heartbreaking loss?
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 1028
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Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 8/19/2009 10:31:32 AM
an adult cant be tricked into having sex, this is the most seriously warped post i have read, its implying that women are helpless and stupid, i would be so pissed if i where a woman
 boinkboinkboink
Joined: 3/20/2009
Msg: 1029
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 8/19/2009 10:45:24 AM
OP, how do you prove his real motives?

I recall an example in my own life a few years ago. I spend several weeks talking and flirting with what I thought was a perfect woman for me. The moment I got her into the bedroom naked, I was disgusted. How do you explain this to a woman without making things even worse? This only argues in favour of having sex sooner than later.
 jacob8088
Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 1031
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 10/5/2009 12:29:24 AM
Hell no there shouldn't be a law. Some gameplayers actually get off on luring weakminded souls like you into bed. Deceiving, concealment, or deliberate distortion...call it what you want.

Fact is you fell for it and allowed it to happen. In all seriousness it is quite of a turn on knowing some women like you think of it as second class rape..LOL
 Nathan_x
Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 1032
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Posted: 10/5/2009 7:53:54 AM
Absolutely not. And I'm no player. But people have to take personal responsibility for their actions. If a woman allows herself to be tricked, that's her fault. No one told her she had to trust the guy.

Or maybe in many cases the woman wanted sex almost as much as the guy, and she just can't be honest with herself about it. Otherwise she'd make damn sure she could trust him first.

Do you really wanna throw guys in jail for telling women they want a serious relationship when they don't?
 cap_n_mORGAN
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 1035
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 10/5/2009 5:23:18 PM
OP You have to be kidding me! I have had more than one lady do me the same way. Rape?!?!?!?! Look I have learned that you need to date long enough to really get to know someone before starting a sexual relationship.
I have always been told "believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see"!!!
Sounds like sour grapes to me!!!
Hey on second thought you might have something.......I could sue all the women that put up pic's that are 10 years old or 50 pounds ago. I could sue them for getting my hopes up!!!!
Please grow up and use self control.
If he or she is for real and wants a real relationship they will not mind waiting for you to be comfortable with sleeping with them.
Just my 2 cents!!!
 StevieCashmere
Joined: 4/22/2009
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 PirateJohn09
Joined: 1/7/2009
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Posted: 10/11/2009 5:37:24 PM

...Or maybe we could pass a law that women must continue having sex after marriage...

You know they discovered a food product that, when eaten, permanently removes a woman's sex drive? It's called wedding cake.
 redheadlady4
Joined: 11/19/2005
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Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 10/15/2009 7:04:19 PM
Welsh" I completly agree with what you are saying. I have found myself in this situation....however, that being said...Its "My Bad" if I dont see it comming, these guys that practice this behaviour will get theirs eventually..but I still say it was "My bad" to go thru with it, I will say this...it has made me alot stronger now, they are the loosers here !!
 Dee4166
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 1045
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Posted: 10/16/2009 5:25:01 AM

you missing my point karla and totally overlooking what im on about! what if a guy strings a woman along for months on the belief he loves her and she falls in love with him also and feels ok and ready to have a sexual encounter with him...but all along shes just a sexual conquest to him and nothing more! then dumps her when he,s had what he wanted!? i have many female friends who have been soul destroyed by this,, they wasnt forced into sex...the vital point is they were (TRICKED)


A story as OLD as TIME!!! NOT going to stop anytime soon...BTW...if he's capable of this "deception| for a period of MONTHS, then she has BIGGER problems than being strung along...She's pobably dealing with an individual with anti-social disorder, (sociopath!)

And the SOLUTION.....





















USE THE BRAINS THAT THE CREATOR GAVE YOU!!!!

Rather than expending all kinds of mental energy on schemes on how to "trap' him, or obssessing over "what he thinks of me!" Women need to become more interested in taking care of themselves and their self-esteem in a respectful and firm manner and learn how to honour their feelings/intuition as much as their ability to rationalize...

In these cases there are no victims, just volunteers...(and NO!!! that is NOT a Dr. Phil-ism") heard it LONG before he was a twinkle in Oprah's eye!!!
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 1046
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Posted: 10/16/2009 7:09:13 AM
I think she fell for the old "and for my next trick, I'm going to need a blonde volunteer, and a condom" routine.


 motownmaniax
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 1048
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 10/16/2009 1:28:23 PM

How would they enforce such a law in utopia anyways? There are always always gonna be wolves and sheep, just as there is night and day. It's up to Women and Men to smarten up if they don't want to be so seduced.




