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 LoonyTunz
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Looney can even come share some love sometimes. We know he goes both ways on this issue. lol

okay I think I might need that clarified a little. And the lovin' will have to remain platonic.
 LoonyTunz
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Posted: 6/29/2008 9:32:09 PM
Not a problem. That is what the edit button is for.
 desertrhino
Joined: 11/30/2007
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Posted: 7/1/2008 5:48:33 AM

thats bull shit women do the same as men ive got two kids n another one due in aug and when i've spoke to some women and said i've got kids the chat ends there. why is the blame all ways on us when women do the same????????


Seriously? 21, a self-professed bad boy who wants to take girls to the hotel "for dessert," 2 kids and 1 on the way? It could be the kids are just the icing on the cake... I'd seriously want to hear the story before I dated a woman in the same situation.

Besides, there's a thread devoted to that, though it may have sunk to the second page, I didn't look, to be honest.
 LoonyTunz
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Posted: 7/1/2008 12:02:35 PM
With 5 kids you won't be able to give as much focus on a relationship or another adult as someone without. If you can either you don't ever sleep or the kids are missing out on something.
Get over the "their just selfish" BS. Some people require more one on one time than others, and even many of those people seem to be able to adjust when SHARING the responsibilities of raising THEIR kids. For others it isn't even an issue.
 Canoe Gal
Joined: 5/5/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2008 9:26:43 AM
I think it was more of what he "didn't hear"...lol. By the way, we (from the great White North) enjoyed a wonderful Canada Day. I hope you enjoy your Independence Day just as much.
 Canoe Gal
Joined: 5/5/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2008 8:15:51 PM

your right it is there loss.
Hummm...how can it be a loss if it was never theirs? I'm thinking it should have been manditory for people to read all 140 pgs before making a comment. Yes she's entitled to her opinion, doesn't mean I have to agree with it. Yes I have posted my feelings on what they are missing when not experiencing something but that's different from loosing it...lol Happy 4th to my neighbours to the south. Thank you for sharing a few of your marching bands for our Stampede Parade this morning. They were great.
 LoonyTunz
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Posted: 7/4/2008 10:51:29 PM

your right it is there loss.

Proof positive De Nile is more than just a big river in Africa.

but i have decided that i have a man in my life... my son and he is way more important to me then any any guy will ever be!

Oh oh oh where can I sign up to be treated like that?
Come on! We know your kids are important to you, just as mine are important to me. But it is foolishness bordering on stupidity to insist that any future significant other will always take a backseat in everything.

but there are guys out there who will love you i kn0ow this cuz my "dad" started dating my mom when i was 3 months old so....

This begs the question, was that guy one of the "mangina" owners and content with being a second class human eternally? Or did this poster fail to learn from the example that was right before her eyes as she grew up?

Seriously I am literally shaking my head here. Maaaaaaaaaaaan, what ever happened to treating people in the manner in which you yourself would like to be treated?

Anyway Happy 4th to the Yanks and good luck
 desertrhino
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Posted: 7/5/2008 7:11:38 AM
Well, in the interest of peace, I'll just let the rest of it slide. Have a nice day, loony.
 LoonyTunz
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Posted: 7/5/2008 9:20:52 AM

3500 posts, 108,000 views and we all get along so well. Who cares about that word rhino, I wouldn't own it. Looney's point I think was her "dad" didn't come in second or third he was the man she knew growing up. Now she does not see the importance of the man that would be in her life. Though that could be from pain in her last relationship as well. Bob

Very very close Bob. Although the "mangina" part was included because there are a few people that are actually like this. I asked because I do not know her situation or her past. She may well have had a spineless twit as a role model of what place a man has in life OR as you stated could have missed the lesson there and be projecting from other experiences.

Rhino if I blanket dismiss your post it is because of one of two things. It is either so over-simplified and PC as to be not worthy of critical though, or instead of addressing the issue you've started running off at the mouth and directly insulting people.
Word of advice, the mod's are thick lately and very quick to edit/remove posts such as yours and ban the posters lately. So you may wish to change your style and hope they never click on pages 40-140.
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