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 Jayne0927
Joined: 11/1/2010
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Yes, I have heard of men who are highly sexual and masturbate several times per day. Problem: When he gets with a woman, he has his own technique, stroking time, etc. etc. that cannot, sorry for this, be duplicated by a woman (or a man). I had a friend who was in a good relationship except the sex was a problem. He wa so accustomed to getting off by his own hand(s) that when he had the real thing, he couldn't handle it. Very disappoining. End of that relationship. Take a lesson, girls.
 Laha Math
Joined: 7/15/2010
Msg: 89
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 11/16/2011 6:04:06 PM
Isn't that like asking "Sex...How much is Too Much???"

Just do it until your hormones drop to to a level where you can think clearly, stop shaking, and talk without stuttering.

It's not fattening. You don't have to brush your teeth after each time. It won't give you a rash. You won't get arrested for sexual harrassment and abuse of one's self. It's free. If you're carefull you won't get pregnant.
 --Zen--
Joined: 6/29/2011
Msg: 90
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 11/17/2011 1:03:56 AM

Yes, I have heard of men who are highly sexual and masturbate several times per day. Problem: When he gets with a woman, he has his own technique, stroking time, etc. etc. that cannot, sorry for this, be duplicated by a woman (or a man). I had a friend who was in a good relationship except the sex was a problem. He wa so accustomed to getting off by his own hand(s) that when he had the real thing, he couldn't handle it.


Indeed so. This isn't limited to guys. Using vibrators (especially strong ones) creates same conditioning that is very hard to break. There are some rumors about neural deterioration but obviously no real studies. Most dildos attempt to imitate ridges of male penis. These ridges are designed to provide most of the stimulation on penetration. Kind of like a washboard effect. Manual stimulation also should not be neglected. The goal is to avoid conditioning so variety is crucial.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 91
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Posted: 11/17/2011 1:43:34 AM

he has his own technique, stroking time, etc. etc. that cannot, sorry for this, be duplicated by a woman (or a man). I had a friend who was in a good relationship except the sex was a problem. He wa so accustomed to getting off by his own hand(s) that when he had the real thing, he couldn't handle it. Very disappoining. End of that relationship. Take a lesson, girls.


Pity they couldn't work that problem out..seems like they could have. But, that is not an example of "too much", but an example of the only way to achieve the climax was a certain way.

How much is to much..when it effects daily living, work, interaction with others.
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 92
Masterbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 11/17/2011 9:56:48 AM
Well....there's almost 7 pages of people, here... that haven't reached "Too Much", yet....
They can still use a keyboard..!!
 ackman1465
Joined: 10/30/2007
Msg: 93
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Posted: 11/17/2011 12:40:15 PM
You can tell that you are masturbating too much when one or more of the following applies to you:

1. You have hair all over the palms of your hands,
2. Your eyesight has deteriorated such that you are darn-near blind (you may be able to save your vision if you stop at this point!),
3. You've gone mad,
4. Your rotator cuff, in your shoulder, is as loose as the ball joints on your father's 1956 Ford...

If NONE of these apply.... feel free to keep at it....
 SweetLilGTP
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 94
Masturbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 11/17/2011 3:08:08 PM
If you realize that yer****is sparking while you do it; it may be wise to take a pause.

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 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 95
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Posted: 11/23/2011 10:12:33 PM
if your having vision problems or carpal tunnel in your wrists then you probally doing it too much.i'm not a medical doctor and i don't play one on television.
 StealthyNinjaKitty
Joined: 11/8/2011
Msg: 96
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Posted: 11/23/2011 10:20:58 PM
In a relationship:
Too much=you'd rather do yourself than your SO

When you're single:
As long as you don't end up in jail or the ER over it...is there a such thing as too much?
 ComplekCity
Joined: 1/17/2011
Msg: 97
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Posted: 10/4/2012 8:42:24 AM
I do it the most when I first get out of a relationship - it's as if my body goes into panic mode !

