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 misplacedyankette
Joined: 10/9/2007
Msg: 101
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YES! omg I thought this was less common than it apparently is...lmao!! Happened once to me years ago...guess things havent changed...lol You are NOT a prude and no he is NOT normal...how can something that disgusting be normal? I mean, if youre both on the same page and youre both ready for that, then fine, but I would say not on the first date. Maybe that shows my age, I dont know, but when it happened to me, we were watching a movie and he was like 'hey baby'.....and there was his little friend. Yeah, that date ended immediately and he was never seen again.
 akimmbo
Joined: 7/22/2007
Msg: 102
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Posted: 1/9/2008 9:39:15 AM
[ quote] Well, a year later I tried again...even farther outside my culture and it ended even WORSE
hey Sweetheart, wow...what a cawk magnet you are...
2 dates, 2 dongs
hey, have you ever tried 'strawberry' ?

just wonderin'

~~~~~~~~~~ 'Kimbo~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

 merry0709
Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 103
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 10:02:54 AM
Hey I got a good comeback, carry a jeweler`s loupe with you and when he whips it out and tells you to check it out, get that out.
 KinkyBastard
Joined: 1/3/2008
Msg: 104
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 10:05:41 AM
All I can say is... Something is very very wrong if a man feels that the only way he can try and seduce a woman he hardly knows, is to show his penis.

It's crude, not even funny and must be very intimidating for the woman. I'm sure such behaviour exists here in the UK, but until I checked out these forums, this is the first I've heard of this sick phenomenon.

Sure, in the UK we have flashers and mooners… But I’ve never heard of “flash willy daters”. Anyway, let’s hope that these idiots learn that by flashing themselves on dates, will ONLY lead to them getting absolutely no where. So, is it REALLY worth it?

BTW If this happens to you ladies, don’t be put off and assume we’re all like that. To be honest, it sounds like some American “Jackass” thing that certain immature guys like to do.
 casablancalily
Joined: 7/1/2007
Msg: 105
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 10:52:49 AM
Oh...but it does happen with men over 40...usually alcohol is involved.
It has happened to me after a lovely first evening getting to know someone, or so I thought. Lovely penis and all...had my coat on, was getting ready to leave and then he whipped his clothes off... he had a nice body. Maybe a little overexposed....
 Blueskies123
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 106
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 11:08:38 AM
Kinky it's not an American thing either..UK men over 4o do it!

VVV I'm from the UK
 KinkyBastard
Joined: 1/3/2008
Msg: 107
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 11:10:39 AM
LOL That IS news to me
 PrimeWoman
Joined: 4/25/2006
Msg: 108
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Posted: 1/9/2008 11:11:46 AM
cut this to edit...see below
 Ottpilgrim
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 109
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 11:16:55 AM
I know a guy that does this. I've known him for much of his life and as a child he would whip it out inappropriately, such as in a classroom. His behaviour never really changed and now as a young adult he has rationalized it as a way of being straightforward with the women he wants to sleep with.
 PrimeWoman
Joined: 4/25/2006
Msg: 110
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Posted: 1/9/2008 11:24:01 AM
IT HAPPENS.

In my home, my response could be:
"Excuse me for a moment", grab the biggest knife/meat cleaver in the kitchen and upon returning, "The frying pan is hot, you want that rare or well-done?" If he wasn't out the door in 2 seconds flat, I would tell him that the health of his winky depended on his running out the door NOW! Another idea comes to mind however. Instead of the knife, slather some bengay/capscasein/icy hot on my palm and offer to relieve his obvious tension. "Did that cause you discomfort? My friend, Mr Colt can relieve that!" (Yeah, I have a .38, keep it loaded and know how to use it--I would actually probably grab it with one hand, my cell phone in the other 911 on display, my finger on the talk button, and tell him my gun trumps yours, get the f out, now! One false step, like towards me, his winky is a fair and intended target).

The car scenario:
Exit the car, leaving the door open (if the windows are up) laughing, say "That's the funniest thing I've ever seen. Frankly, it doesn't measure up." Shut the door and walk away. Ditto if it happened at his place, as I was walking out the door.

 callmesweetheart
Joined: 6/20/2007
Msg: 111
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 11:24:10 AM
like a real-life Donnie Darko? Didn't he do that? Or was that only in the shrink's office...it's been a couple years - oh since I've seen the MOVIE I mean
 cedar77
Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 112
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Posted: 1/9/2008 11:28:55 AM
I think many people have heard the one about a guy at the movies with his date ...

He cuts a hole in the bottom of the popcorn bucket . I'm sure you can imagine what he puts in this hole while he holds his popcorn bucket on his lap. He then offers his date to take a handfull and she ends up pretty much in shock or atleast grossed out. He asks : " what's wrong... not enough butter ? "
I think I heard that one way back in highschool.



