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Joined: 7/30/2008
Msg: 23
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Answer : When to contact again...........when Hell freezes over
You are on the back burner if on any burner at all.
How many men that you were interested in did you do that to?
That is your answer.......
Delete and spend your time constructively looking for Mr. Right.
You will have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince or you can simply delete the frogs instead........Good Luck
Joined: 7/18/2008
Msg: 24
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Posted: 8/19/2008 10:44:16 PM
Here's the problem. I find that if I take the time to explain to someone why we're not a match (e.g "you live 400 miles away"), I frequently get back arguments which downplay my reason ("love conquers all"), along with some ploy to "give it a chance". And if I then explain that giving something a chance requires time and effort- which, in this case are difficult to muster, I get back an insult about "that's why you;re still single"
So I don't know if it's really worthwhile to respond at all if I'm not interested.
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