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 Vyper®
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 93
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Ahhh, some Canadians have all the luck!
 Mitz BeeHaven
Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 95
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 3/3/2008 10:47:06 PM
Actually, I do a know a gal who is in her early 20's.

That is all she does, is BJ and nothing for her please!
 Vyper®
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 96
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 3/4/2008 12:06:40 AM
She wouldn't by any chance live on the east coast anywhere, would she?
 TypographicUnits
Joined: 1/10/2008
Msg: 97
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 3/4/2008 12:56:50 AM
I believe this is true... A guy and I have known each other for two years and we had a thing about a month after we met, I don't know if it is just because we've been... shall we say, friends with benefits, for so long but thats how it is sometimes... I'll go over there and we'll do our thing, sometimes sex other times just fooling around.. Sometimes we'll hang afterward and watch a movie but more often than not the other just goes about their business. I know I'll probably have a whole commentary on how "slutty" this is but this is NOT a common thing with me, We've been in touch for two years and always seem to be single at the same time. He's the only guy other than two men I've been with for years. One of which I dated for a year. Live and let live.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 98
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 5/28/2008 1:09:20 PM
There are a lot of pervs in the world and there are women like this. crazy.
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 101
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Posted: 5/29/2008 11:25:01 AM
Doesn't really sound like you are really loving to give head, but more of that you will do it if someone does you first, and not until.

Why does it have to be this way at all? Can you not just enjoy the one you are with for that particular act without demands that you get yours first? What if he said that to you, and insisted on you doing him first before he considered doing you? The two of you would be just going round and round and not accomplishing much of anything.....

Just like some are really into kissing and touching another, some are into getting that person off with oral or manual stimulation. There are no rules to be set here, other than to be open, honest, healthy, and willing to share.

There have been times that a date of mine wanted to please me, and have me please her, and yet not commit to intercourse until ready, and giving head, along with manual stimulation on both parts can accomplish that often.

Many just want the release and pleasure of pleasing the other, and using fingers and oral, can be another step for heading to more......

Long ago when in high school, many dates would please each other with deep throat kissing, touching and groping one another, and masturbating each other, but not have intercourse. This continues on, but in a much more refined and mature way to make sure both are happy with the outcome.

There are no rights or wrongs with this, but more of another area of discussion, and exploration between the two of you......

Just my opinion......
 Happily Ever...maybe
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 102
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Posted: 5/29/2008 12:01:22 PM
Doesn't this sound like it goes back to the Bill Clinton thing, debating the meaning of "is", and where a whole generation of people seem to have become convinced that oral sex isn't really sex (c'mon, the word sex is right in the title!)

I can understand a woman enjoying the feeling and rush of giving a guy so much pleasure, and the sense of power it gives her; hell, I know that's one of the reasons why I so much enjoy performing oral sex on a woman. But just some random stranger, BJ and go!? Definitely crosses the line into skanky!

MissBlueEyes- you make me wish I was just 1 year younger, and in Canada! Oh well, I may be visiting the Great White North on a regular basis starting soon, but I can't change the calendar! Good post though!
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 103
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Posted: 5/29/2008 12:17:32 PM
Yes it really is happening in every day real life. Lots of women I know and lots of female friends I have had are like that. They think doing that is the best thing. Better than sex. I don't really understand it because to be I would have sex with someone before performing oral with a stranger. To me oral sex is more intimate and I reserve that for men I'm dating that I'm really into. Women always tell me performing oral is nothing. They go out of the bar and come in and say do I have any sperm caught between my teeth? Pick it out if I do! lol! I see nothing wrong with it and I'm sure it is a turn on to alot of people just not for me.
 jm514
Joined: 3/15/2008
Msg: 105
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 5/29/2008 1:51:54 PM