I would say that if a guy whips it out at a very inappropriate time , then he pretty much has ruined the date. There probably won't be any goodnight kiss or a second date. Go figure.
 Jason402
Joined: 12/24/2007
Msg: 113
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Posted: 1/9/2008 11:32:16 AM
What you never heard of the old pecker in the popcorn trick. At the movies, stick it up through the bottom of the popcorn box and offer your date some popcorn.
 cedar77
Joined: 7/17/2006
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Posted: 1/9/2008 12:06:50 PM
^ ....beat you to it !


YES I have.. when I was 18 a neighbor of my parents.. old man about about 75 or more a notorious letch.. I had to go over there to ask him something and he just whipped it out as if it was going to intice me into something ,, ahhhh EWWWWWWW NO

Oh yes , an older gentleman.
Ummm.....young at heart ? ....I thought that was supposed to be a good thing.
 ORCAANNA
Joined: 3/31/2007
Msg: 115
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 2:21:47 PM
it does happen.... relax- he is just airing out!!! Carry a clothes pin with you, and if he is "airing out", pin him up!!!
 textodd11
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 116
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Posted: 1/9/2008 2:39:22 PM
I guess I should zip up now...
 bsg789
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 117
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 3:40:33 PM
Fortunately this has never happpened to me. The only times a man would whip it out was when I was feeling it through his pants.
 taz in love
Joined: 12/11/2007
Msg: 118
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Posted: 1/9/2008 6:35:56 PM

A whipping-out with benefits, this time.
Nope - I'll take plain vanilla from now on.


Caution,,,,it's been Vanilla's who did it to me,,,,and it is so silly. Take it out when I say B*tch,,,,not when YOU say,,,,,,,,,, SIR!

"Here, just touch it once"

AHHHHHHHH!!!!!



 tootsyloots
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 119
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 6:47:25 PM
this has happnd to me more than once! one guy (i went to school with) we ran into each other years later and he followd me home (creepy) and knockd on my door....it was 1am and he got me out of bed...he askd me to "do him" i was repulsd by him and siad for him to leave... he walk into my house had his out and came on my lounge. all in a matter of 1 mintue. I couldnt speak...he just turnd and left. a month later i was woken by womeone coming thru imy bedroom windiw...yoiu guessd it it was this creep! Where do (some) males get this strange idea that this kind of behaviour is a turn on?? he is lucky i didnt call police......
 tootsyloots
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 120
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 6:51:04 PM
oh and next time i will try to spell!!! and not put random i's in words etc! sorry ppl
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 121
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Posted: 1/9/2008 6:51:06 PM
omg i'm dying laughing! no way that happens??? OMG so rude! I'd die LOL

i think you should say "wow, that looks like a penis ...only smaller" heheheh
 fun2feather
Joined: 9/16/2007
Msg: 122
Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/9/2008 6:54:33 PM
i have never had that happen to me and i believe it is because i am kind of picky and talk to them online and on the phone long enough til i know i have the respect that i dont have to worry about that happening. i have a male friend who always brags about being well endowed. i did tell him to prove it and he whipped it out. for those who are curious, yes he was telling the truth. but in that case, i asked him too. honestly, i didnt think he would but he did. but i didnt feel disrespected by that. the bottom line is u need to get their respect before meeting them in person.
 gary5252
Joined: 2/2/2005
Msg: 123
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Posted: 1/9/2008 7:06:36 PM
i knew a guy that would inevitably leave it out after a trip to the toilet after a few beers at a bar or dance hall. he was a pervert of sorts and everyone knew he'd sooner or later do it so we learned to pay him no attention, the ladies especially. not wishing to go OT here but have had several women at bars show up bare bottomed and put my hand on it just out of the blue. guess that means its not gender specific, just a little more than whats expected in a public place that isn't particularly a pick up joint. i haven't done it except after knowing someone for a while and being comfortable with them, pull it out and shake it playfully at her... and definitely only in the confines of privacy.
 hilldebrandt
Joined: 6/7/2006
Msg: 124
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Posted: 1/9/2008 7:43:51 PM
I've made some real blunders in my past, but never this...

I think maybe I'll add this to my "Bucket List" ??
 Sauder
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 125
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Posted: 1/10/2008 12:55:39 AM
I have *Never* done that! Goodness.... there goes my nice sheltered life! Thanks!

With a few years of experience and several A's in psych classes, I'd have to say that when a guy does that, there is a chance that the woman will... *go for it* for whatever reason, that is her problem.

I will also say that the guy himself has *issues* and should be gotten rid of after a stunt like that.

I suggest that you go fishing for a *man* and not a *guy* as mentioned above.

But tell me, isn't cute when you point and laugh at him?? lol
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