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 rebel777
Joined: 3/22/2007
Msg: 64
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???Page 3 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)
I have masterbated soooooooooooooo very much,that I have had one very long Orgasm since I was 13.
 ByteMeOk
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 68
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 8/4/2008 7:38:06 AM
Oh thank God I'm normal then but....more than once a day?
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 70
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Posted: 8/5/2008 10:46:03 PM
When men jerk off so much, they can not perform with a lady. Too many men are major over doers in the jerk off catogory.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 71
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Posted: 8/5/2008 10:56:16 PM
The quote that was written within Lil Brooker's quote really says how I feel. I am very much sexually frustrated because men jerk off way too much, and they do not learn where or how to touch a women and these men can't come because they jerk off way too much. You jerk offs learn to touch a woman, instead of yourselves and stop doing yourselves so much so you can get an actual erection with a real women and learn to touch and turn her on and actually ejaculate inside her. I keep praying. I am so very sexually frustrated.
 _Red_
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 73
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 8/5/2008 11:14:36 PM

When men jerk off so much, they can not perform with a lady. Too many men are major over doers in the jerk off catogory.


Ya know, she's got a point there. I think from now on, all us females should control just how often our guys get themselves off and under what circumstances it's permissable for them to do so. Let's lay down the law!

Actually, I may have the perfect BF for you Cat. He actually had insecurity and jealousy issues over my toys and my use of them when he wasn't around even tho he never heard the word "no" uttered once from my lips in reference to sex.

 ByteMeOk
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 77
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 8/6/2008 5:49:39 AM
Ex-BF told me that he used to masturbate before dates so that he could last longer and satisfy more. Do it as much as you want. No one's judging!



Sounds like you are definetly frustrated for sure. The fact of the matter is if you do jerk off a few hours before sex you DO last longer. Why? because it takes a little longer to ejaculate the next time. Thus us JERK'OFFS can hopefully please you more via achieving YOUR orgasism. Sometimes when you haven't had sex for a while and you slip it in her the sensation is to overwhelming and bang! It's over before it's started.

Us JERK OFF's should learn to touch a woman? Now that's a new one. Gee. That's a common issue isn't it? Perhaps you should open your mouth and communicate it. Or do you expect that old ESP (mind reading) to do the trick? I am willing to bet if you communicated how you like to be touched, fondled, whatever a JERK- OFF would be more than happy to oblige.

JERK-OFF's should stop touching ourselves so we can get an erection? Huh?? You know that we are not all 18 years old anymore and just merely looking at you may not always create an instant hard-on. Even us JERK-OFFs like to be touched and fondled to...maybe if you did that we wouldn't have to jerk-off as much.



But what the hell do I know...I'm just a JERK-OFF.
 TheyCallMeMrAwesome
Joined: 7/27/2008
Msg: 78
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 8/9/2008 9:43:28 PM
here, this should make ya feel better about wacking it

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/3072021.stm

It's actually good for you!
 giggleparts
Joined: 10/23/2004
Msg: 79
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 8/9/2008 10:02:00 PM
I think it's more weird you have a few FWBs.

Of course, I think it's weird I haven't had sex for 2 years...

Anyway, I masturbate usually once a day and I'm good... sometimes I go a few days without, if I'm busy with a project at home or whatever. I mean, there are only so many hours in a day and between stuff I need to do and stuff I want to do... sometimes, self-abuse has to take a backseat.

Remember that movie, American Beauty? Remember that first part where he is yanking on his pud in the shower and he says that's the best part of his day? Yeah.... yeah..............yeah.

the giggleparts - Yeah.....
 Aquarius_
Joined: 4/12/2010
Msg: 82
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 8/19/2010 5:56:34 PM
Yeah but a really good athlete knows that he/she needs to rest in order to let his/her body recover. Sometimes stopping hard training a day or two before an event. This way his/her body will be at its peak
 UwillLaff
Joined: 4/27/2010
Msg: 83
Masturbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 8/23/2010 7:58:22 PM

The need will decrease when you learn to spell it


sure sign of a chronic non-masturbater
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 84
Masturbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 8/24/2010 7:08:59 AM
blisters ...are a good sign
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 85
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Posted: 8/24/2010 9:24:37 AM

here, this should make ya feel better about wacking it

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/3072021.stm

It's actually good for you!


SEE ..SEE ..there.. Men NEED to do that.

Any females want to assist in this medical necessity, please let me know.
 mrcs84
Joined: 12/9/2008
Msg: 86
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Posted: 8/24/2010 11:12:29 AM
When I'm not shooting anything out anymore, I think to myself, "okay, just one more time."