LOL
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 10/4/2012 9:02:30 AM
OMG ..all these young guys and their masturbation .. guys do you not know just how much you are contributing to global warming ...with all the heavy breathing as well as the body heat... the heat made by friction from all the stroking the soiled linen that has to be washed and dried ...the extra water usage for those that flush the used tissue ..as well as the heat given off by the decaying sperm..that evidently is lying every where ... My God guys at least put some of inside a female body where it can be absorbed ...im afraid to walk i may step in something and slip and break a leg
 sportsfan856
Joined: 7/11/2012
Msg: 99
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Posted: 10/4/2012 11:56:08 AM
Everyday i DO!!!!!!!!!!
 Arata_na_Yoake
Joined: 1/25/2012
Msg: 100
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Posted: 10/4/2012 2:52:19 PM
If you're chafing, it's too much.
 LustyKiss
Joined: 9/1/2012
Msg: 101
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Posted: 10/4/2012 2:57:18 PM
When you propose and eventualy marry Rosie Palm it could lead to cheating with the other hand. Good strokes to you
 jasond1970
Joined: 10/5/2009
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Posted: 10/4/2012 3:02:02 PM
This is too rich, a post on oneism. LMAO
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 10/5/2012 4:18:40 AM
In my very sad, frustrating experiences when I use to try to have sex with the men that actaully appealled to me, that I use to meet, I will imform you guys. If they jerked off that day, no matter what their age, they could NOT get it up for me.
In answer to this post, if you, so called men intend to try to have sex with an actaul girl/woman on the same day that you jerked off, you will NOT be able to perform, no matter what age you are, or your unrealistic expections are.
Get a real life. I wish I could, with real attractive men who do NOT waste theirselves jerking off before meeting a live attractive woman as me.
I think most guys jerk off way too much. There was one guy, that I was actually interested in. We met. He said that " I looked better than my photos and that he would definely see me again" . It was only a meeting, no sex attempts were involved. I called him a couple of times after that. Eventually he sent me 2 photos of him jerking off. What a waste. I was actaully attracted to this man and definely interested. This is a very rare for, me. It is like 1 out of a million men who actaully appeal to me and he did. What a complete waste, considering that he prefer to jerk off and sent his pictures of his solitary event, instead of visiting me etc.
Very extremly too frustrating.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 10/5/2012 5:39:34 AM
I have met men who can jerk off many times a day, but they can not have an erection for actual intercourse with an actual live human woman. What I am saying here, it does not matter how many times a day a guy can get off by jerking of and especially men who do theirselves many times a day and who think they are studs and very potent because they can get theirselves off, many times during their solitary event, but the real fact is,they can NOT get in up for an actual woman.
There are alot of men like this, and I have met many. I have not had sex for 2 and and half years. Now, I am only looking for as my profile states.
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 105
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Posted: 10/5/2012 5:53:42 AM

If they jerked off that day, no matter what their age, they could NOT get it up for me.

That sounds like it just pertains to the men you have met but not all men are like that I assure you speaking from experience, not trying to brag or anything but it has not been a problem with me, not being able to get it up, and not being able to climax is two different things. Most men can get it up but can't finish for a second time but only some.


In answer to this post, if you, so called men intend to try to have sex with an actaul girl/woman on the same day that you jerked off, you will NOT be able to perform, no matter what age you are

This was answered in the above answer.


Get a real life. I wish I could, with real attractive men who do NOT waste theirselves jerking off before meeting a live attractive woman as me.

That is a very bold statement (waste themselfs ) (live attracive woman like me) (Get a real life ) stating they waste themselfs is like saying women that do not participate in oral sex just waste a guys time and miss out on some of the real fun and pleasure sex brings between two people.


I think most guys jerk off way too much.

based on what information or study, and what about the rest of the guys that do not fall into (most guys


There was one guy, that I was actually interested in. We met. He said that " I looked better than my photos and that he would definely see me again" . It was only a meeting, no sex attempts were involved. I called him a couple of times after that. Eventually he sent me 2 photos of him jerking off. What a waste.

that wasn't a waste he was a complete moron to send pictures in the first place.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 10/5/2012 5:58:22 AM
I do have a sense of humour in regards to these jerk off addicts. This is actual reality. A guy told me on the phone that he was in the "mood for a threesome". I replied and told him , "to use both hands instead of one hand" to have his ideal of a threesome. Get real.
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 107
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Posted: 10/5/2012 6:03:59 AM

I do have a sense of humour in regards to these jerk off addicts.

now it is an addiction some men you meet up with I am glad I do not fall into that catagory.


This is actual reality.

this is not true by any means most men at our ages have many health problems that cause issues in this department never mind self abuse.


A guy told me on the phone that he was in the "mood for a threesome". I replied and told him , "to use both hands instead of one hand" to have his ideal of a threesome. Get real.

I would try to find a real guy sounds like three out of three now have failed where are you meeting guys like this I am glad I do not fall into this bracket.
 hayu552
Joined: 9/5/2012
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Posted: 10/5/2012 10:15:31 AM
I have been masturbating since age 12, I have always enjoyed it and have always done it. If some one is afraid to masturbate with me then we are not for each other.i love to watch and be watched.its not weird to me.
want to watch me?
 hayu552
Joined: 9/5/2012
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Posted: 10/5/2012 10:15:55 AM
I have been masturbating since age 12, I have always enjoyed it and have always done it. If some one is afraid to masturbate with me then we are not for each other.i love to watch and be watched.its not weird to me.
want to watch me?
 Phil_an_derer
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 110
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Posted: 10/5/2012 4:51:16 PM
^^^^^^^^You wouldn't happen to be a Priest would you! just saying....of course I'm jk...maybe!
 wildlifelover79
Joined: 8/15/2012
Msg: 111
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Posted: 10/10/2012 9:29:55 AM
I do regularly every day! My excuse there are no women around to help you out and I am not married, engaged or have a woman so I will do it. My town where I live is filled with married women and that's it. I have to have myself happy some how.
 kipla2000
Joined: 3/17/2009
Msg: 112
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Posted: 10/10/2012 3:08:13 PM
i do it 15 times a day
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