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 ~JustSimplyMe~
Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 8
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I agree with other posters who say that scenario 2 is why a lot of relationships fail.
I believe that both partners need to work diligently to ensure the other is included in the day to day chaos of life.
To live separate lives and only meet in the middle on occasion is nothing more than having a roommate u have sex with.
A total waste of time imho.
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 12/23/2008 4:09:58 PM
Ideally, the 2 in an LTR should live together. But in these days, people are quick to push the "leave" button, and since living with someone puts more pressure on the relationship than living apart, if you can afford it, I'd say that the safe bet is to live apart and see each other frequently, unless you are very sure that you will get on living together. These days, most people rush into living together waaay too much.
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