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 bpazjr13
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 26
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oh it happens...sometimes it's just to get the guy to like them, but that usually never works. and I've also had some exp when she was just practicing cuz she wanted to get better at it...at first I was a little bewildered, but then that went away fast

my brother has actually told me about "bj parties" where the girls invite 3-4 guys over and well... and that was last year and he was in high school.
 garnet73
Joined: 1/2/2008
Msg: 27
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 1:48:48 PM
Having given this a bit more thought...
"Rainbow Parties" may or may not be urban myth, but I heard that roughly 50% of 14 year old girls have already performed oral sex. This was a stat that came out about 4 years ago. I think a lot of this is just a perception that fellatio "isn't real sex." For that, I have two things to say... "Thank you Mr. Clinton!" more blowjobs is good. But also "Nice going, Bill," young women thinking it's "no big deal" is just bad.

I caught Leonard "Mr. Spock" Nimmoy on Conan the other night. These days, he's into photography, and his current project is nude photography of women who aren't stereotypical beauties. Now, I don't think he's a Sociologist. He also wasn't doing a survey... he just talked to a lot of women who are out in the real world. He said something that one of my friends agreed with (a woman who's "got a few extra pounds" and who is also a psychologist), which is that a lot of woman find it safer to give oral sex, because they can do it without taking their clothes off, and having to worry about having their bodies "judged." Which is... a little disturbing to me. I honestly don't think men are going to judge you that harshly. Real men aren't perfect, we don't expect real women to adhere to a higher standard than we place on ourselves. Although... if you're dating Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, you should probably be lean and mean... at least as fit as Laney "Mrs. Rock" Johnson...

On giving blowjobs, one of my partners (a well adjusted, adult woman) said "Sure, I'm the one on my knees, but I'm the one in charge."
 jaguar0163
Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 28
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 2:14:24 PM
Well Damn I guess I have missed out on this so far. I had a chick come in on me in restroom at a party one time and gave me one great BJ but as far as setting up to meet some one just for a BJ I got to say I haven't heard of it. I feel so informed now. I guess they like Monica have some kind of oral fixation !!!
 SlumberParty
Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 29
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 2:27:19 PM

Blow jobs, to women of my generation, are less personal than actually having sex.


Personally, I think oral sex is headed in a direction where it is MORE personal and erotic than just sex. Women used to give oral sex easier than they do now because most of us know that men are just as happy with a BJ as they are with sex. So, you wont catch me meeting men to just suck their stuff.

I call this BS because I dont know of any women who do this and never have heard this before. And no, I dont live in a cave.
 meeshcake
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 30
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 3:11:00 PM
I do not know one woman who does that

I love giving oral, but uh...there has to be more to the evening (morning, afternoon) than just that!
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 31
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women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 3:43:49 PM
Just the BJ - heck I would want dinner and then take it all the way - the BJ is just the icing on the cake!! It's all or nothing - a fully charged experience!! Silly girls!!
 Benther
Joined: 1/20/2008
Msg: 32
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 3:51:53 PM
Ladies....this is not so uncommon.....ask your female(and maybe gay male) friends after a couple of marguritas and I'm sure that you will have your eyes opened.Maybe even feel a tad prudish?
Lot's of women love to suck c**k ...with no strings.
At least that has been my experience.And NO...they are not "diseased,nasty,slutty,whorish women)...they are your next door neighbor.
Enjoy fellas.
 larwilliams2
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 33
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 3:58:20 PM
Agreed Benther, my last one was just a few weeks ago lol.
 ~Myth~
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 34
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 4:36:46 PM
"b/j Parties"

"Rainbow Parties"

"Drive-thru b/jobs"

"Wifie b/jobs"

"Mannie b/jobs"

Now who said the forums is not educational!


~Myth~
 hfxsexclub
Joined: 11/17/2007
Msg: 35
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 4:58:06 PM
41 years old and someone just let you out of your bubble, nice to see...hope you can make up the time and catch up to the real world.
 Captain Incognito
Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 36
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women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 6:45:51 PM
I think this is just some guys fantasy in the hopes that if they say it happens, then it will start to happen.

