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 celts123
Joined: 5/15/2008
Msg: 39
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I think a handshake is appriorate for the beginning of the first date. If the date was okay, then I would give a man a hug at the end. If the date went very well, then I might kiss him.


I agree with this. I would give a handshake at the beginning of the date and a hug ( or kiss if the date was great ) at the end of the date unless it is a really bad date or there was an obvious lack of mutual interest.
 10of6
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 40
Hug or a Hand Shake?
Posted: 11/12/2008 3:42:25 PM
I insist on doing those jumping chest-smacks, like after you sink the trey that won the game. Can't remember the "legit" term for them. Of course, that means that more lushly endowed women are easier on the sternum.
 Noebelle
Joined: 11/4/2008
Msg: 41
Hug or a Hand Shake?
Posted: 11/12/2008 8:42:29 PM
Depends on how long I have been communicating with them, the topics we have discussed, etc., However, I am very spatially oriented and don't like people too close to my body that I don't know...so I doubt very much I would hug - that'd be very unlike me.
 VivaciousVixen2010
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 42
Hug or a Hand Shake?
Posted: 11/12/2008 8:51:24 PM
usually a handshake is as friends and not knowing the person too well. If the man and I have been talking for a while and have alredy established a chemistryI go for a hug most definately :)
 10of6
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 44
Hug or a Hand Shake?
Posted: 12/17/2008 4:02:37 PM

...how do you greet a person you meet from a dating website?
I prefer the time-honored ass pinch. At least my Italian side does.
 mrjohnny5
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 46
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Hug or a Hand Shake?
Posted: 1/9/2009 3:58:33 AM
It depends on how long and how comfortable my conversation was with my date prior to meeting.

If it was a good conversation then I'd go with the french greeting (hand shake + kiss on the cheek). If it was more formal then I'd go only with the handshake.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 47
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Posted: 1/10/2009 1:59:20 PM
Ohhh ... I like a hand shake. It tells you quite a lot.

When we are more acquainted a hug may follow. I'm not jumping a queue there
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 1/15/2009 1:08:24 PM
So, I am very careful when a women offers me a handshake.

Man's perspective never ceases to amaze me.

Firm grip and eye contact at the same time feel great. Both speak for confidence, positive attitude, happy in his own skin ...
 Wombat59
Joined: 9/3/2008
Msg: 51
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Posted: 1/15/2009 2:09:13 PM
Hug definitely - I'm a big fan of hugs!!!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 1/15/2009 3:11:04 PM
mix it up...give em the right hand while you reach around and hug with the left hand and the for the clinch give them a smack lightly on the cheek!!! This leaves them all confused...
If they give you the hand...then you can always kiss it...that gets them also...
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 54
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Posted: 1/17/2009 8:46:42 AM
Well, call me crazy, but I don't want to hurt her...I have "men-hands".

Ahh ... 'zuglo', I would never think for a second that a firm grip of man's hand could hurt her.
Man's hand feels wonderful as in some way it projects inner world a man is living in. Besides, we are talking about introduction or acknowledgement here. So the hand-shake is our (re)presentation.
Oh yes, I do like hand shake as a little tiny c l u e
 eurusd
Joined: 1/15/2009
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Posted: 1/24/2009 11:05:21 PM
hug is better than shake, warms up quicker, breaks the ice
hugs & and kiss even better :)))
 michelynn
Joined: 5/7/2008
Msg: 57
Hug or a Hand Shake?
Posted: 2/11/2009 1:19:31 PM
I've done the hug, the peck on the cheek and I have done no touching at all when greeting someone for a first time meet. I prefer the hug because I am affectionate and enjoy the physical contact but I try to read body languange to determine whether that hug would be welcome or not. If it seems welcome AND I think he is really cute he will get a peck on the cheek as well if he doesn't pull away too soon. As for the handshake, I have never had a guy offer his hand for a shake. I don't think I would like it. It seems a bit cold.
 divebich
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 58
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Posted: 2/21/2009 7:37:41 AM
I never initiate either. On the one hand I think the handshake is is awkward and business-like. On the other hand, I'm not a touchy-feely person unless there's a strong chemistry. Often I feel a big warm smile and "great to finally meet you, bla bla bla" is perfect. But I'll let the guy decide, and either is fine.
 funnygirl2no
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 60
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Posted: 2/21/2009 7:11:03 PM
Have to agree on this. I hug someone Im comfortable with. Just meeting off the Net. is a bit awkward as we have never met in person. I smile and greet my potential new friends with a warm friendly handshake . The end of meeting is usually when I decide to give them an accepting hug.
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