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 freespirit9931
Joined: 11/27/2004
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to many pages to read what e1 said

IMO nothing wrong with porn in a relationship. Fiancee and I watch alot of porn even subscribe to the Playboy Channel. It's healthy and fun in my opinion.

However, I do respect those who have a negative view against porn. To each his own, it is all a matter of preference and tastes.
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
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Posted: 10/7/2005 1:18:44 PM
I respect everyone's point of view,to each his own.It's only when those that have a negative view on it feel it should be banned.I think definitely that it should be regulated as the laws now stand in the USA and I feel the scum that are responsible for child porn should suffer the fullest penalties allowed by law.
 freespirit9931
Joined: 11/27/2004
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Posted: 10/7/2005 1:22:53 PM
In alot of ways its equal to cheating.


LOL!!!!!!!!!! It's women on a movie. You or any man you are in a relationship with has about as much chance of sleeping with one of those women as I do sleeping with Bon Jovi. Heck I'd even let his wife join in if she wanted too.

Try relaxing and enjoying it for the beauty that it can be. Check out some of Andrew Blake's work and the Story of O. Some porn is so much more than just naked people, it is a true work of art.

My only regret with porn is that the men are mutts. Ron Jeremy is truly one of the ugliest men I've ever seen. Personally big shalong or not you atleast have to be
somewhat good looking and have a body. Oops thats a totally different thread.
 Sexmeup
Joined: 7/1/2004
Msg: 478
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Posted: 10/7/2005 4:08:44 PM
yay porn!!
 corazondeleon
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 479
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Posted: 10/8/2005 11:42:55 AM
When you patronize porn you are supporting criminals. Porn is fine if you would rather have a relationship with you hand or a device rather than a person.. Oh yes, I forgot how it can spice up a failing relationship or be an instuctional aid. ha
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
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Posted: 10/8/2005 11:51:31 AM
Cora,have a look at my Pornography and Freedom post.Your comments would be welcomed.This one is getting long and repititious.
 corazondeleon
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 481
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Posted: 10/9/2005 3:00:28 PM
Yes I know it is. I have no interest in reading your verbose and articulate observations because it would be an exersize in rehashing and would be very predicable, I'm sure. Im hopping this thread will die the death it has long deserved
 acesolak
Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 482
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Posted: 10/9/2005 6:48:17 PM
@Pandora23
Baby, what kind of man would look at porn when he has you?
Insane?
Crazy?
Not thinking right?
All of the above?
gay?
Or simply blind?
Jeez..
 prolibertate
Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 483
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Posted: 10/10/2005 7:31:15 PM
I think there's a difference between hard-core porn and soft, and erotica...and also how and what one uses it for in a relationship. Also, whatever two consenting adults agree upon is really their business, as long as it hurts no one else.
 corazondeleon
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 484
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Posted: 10/11/2005 1:01:20 PM
It's rare that some one is not adversly affected by porn and it can be kids that find it, or adults that have opened Pandora's box and are now hooked. People pay a lot of money for this garbage and who profits? Criminals.
 smile with your eyes
Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 485
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Posted: 10/11/2005 1:39:42 PM
Cora...if you want the thread to die...work with me on this...you must STOP posting! Come on. I think after reading 21 pages I get your point. Criminals...rapists....drug dealers....bad...porn...bad.

You have made your point. And others have made theirs. But you are continuing to rehash your point...all while saying you want the thread to die. Let it die already ok?

And while I'm at it...I don't believe there is ANYTHING wrong with it..as stated before...it can be quite nice to watch with a partner...it introduces new positions and teaches things you can't learn from your parents. Cuz I dare you to ask your family how to properly give a bj. I thank Jenna for showing me how! Now...be a good sport and let other say what they think and let this die k? Thanks. :)
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
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Posted: 10/11/2005 1:48:56 PM
Can a person watch TOO MUCH porn when in a relationship?

I would day if it becomes obsessive and the communication between partners suffers,than yes,I would say it's too much.

Bottom line:It's NOT for everybody.Now can we let it rest?
 corazondeleon
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 488
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Posted: 10/11/2005 3:06:03 PM
Yes we can! let this thread die the death it has so long deserved.
 love269
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 489
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Posted: 10/11/2005 5:09:41 PM
Hey Cora:

Why don't you let it die? You've stated your opinion over and over again on every single page of this thread. Why can't others discuss it? If it offends you so much, why do you keep coming back? Why must you keep making the same comments to everyone else's comments?

