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 janet1892
Joined: 7/9/2013
Msg: 163
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I met a guy like that turned out he was lying to me the whole time
 Theme_Pack
Joined: 5/3/2013
Msg: 164
What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away?
Posted: 10/28/2013 10:09:21 AM
Depends on why you are here. If it's Thursday and I would like to go out on a date or hangout with someone on Friday...I will ask in the first message...I have found people that just want to hangout have no issues meeting that Friday or even that same night....heck its only to go for a coffee, walk, or a few drinks....I use this site for its intended purpose....
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 165
What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away?
Posted: 10/29/2013 9:16:10 AM

If they're hot, what's the problem? :)

Actually, there would be very fewer problems. It doesn't take long at all sometimes for someone to develop a crush. And if they're too verbal about it, it can throw someone off... but it's not necessarily bad. I think a lot of it depends on how much "umph" is put behind it. To one person, too many comments about "us" too early is too much. To others, a bit fast, flattering, but hey, if they're hot -- that's fine. There are couples out there who hit it off with fireworks really soon and that had no negative effect on things. If they're hot & a great catch and they aren't psycho obsessed, but are emotionally into you real quick, I say don't run.

If it's Thursday and I would like to go out on a date or hangout with someone on Friday...I will ask in the first message...I have found people that just want to hangout have no issues meeting that Friday or even that same night....heck its only to go for a coffee, walk, or a few drinks....I use this site for its intended purpose....

I agree. That's different than the OP's concern, but somewhat similar. Some people expect to pen-pal for a while then meet, even though nothing's really real UNTIL ya meet. Mine as well get it out of the way if there's mutual attraction & like of what each other wrote.
 KrazyChikk
Joined: 7/11/2013
Msg: 166
What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away?
Posted: 10/29/2013 8:28:40 PM


What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away?

I take him for what's he's saying...
or...
I think he's a player.
Either way I choose my path.

Most of time I've got it figured out before it get's to that point.
 sweetpe4u
Joined: 11/4/2013
Msg: 167
What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away?
Posted: 11/12/2013 11:11:43 PM
I avoid them. I learned my lesson dealing with a klingon type who came on like gangbusters. People who come on too strong are usually needy, emotionally unhealthy and insecure.
 Crystal_Planet
Joined: 10/30/2013
Msg: 168
What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away?
Posted: 11/13/2013 4:53:12 AM
I avoid them. I learned my lesson dealing with a klingon type who came on like gangbusters. People who come on too strong are usually needy, emotionally unhealthy and insecure.


If they are pushing it forward way more quickly than necessary then yes, that may be the case. But like in Theme_pack's scenario (msg 252), I think that's totally cool. The whole "ten messages exchanged followed by 6 emails and no less than four phone calls in a space no less than 30 days" formula is utter bullshit and a complete waste of time. But it does speak volumes of a person's irrational fear.
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