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 PsychDoctor
Joined: 8/21/2008
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This may be slightly tangential to the topic of discussion, but I'm trying to figure out how to respond to a man that I've been corresponding with for some time, met once (with one brief good-bye kiss), like a lot, and who (unsolicited) just emailed me a full-color photograph of his penis. Any suggestions?
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
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Posted: 12/19/2008 3:55:50 AM

This may be slightly tangential to the topic of discussion, but I'm trying to figure out how to respond to a man that I've been corresponding with for some time, met once (with one brief good-bye kiss), like a lot, and who (unsolicited) just emailed me a full-color photograph of his penis. Any suggestions?

Oh PsychDoctor... do I have the thread for you!

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts8590321.aspx

We really must get that POF calendar happening.
 catkin2007
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 150
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Posted: 12/19/2008 11:49:45 AM
Unfortunately, yes, I've experienced this once. It was like "Dude, you've got to be kidding me."

I think as somone else pointed out earlier, they do it in hopes of getting laid... not very seductive and lacks originality...
 Cogie36
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 151
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Posted: 12/19/2008 3:56:17 PM
I would probably so shocked i'd look at him and say...what the hell are you doing and then......burst into laughter......
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 156
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Posted: 12/19/2008 6:21:39 PM
I think this needs to be handled with extreem harshness on the part of the woman. Let him know that in NO UNCERTAIN TERMS is this behavior acceptable. WTF!!!!

I wonder of these A$$ holes become sexual preditors because they think it's ok.

I am stunned at the replies that indicate this is not uncommon. DO something to stop it, right then and there.
 ripley65
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 162
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Posted: 12/20/2008 6:30:17 AM
the guy seems oblivious that he is doing anything out of line, like it is a normal thing that he would naturally do at this point of a date. Have anyone else experienced this?


Yes i actually have had this happen to me on a first meet. Was chatting to a man at my chatsite who i let talk me into a spontaneous meet that very day, in my town at a waterfront park. Ok,,,so i agreed tho that was my first spontaneous meet (albeit my last! lol). After walking the boardwalk just talking, we decided to sit in the lawn chairs id brought along. During a perfectly normal conversation (no flirtacious talk at all), he picked up the blanket i had brought along (for sitting on the grass) and covered us up. I thought that was kinda odd since it was a gorgeous day, but i thought hmm, maybe he likes me and its his way to show that or something. Well,,,suddenly the blanket was moving and i just knew, just had this feeling what he was doing so i looked under the blanket and there he was,,,wanking!! WTF? Needless to say, i immediately got up, packed my stuff and left. To this day i dont understand what led him to do that unless he was just a creep and did creepy stuff like that often!!
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
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Posted: 12/20/2008 10:53:13 AM
^^ umm, ripley, did you take your blanket with you?
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 167
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Posted: 12/29/2008 1:43:29 PM

Mr._Feelgood said:

I've whipped it out before for no obvious reason.
We would get turned on by that, so we sometimes think it would turn you on as well...?
I kinda noticed most women do not get turned on by this



no comment..
 tayl0rd
Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 168
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Posted: 12/29/2008 2:39:51 PM
Why'd you even look back??
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 12/29/2008 2:50:45 PM
I've never had this happen, thank God, but I've heard other women report it's happened to them. The guys who do this must be complete idiots or else real perverts.
 LucOberdere
Joined: 3/12/2008
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Posted: 1/3/2009 9:42:28 AM
I have had a woman do that to me

See? Guys (some) apparently do this to a woman - then the woman thinks it is normal behaviour and they start doing it. *smirk


This happened to me once, I was kinda shocked, but loved it at the same time

So, now you know why some guys think it is OK. "Hey it worked this one time, so maybe it will again". LOL ! I guess to them it is a fast way to find out if they are gonna get laid or a BJ and look entirely at the date as an opportunity to get 'some'. Great BF material there! Let's hope he doesn't give one of your friends a ride ANYWHERE at ANYTIME!

Maybe they spent the whole night getting to know the person over the date and feel the next logical thing is to 'introduce' D-i-c-k, hoping that she will follow 'the introductions'. ROTFLMAO

This thread is hilarious - thanks for the laugh !
 crazyindian69
Joined: 1/20/2006
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Posted: 1/3/2009 9:35:36 PM
hahahhaha this is awesomely funny as hell

Your a little too old to be playing doctor
 Ezbthdrcy
Joined: 11/3/2008
Msg: 177
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Posted: 1/3/2009 10:21:27 PM

I think it´s totally hott!!! Very erotic whena gal sees and is suprised by he good old trouser monster!!! If the Gals hott........she sure will know what to do with it!!! I LOVE whipping it out!!! Very Erotic and Super sexy!!!


Trouser monster hahahahahha.
It's not if she's hott, it's if she's easy.
God, what an age we live in, if whipping out your****at random people is considered erotic. Oh that's right, this is the age where men think that just the random sight of a penis will send a woman into a sexual frenzy, Thank you Jenna Jameson for showing the world that all a woman needs to entice her into a bj or into sex is a penis shoved at her.
 ohio07
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 178
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Posted: 1/17/2009 1:00:19 PM
I can't believe this happens. For those women who have experienced this, I apologize for my fellow gender's absolute IDIOCY!!!
 TxBluEyes74
Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 180
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Posted: 1/17/2009 1:22:48 PM
Wow.. I never thought about doing this..