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 Guy4theForums
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 106
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 5/29/2008 2:03:49 PM
I think this is something more common than some that do this would want the public to know about. Yes there is women on this planet that has that craving an actually hungers and lusts for it. I would not think they want to do protein extractions for just anyone walking down the street.But most likely they would lust to do it with someone that they are physically and mentally attracted to.
 Guy4theForums
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 107
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 5/29/2008 2:12:30 PM
There's guys that crave giving it too and expect nothing in return.But only with women they are totally physically an mentally attracted to.
 BIGLOUMARINI
Joined: 1/4/2008
Msg: 108
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 5/29/2008 2:49:32 PM
From what I've heard a popular thing to do in high school is go to a rainbow party. Each girl wears a different shade of lip stick. Guys try to see how many different shades they can get on their unit
 opnmydm
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 114
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 5/30/2008 7:13:29 AM
myth, that was great. why would someone think giving a bj to someone is safe but wont let him inside without a condom...? wow, what has happened? are people actually this unintelligent these days? can you say there is only one light on there?
 ExplosiveSheep
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 117
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 6/10/2008 2:05:31 AM
I knew a girl that did it once, in a parking lot, late at night. It was a friend of my ex, you ever meet those boyfriends that don't get along with their g/f's friends? Yeah that was me, but I felt like I had the righteous stance on that one, she was smart, they weren't, somehow she still found a way to be jealous of their obscene shenanigans...
 moniquesc
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 120
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 6/10/2008 7:32:14 AM
I have talked to some married guys who met with a women for sex...like a Craigslist ad....but then she only wanted to blow him....apparently this didn't constitute cheating to these women.

One guy I got to know pretty well (chat friend only) has met with the same woman multiple times during lunch, etc. He gets into her car, she blows him and that's it. He said he did get her into the back of the car one night when they met, and she let him finger her, but she always changes her mind about the intercourse. Has been going on for about a year with them.
 Vyper®
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 121
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 6/11/2008 1:15:41 AM
WOW!!! I have REALLY gotta move out of the Philadelphia area!
 Hairtrigger
Joined: 6/14/2008
Msg: 122
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 6/17/2008 11:32:41 PM
I don't know how frequently that happens, or even if it happens at all, but I'd sure like to find a woman of this persuasion!
 bigshrek
Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 127
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 6/18/2008 10:18:12 PM
Some women just like being with Powerful men. Just ask Monica Lewinsky!!


Pffft...paying for it...sheesh. I live in Florida where there are PLENTY of gals down on vacation just looking for something to write in their Diaries about Who they Did during Summer Break. All they care about is that you are relatively cute & nice..being clean, well-dressed, and manicured help a LOT. The majority buy YOU drinks just so they can get you to open up fast. As Mel Brooks says..."It's Good to be King!!"


Some gals enjoy the power that having a *bleep* in their mouth gives them...they know that they can either give you ultimate ecstasy or terrible agony in the blink of an eye. Many get off on the "Contact Orgasm" they feel when a guy fires off...

Who Cares?? It's still FUN!! Just ask Bill Clinton!!!!!!
 bigshrek
Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 128
women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 6/19/2008 6:59:47 AM
"doing it to avoid having to become emotionally intimate with someone"

What do you think 95% of single straight men under 25 are doing?? I heard a couple of young guys talking about the "Stick & Move" plan...which in the 90's was called the "Hit & Run"...
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 129
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women meeting guys just to give bj
Posted: 6/19/2008 8:49:08 AM
People like that just plain suck
 noheavyd
Joined: 1/13/2009
Msg: 135
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Posted: 5/10/2015 11:30:13 AM
Didn't you ever give your man head until completion? It's always just foreplay?
 noheavyd
Joined: 1/13/2009
Msg: 136
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Posted: 5/10/2015 11:57:52 AM
Shoving it down her throat is where most of the fun comes from along with watching. After awhile you get use to it being in your throat and you really start to enjoy it. It has worked with everyone I have ever been with. They feel like they have perfected it when the man is totally pleased
 noheavyd
Joined: 1/13/2009
Msg: 137
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Posted: 5/10/2015 12:01:36 PM
Thanks for being one of these gals. I really appreciate a great blow job. You girls that like doing it tend to be really awesome at it. Whenever your in the mood I would love to be the recipient thank you
 tgif333
Joined: 4/16/2015
Msg: 138
No Heavy D talks to himself
Posted: 5/10/2015 8:00:31 PM
^^^^^^Who are you talking to ????^^^^^

this thread is from 2008 and you just made 3 posts in a row to .........???????

maybe your imaginary lover????

I think you're watching too much cartoon porn Mr. Noheavyd.

get a grip!!!
 Siennarh
Joined: 5/1/2015
Msg: 139
No Heavy D talks to himself
Posted: 5/17/2015 10:10:47 PM
Maybe in their dreams.

Ew
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