Why don't you let it die? Believe me, EVERYONE is well aware of your opinion on this by now. Take a needed break for yourself, if not for others already.

I mean no disrespect, but you have sincerely dominated this thread for quite some time now.
 Jym
Joined: 8/16/2004
Msg: 491
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Posted: 10/12/2005 8:51:53 AM
Can someone take away the soapbox???
You have stated over and over and over your opinion, yet you chastize another saying "it would be an exersize (sp) in rehashing" and that you have no interest in reading their comments.
I would say to you sir....SHUT UP THEN!!!!
You continue to spout your verbal diarrhea and it's getting rather boring.
If you think the thread is dead...then quit regurgitating your soapbox rant and let well-enough alone.
Some enjoy it, some don't, some like to share...enough already.

Thank you everyone for letting me spout my opinion...oh and yes I do enjoy it but my wife doesn't. I repect her opinion and the others here and don't force mine on her nor the other readers here.
I suggest you do the same...say your piece and quit attacking the other for their's.
 =CrackedHalo=®™
Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 493
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Posted: 10/12/2005 1:36:08 PM
@Cora
The guy who sais he used it to relieve himself, I used to do that but grew out of it.


When I turn 50 I'll probbally grow out of it to.
 corazondeleon
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 498
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Posted: 10/12/2005 4:31:22 PM
I mean no disrepect either but why is this thread important? It isn't and for that matter no thread here is important(allthough people are) and it's all a matter of way too much free time.
 corazondeleon
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 500
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Posted: 10/12/2005 4:50:40 PM
Oh it work's but how satisfying is it? Do you lay back with a smoke afterward? I though not.
 bigsmile
Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 501
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Posted: 10/12/2005 5:58:10 PM
I think it's cool if you can enjoy it together......if it's the only way you can find satisfaction, then I think it ruins sensuality in general.
 corazondeleon
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 504
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Posted: 10/13/2005 12:22:09 PM
Most couples don't look at porn together rather quite the contrary. Most of porn viewers use it to wank, get real! I not saying there is anything wrong with wanking but why do you need porn to do it. Got no imagination and have to use someone else's?. Most porn addicts wank alone and then lie back on the bed with a smoke, reflectivly and cuddle with their magizine. ha
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
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Posted: 10/13/2005 6:35:29 PM
Well Cora judging from the number of posts from people(women manily here) who like porn in their relationships,I would say your "most porn viewers are...." doesn't have much validity there,buddy.It doesn't reflect what I saw that came into the video store I used to work at.
 jackimartinca
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 506
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Posted: 10/13/2005 6:42:06 PM
You know, I had a problem with my EX and porn. It all depends on the security on the relationship. I was brainwashed as it being TABOO and totally disgusting garbage and only perverts look at it. Then, after a Year of my divorce, I discovered that ALL MEN look at it. Even some women. It shouldn't matter if the relationship is secure.
 taurus516
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Posted: 10/14/2005 12:27:55 AM
Ahh oh.. Looks like this one isnt going to die!!! Just to Clarify for Taurus, there have been several women who on the last 2 pages have declared there dislike for porn, myself included. And by simply stating that because u actually worked in "Adult Video Store" does not mean that you have the authority on who and what people do. Not everyone likes porn, and this includes men.
Cora & This is 2wierd are two men who dont seem all that "YEAH PORN"



No but in order to sell it,we had to know something of the market demographics.Yes porn is and always will be primarily a male preffence in entertainment.yes,there are men who dislike it too.


Bottom line here.It's about prefferences and choices.It's a vice business.Plain and simple.Like alcohol,tobacco and gambling.In moderation among consenting adults,it's harmless but like anything and I do mean ANYTHING(that includes hobbies,religion),it can be overdone to the point where it becomes compulsive (herein is the difference,the people who make it a problem are acting on compulsion and not a simple indulgence)then there will be problems,and if there is no basis for a relationship to begin with,no amount of "spicing up" is going to save it.
 soulthing
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 511
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Posted: 10/14/2005 6:53:13 AM
If nothing else works anymore.......
 taurus516
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Posted: 10/14/2005 7:37:56 AM
Market demographics! LOL> your killing me over here!

Porn is now a mainstream business that is supported directly and indirectly by Fortune 500 companies.They do market studies just like any other business and the product is marketed according to taste.There is porn that is geared toward couples and women,porn directed at gays,lesbians,bisexuals,she males,all kinds of fetishists.There's a market for any taste.Much of the really out there stuff (still legal in the US) is geared for the freak show appeal such as midget porn.
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