I wonder if it worked...
 hfxsexclub
Joined: 11/17/2007
Msg: 37
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 6:56:48 PM
you're as lost as she is dude.
 PolkaDotGirl
Joined: 8/12/2007
Msg: 38
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 7:06:52 PM

Is a very free-spirited form of sexual expression. It is actually exciting and hmmm a kind of dominatrix thrill.


interesting, i actually see giving a bj as something a bit submissive, especially if they try to hold and push my head. arrr, this pisses me off and makes me wanna stop right away. lol
 bobsnew
Joined: 2/13/2006
Msg: 39
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/16/2008 9:19:40 PM
well yes , it could and has happen to me once, i meet this woman on another site , we talk a few time's and she was telling me how she like give'in blow jobs , and so blah , blah, blah , we were on line one morning and she said she like to stop by and blow me , befor she whent to work , i was like are you for real , i be damn if she was'nt at my door came in, talk to me for about 5 / 10 min's told me to sit back on the couch and enjoy , so i did and she did to the end, -----> god-bless-her

so please ladys don't hate on me .......

bob
 BuckROG3RS
Joined: 5/4/2006
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women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/17/2008 12:31:41 AM
This phenomenon must be something more about an attempt at control or some kind of submissive wish fulfillment on the part of the woman. It can't be a sexual thing since the woman gets no stimulation at all really, right?

I have yet to meet one of these women so I have my doubts. But, meeting one would be an interesting opportunity for further study...
 motorrunnin
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 41
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/17/2008 8:15:09 AM
Oh moviebuff

There is no such thing as a "control" factor in sexual expression. You probably have never met one of these woman because they are few and far between...I do believe there are those ladies that use the "fellatio" to get love, money, stuff. That prelude produces a paranoia in men.
But when you consider a bj in terms of an art form. It produces a whole new meaning. Is everytime you had sex an act of love?
Let's say you had a totally stressful week at work. You are meeting a woman on Friday.... what is the best way to release the tension? What would toally revitalize you?
 motorrunnin
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 42
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/17/2008 8:16:27 AM
Easy solution PolkaDotGirl, grab their hands....
 virgilskid
Joined: 10/29/2006
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Posted: 2/17/2008 8:27:10 AM
I have heard from some teenagers today (have 4 teenage nephews currently) that bj's are basically no more serious than kissing, they don't really look at it as sex. I don't agree with this but that seems to be how many teenagers today view it, instead of a goodnight kiss they may get a good night blow. My girlfriend in high school was a virgin in the literal sense and oral is all we did, but we were steady. Today it's more casual I guess. I still look at it as foreplay and when I am exclusive, but then I'm an '80s kid, not an 'oos kid.
 Doc5000
Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 2/17/2008 8:27:38 AM
Lots of women love to give blow jobs, REALLY enjoy it and are glad to do it without any recicprocation. Also, it has been many years since I was single, but back then, I knew several women who were able to come just from giving head. The world is a wonderful place. Enjoy.
 socalguy1962
Joined: 5/5/2007
Msg: 45
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/17/2008 8:32:17 AM
I've knew a couple female co-w0rkers like that...they just loved givin' head, pure and simple. One was into "Blow Bangs", especially with Marines. To each their own i guess. If that's their thing, more power to'em.

No i didn't ever find out first hand. Just going by what they told me.
 fordfan
Joined: 8/29/2005
Msg: 46
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/17/2008 10:21:05 AM
socal where do you work im going there
 BuckROG3RS
Joined: 5/4/2006
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Posted: 2/17/2008 10:37:48 AM

There is no such thing as a "control" factor in sexual expression


Oh, motor...
Who's to say that the simple act if putting a d**k in your mouth has anything to do with sexual expression at all? It's relative to the person who the mouth belongs to, is it not? If it isn't about sex then the motivation could be virtually anything...

... like say... control?
 WittyLogic
Joined: 1/22/2008
Msg: 48
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women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/17/2008 10:38:21 AM
Despicable, these girls are just giving head and then leaving? Not even sticking around to make a nice meal? Girls these days...
 Angelnurse10
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 49
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women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/17/2008 11:08:12 AM
I give a bj to a man that I am going to have sex with as part of foreplay. I also do it because men like bj's, not particulary because it does anything for me. So no, just to give a blowjob to a random person, would definitely not interest me.
 motorrunnin
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 50
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 2/17/2008 11:27:01 AM
Who's to say that the simple act if putting a d**k in your mouth has anything to do with sexual expression at all? It's relative to the person who the mouth belongs to, is it not? If it isn't about sex then the motivation could be virtually anything...

... like say... control?

OHHHHHHH MovieBuff34.........Silly Boy

The initial request started by Ms Polka dot was... she wanted to hear from Woman who do this....and why

When you look at abstract "Art" you question, the who, what, where ,why, and how...and attempt to interpret the Art ...using your perspective....truth is you either like it, hate it, or just don't get it. i.e munching on a man it depends on the two people and their interpretation....
Some woman just do it ....why anal*ize the situation
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