Well unless we are kissing and she has her hands rubbing on it, then I will admit that I will help her out by unzipping the pants, but she would still have to go for it and grab it and pull it out to do what she wants to with it.
 aarons916
Joined: 1/31/2010
Msg: 184
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Posted: 4/13/2010 10:39:51 PM
I think the biggest reason for this is there are some people, quite a few really, that just don't know what is considered normal or proper and it goes both ways. Ive dated some weird women before but one weird one I remember was this girl who said she had a few male friends that walked around completely naked when she was over. They were never sexual, and I made sure to ask because I was just shocked by it but after talking awhile I could see she didn't think it was unusual at all. I don't know about any of you but I don't consider it normal to walk around anyone butt naked except my girlfriend.

How do these people get their weird ideas? I think it's obvious that most guys that do this probably watch a lot of porn and think what goes on in them is normal, meaning "whipping it out" is a normal way of starting a sexual encounter. I remember when I was younger, my dad caught me watching a porn and he didn't really care but just wanted to make it clear that real sex isn't like that, even though it's pretty obvious lol. I think most people either don't have that or are just too stupid to realize porn isn't like real life.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 185
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Posted: 4/13/2010 10:46:15 PM

I remember when I was younger, my dad caught me watching a porn and he didn't really care but just wanted to make it clear that real sex isn't like that, even though it's pretty obvious lol. I think most people either don't have that or are just too stupid to realize porn isn't like real life.


me thinks you and your father have a lot to learn...
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 186
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Posted: 4/14/2010 5:16:51 AM
georgie i guess he should said "i'll be back, let me slip into something a bit more comfortable"
 aarons916
Joined: 1/31/2010
Msg: 187
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Posted: 4/14/2010 11:32:05 AM

me thinks you and your father have a lot to learn...


Do you see the irony in telling someone they have a lot to learn after starting a sentence with "me thinks"?

What exactly do you mean by it by the way, that a teenager watching porn isn't normal or that porn isn't real sex? Or maybe that he didn't care that I was watching porn?
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 188
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Posted: 4/14/2010 10:13:28 PM

Do you see the irony in telling someone they have a lot to learn after starting a sentence with "me thinks"?

What exactly do you mean by it by the way, that a teenager watching porn isn't normal or that porn isn't real sex? Or maybe that he didn't care that I was watching porn?



exactly....


porn sex is real and can be real...


you are the man. take your woman - pick her up, toss her around, slap her ass, pull her hair...bite her...cum on her, in her mouth....dominate her in bed...

like a porn star...

trust me- she'll love it.

just OWN it...

if you don't own it- it wont' work for ya.

the only thing about porn movies that isn't real (in regards to m-f scenes) is that your d1ck might not be as big, her tits might not be as big and you might not be able to cum as much as Peter North...

other than that- go for it man....
 zangie
Joined: 5/30/2007
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Posted: 4/16/2010 1:53:22 PM

you are the man. take your woman - pick her up, toss her around, slap her ass, pull her hair...bite her...cum on her, in her mouth....dominate her in bed...

like a porn star...

trust me- she'll love it.


Some will, some won't...you better be sure you know which one the woman in question is, or you could be in for some unpleasant surprises...

Most things in porn movies can happen in real life...but few happen all the time, with everyone...it would be foolish to suggest they did..and not very wise advice at all...
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 190
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Posted: 4/16/2010 2:00:24 PM

A few years ago whilst walking to work. A young, good looking guy asked me for directions. As I was explaining to him which way to go, he whipped out his rather large c0ck. Yep, he might have been good looking but he was still a d1ckhead!!


what a prick...


Some will, some won't...you better be sure you know which one the woman in question is, or you could be in for some unpleasant surprises...

Most things in porn movies can happen in real life...but few happen all the time, with everyone...it would be foolish to suggest they did..and not very wise advice at all...


yes I do agree at some level, communication is key- but a lot of times, if you've eaten hamburgers all your life, you really do not know what a steak tastes like...

and of course you won't want steak every night...
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 191
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Posted: 4/16/2010 3:09:25 PM

I recall this was also the same man who thinks that a woman sitting
on a bed with a man is the same as saying she wants sex.
I said that if she strips down, that would mean she wants sex but
simply sitting on a bed is innocent.

BoonDock, porn is NOT real and most women don't want to be
tossed around, slapped on the ass, biten and taken.
You sound like watching porn has given you some unrealistic ideas.
I hope you don't get into trouble or hurt someone.


actually from the previous thread- it was 2 people lying in the bed and the woman touched his leg...and was touching him.

THAT was what I said the woman telling him she wanted sex...not sitting...but lying in the bed...

Perhaps not everyone wants to be tossed around- but I have yet to meet one that doesn't.

I actually enjoy the change up between wild hot sex and slow soft sensual as well...

when I say that porn is real- I am saying that anyone that has a good imagination and are open about sex, you can do plenty of wild and crazy sexual things that IS exciting...and porn like...

actually I hadn't watched any porn since my last gf and I were together...


and nothing I mentioned in my previous post here is unrealistic...

you sound like one of those that has never had a man take you like that.
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 7/28/2009
Msg: 192
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Posted: 4/16/2010 3:43:05 PM
Excuse me but i like to be taken~ and all that ws listed and so do many women I know ell. We all also like porn. What does this all have to do with the original thread topic though? Back to the original subject~ whipping it out~ sometimes it is very inappropriate, but among couples already sexual I dont see what the big deal is.
 farscapeprincess
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 193
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Posted: 4/16/2010 8:54:22 PM
I've never experienced that, but if it did happen there would be no second date.

I agree that of the guys who do that, it's because there are some slutty women out there who don't mind. Or maybe since those guys are expecting sex on a first meeting maybe they should've hooked up with a woman from one of the sex sites.
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