I think once a day is the way to go. But as it's been said before, as long as you're not interfering with the rest of your life, you can do it as often as you like.
 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 87
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 8/24/2010 12:09:53 PM
What?
You people mean to tell me or imply that there is a such thing as too much masterbation?
That's news to me. I better re-evaluate my habits.
 Jayne0927
Joined: 11/1/2010
Msg: 88
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Posted: 11/16/2011 5:43:27 PM
Yes, I have heard of men who are highly sexual and masturbate several times per day. Problem: When he gets with a woman, he has his own technique, stroking time, etc. etc. that cannot, sorry for this, be duplicated by a woman (or a man). I had a friend who was in a good relationship except the sex was a problem. He wa so accustomed to getting off by his own hand(s) that when he had the real thing, he couldn't handle it. Very disappoining. End of that relationship. Take a lesson, girls.
 Laha Math
Joined: 7/15/2010
Msg: 89
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 11/16/2011 6:04:06 PM
Isn't that like asking "Sex...How much is Too Much???"

Just do it until your hormones drop to to a level where you can think clearly, stop shaking, and talk without stuttering.

It's not fattening. You don't have to brush your teeth after each time. It won't give you a rash. You won't get arrested for sexual harrassment and abuse of one's self. It's free. If you're carefull you won't get pregnant.
 --Zen--
Joined: 6/29/2011
Msg: 90
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 11/17/2011 1:03:56 AM

Yes, I have heard of men who are highly sexual and masturbate several times per day. Problem: When he gets with a woman, he has his own technique, stroking time, etc. etc. that cannot, sorry for this, be duplicated by a woman (or a man). I had a friend who was in a good relationship except the sex was a problem. He wa so accustomed to getting off by his own hand(s) that when he had the real thing, he couldn't handle it.


Indeed so. This isn't limited to guys. Using vibrators (especially strong ones) creates same conditioning that is very hard to break. There are some rumors about neural deterioration but obviously no real studies. Most dildos attempt to imitate ridges of male penis. These ridges are designed to provide most of the stimulation on penetration. Kind of like a washboard effect. Manual stimulation also should not be neglected. The goal is to avoid conditioning so variety is crucial.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 91
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Posted: 11/17/2011 1:43:34 AM

he has his own technique, stroking time, etc. etc. that cannot, sorry for this, be duplicated by a woman (or a man). I had a friend who was in a good relationship except the sex was a problem. He wa so accustomed to getting off by his own hand(s) that when he had the real thing, he couldn't handle it. Very disappoining. End of that relationship. Take a lesson, girls.


Pity they couldn't work that problem out..seems like they could have. But, that is not an example of "too much", but an example of the only way to achieve the climax was a certain way.

How much is to much..when it effects daily living, work, interaction with others.
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 92
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 11/17/2011 9:56:48 AM
Well....there's almost 7 pages of people, here... that haven't reached "Too Much", yet....
They can still use a keyboard..!!
 ackman1465
Joined: 10/30/2007
Msg: 93
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Posted: 11/17/2011 12:40:15 PM
You can tell that you are masturbating too much when one or more of the following applies to you:

1. You have hair all over the palms of your hands,
2. Your eyesight has deteriorated such that you are darn-near blind (you may be able to save your vision if you stop at this point!),
3. You've gone mad,
4. Your rotator cuff, in your shoulder, is as loose as the ball joints on your father's 1956 Ford...

If NONE of these apply.... feel free to keep at it....
 SweetLilGTP
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 94
Masturbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 11/17/2011 3:08:08 PM
If you realize that yer****is sparking while you do it; it may be wise to take a pause.

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 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 95
Masturbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 11/23/2011 10:12:33 PM
if your having vision problems or carpal tunnel in your wrists then you probally doing it too much.i'm not a medical doctor and i don't play one on television.
 StealthyNinjaKitty
Joined: 11/8/2011
Msg: 96
Masturbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 11/23/2011 10:20:58 PM
In a relationship:
Too much=you'd rather do yourself than your SO

When you're single:
As long as you don't end up in jail or the ER over it...is there a such thing as too much?
 ComplekCity
Joined: 1/17/2011
Msg: 97
Masturbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 10/4/2012 8:42:24 AM
I do it the most when I first get out of a relationship - it's as if my body goes into panic mode !

LOL
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 98
Masturbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 10/4/2012 9:02:30 AM
OMG ..all these young guys and their masturbation .. guys do you not know just how much you are contributing to global warming ...with all the heavy breathing as well as the body heat... the heat made by friction from all the stroking the soiled linen that has to be washed and dried ...the extra water usage for those that flush the used tissue ..as well as the heat given off by the decaying sperm..that evidently is lying every where ... My God guys at least put some of inside a female body where it can be absorbed ...im afraid to walk i may step in something and slip and break a leg
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