If a law was ever passed I can only imagine how clogged the legal system would be with stupid, frivolous cases of scorned men and women demanding financial restitution for being so "tricked". I'd hate to be the lawyers and judges having to adjudicate such drivel...lol.
 Dee4166
Joined: 6/16/2007
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Posted: 10/16/2009 1:34:54 PM
Now is that like a....MAGIC trick? Or a one-trick pony...?
Hallowe'en is coming...are we talking trick or treat, here????

Sorry folks...I'm still trying to figure out how someone gets "tricked" into having sex...
Must be SOME kinda sleight of hand or, erm...WHATEVER!!!
 startle
Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 1050
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Posted: 10/16/2009 1:55:45 PM
i have found in dating men that the deceiving begins at stage one...men feel all women want a ring on her finger for security..translation---money-- so she doesn't have to work...the idea that a women is on the prowl for sex is laughable...we can get that all day long...therefore all women would like to get money from men now or later,, in the form of a wedding ring...if you are looking for money now ...say so...money later say so...let them say what they will...state your case and there will be no need for deceit and lies...
 motownmaniax
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 1051
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 10/16/2009 2:15:58 PM
Sexual manipulation happens in both sexes.

For men, in the absence of pure physical appeal (I don't think the gorgeous, hunky males of the world have to demand sex; they have willing hordes of women throwing themselves at them without much invitation), those who have power, influence, and money use it to get what they want.

For women it's not so much centered on getting sex, since that's not an issue for most women, but tangible, materialistic items of benefit. I personally know of one case where the woman uses her sexuality to gain favors such as fixing things around her house (and not cheap handyman stuff), free nights out of entertainment (meals, concerts, etc), and direct $$$ from men that believe she likes them more than she lets on.

In all cases it's still dater beware. If there's one thing I'd like to drill into anyone who dates, whether it be on here or not, is to be careful and not gullible and too idealistic. I can't stress that enough.

But legislate dating behavior? Too funny.
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 1054
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 11/24/2010 8:40:26 AM
how could anyone be "tricked" into a sexual encounter?

if you don't want to have a sexual encounter with another person you say no to them.if you were assaulted or raped by the person then you go to the police and make a report so charges can be filed againest that person.


if you feel that you were lied to or misled and thats all that happened to you then you need to get over it and move on. this is how you live and learn.
 Billy_Famine
Joined: 8/3/2010
Msg: 1055
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 11/24/2010 10:04:07 AM
Tricked into sex?

No way, I never promise girls marriages or anything of the sort (marriage? Last thing I'd want is to be doomed into this)

I have sex and move on.

Remember, it's good for me, and it's good for her. I don't owe her anything.

Sometimes I trick gold diggers into thinking I got gold, and I don't. I think that's fair though.
 SouthBayNative
Joined: 10/15/2010
Msg: 1056
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Posted: 11/24/2010 12:06:44 PM
I've been tricked into a relationship in which there is no sex. I'm going to do something about it however. Look elsewhere.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 1057
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 11/24/2010 2:43:17 PM
More laws for the nutbars!!! Great freaking idea.

Laws are only for people that follow em. Dirtbags(players) don't follow rules. None.
 I-am-Rei
Joined: 9/11/2009
Msg: 1058
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Posted: 11/25/2010 4:03:06 AM
If there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters, there should be a school for common sense. It's a pity both can't be applied.
 lovableladywanted
Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 1060
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Posted: 11/25/2010 8:23:59 AM
If there were a law against people tricking you into having sex , then the human species would become extinct.
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 1061
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Posted: 11/26/2010 5:17:30 AM
old and out of date forum postings never die on this site.

when i saw this posting it ticked me off.thats all we need is more laws to protect the stupid people at the expense of those of us who are not.

we need to live and learn from our mistakes and bad choices.we need to forgive those that have wronged us.we will be better citizens and better neighbors if we do so.
 eastwood969
Joined: 12/21/2009
Msg: 1062
Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 11/26/2010 8:25:54 AM
We already have laws against this type of behavior, it's to protect children under the age of 18 from doing things before their mind has had a chance to develop.There are already too many laws on the books. We don't enforce the laws we already have,hence the parole system. Everything in the current laws is flawed due to a persons ability to hire good legal council. The only law that needs to be legislated now is to start erasing the book of laws and stop taxing people for every single little bitty problem you can think of.
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