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 upstream
Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 653
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As long as the relationship is healthy, who cares?
 bonitachicita
Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 654
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/16/2007 9:35:18 PM
POrn in a relationship....good tool!! I dont understand why people are so insecure in a relationship, that they or their partner couldnt enjoy it?
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
Msg: 655
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Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/20/2007 11:02:35 AM

As long as the relationship is healthy, who cares?


I agree.One thing I'll never see eye to eye with is the folks who say it's bad for everybody when there are clearly couples who enjoy it and lo and behold,they're relationship is solid,stable and healthy.The biggest problems stem from couples where one,usually the woman,but sometimes it's the man,has a problem with it and the other doesn't.It's no different from any other issue that mismatches a couple.Couples break up over sports or daytime soap operas but you don't see debates on the morality of sports and daytime soaps.
 Limestone_lady
Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 656
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/20/2007 12:12:28 PM
No problems with porn. If I'm away for a few weeks or months I'd much prefer his fantasies to include fictional characters and people he'd never meet. For fun I make porn with him so he can have everything like I am there. I don't care for it myself, except for our home videos, but if it gives him what he needs when I cannot due to distance, then I have no issue.
 NaughtySteph
Joined: 4/18/2006
Msg: 657
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 2/20/2007 12:39:19 PM
Who cares! atleast he/she satisfies you completely, who cares....
 TickleMehPink
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 659
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/19/2007 9:01:02 AM
Hey if both of you are watching and enjoying it together how is it wrong?
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
Msg: 660
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Posted: 8/19/2007 11:46:37 AM
The operative word that I see common to most anti porn posts,is NEED."If you NEED porn,then your relationship is suffering some deeper problem.." or some such.I agree.If porn is considered a necessity and not something used as an occasional form of entertainment,then there is a problem. Porn is no different from any other "vice" form of entertainment such as gambling or drinking.It should be an indulgence,NOT a compulsion.
 U-nMe
Joined: 4/11/2007
Msg: 662
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/19/2007 12:23:24 PM
Nothing wrong with porn in the relationship as long as its recreational occassionally. Something very wrong if it is part of a routine and it is sort by any mean.

I think following Jenna Jameson and her troup to many shows for long weekend conventions is not healthy. (I know peeps who are doing this)
 Sabrosura
Joined: 8/1/2007
Msg: 664
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/19/2007 1:02:38 PM
Nothing wrong using other "tools" to enhance/spice things up with your partner!

Enjoy.................
 andygodwin
Joined: 11/17/2006
Msg: 665
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 8/23/2007 9:02:52 PM
you have got to be kidding me...porn when yer with somebody....jeeeeessssuuus....thats lame...never did care for it myself....actually...only time i idulged myself in it was when I as young man hittin peuberty...then it didnt do a darn thing for me but piss me off cuz HE was gettin what I wanted
 echo*
Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 666
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/10/2007 4:40:42 AM
Better than him asking for a threesome. Why be so uptight about porn?
 winterrenegade
Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 667
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/10/2007 4:42:37 AM
I think it would be wrong, You are in a serious relationship, why would you need porn?

Too me that would be rude and disrespectful too your partner, in some cases it could crush your partners heart, if they caught you looking at porn.
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/10/2007 7:12:02 AM
When in a relationship, you can't always be together 24/7. Sometimes, well, you just get horny whether you're male or female. I'd want my partner to look at porn than look at another woman, and I'd rather watch porn than think of cheating. To me, that's ICK. Porn is fine UNLESS they are watching bestiality or anyone under the legal age of consent.

Porn is fantasy, and there is nothing wrong with fantasy. To me, it's normal.
 statueman
Joined: 2/11/2006
Msg: 669
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/10/2007 7:31:58 AM
I think the scariest thing about porno is that we're so saturated with it... and so many pretty young woman are being used to make a quick buck. I think that we're paying the price of the taboo and that it is indeed something that should be discussed within the relationship. Perhaps best to discuss it before the relationship goes to far. I wouldn't want to stumble another or be stumbled by what another happily allows in their life. If we only had nude beaches and nudity in the park and had grown up with it in this country then by puberty we wouldn't have so many poor souls spending so much of their hard earned cash to support some slime ball with a camera. Not that their all slime balls... but you know the whole and all that taboo making people feel like cause their fascinated by the many different shapes of female breasts... I know I am... especially the kind that look like
 SecretX_Man
Joined: 10/13/2007
Msg: 670
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/16/2007 8:24:20 AM
The question being, "Is it wrong you're all the porn he needs?" If this man is dedicated to you and only you, then you are all he needs. I can say from past experience, that if a man does not get the intimate pleasures from his soul-mate, wife, girl friend...he just might step out and find a mistress on the side. I am a man, divorced, and I am a sex freak. I love porn especially when it's my girl and me alone in the house or we spend a 3 day weekend at a hotel.
 sassy~n~sweet
Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 671
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/16/2007 9:03:35 AM
I think porn in a relationship CAN be fun! It's like another toy, often couples bring toys into their relationship, well I consider porn like another toy.....I don't NEED porn but it is alot of fun to watch together and makes for some variety as well.......Open mindedness is one key to spicing up a relationship. Making your own porn is alot of fun too!!! Not something for all the time but once in a while it can be very exciting, just like everything else, if you do it all the time it does get boring!!!
 LovingMyMan
Joined: 11/12/2007
Msg: 672
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/16/2007 9:17:38 AM
I don't care for my man to look at any woman let alone naked women but that's just bc I'm insecure so I mainly keep my concerns to myself.
 jezebel804
Joined: 10/24/2007
Msg: 674
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:55:32 PM
It can add spice, as a few other posters said. As long as he's not ignoring me to go watch alone.
 greeneyedokiegirl
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 676
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/20/2007 8:39:17 PM
I didn't read all the posts... but I'm all for porn... I enjoy it myself... and I would much much much rather my man watch porn and satisfy himself when I'm not around as opposed to satisfying his need with another woman... I like to think I'd do everything I can to satisfy my man... but we obviously wouldn't be together 24/7 and I can gaurantee that even though I'm in a relationship I will still satisfy myself at times too... it's completely natural :) JMO!!
 Bumpkin82
Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 677
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Posted: 11/20/2007 9:53:39 PM
In a serious relationship.. guess it depends how your other half feels about it . Dont want then to feel less sexy or attractive. Just ask. or hide it well.....jk
 Greg8001
Joined: 9/15/2007
Msg: 678
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/21/2007 6:21:27 AM
I think it depends on the context. For some couples, looking at porn may be totally acceptable, but for others, it might not be. I think it is something that should be openly discussed by the couple and they should decide, according to their own conscience, whether they want to make it part of their sex life.
 michaels_girl
Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 679
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 11/21/2007 7:31:11 AM
I haven't read all the other posts (since there is 29 pages lol) but I must say that in my opinion there is nothing wrong with porn in a healthy relationship. Watching it together can really help to spice things up. I wouldn't want to watch it all the time but once is a while is nice. The only time I'd have a problem with it is IF my man needed porn to get excited around me or made comments (comparisons) of them to me, but other than that no problem. You have to be secure in your relationships.
 ouheather
Joined: 7/7/2006
Msg: 680
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 4/18/2008 1:52:57 PM
Porn is awesome..

It gives me idea's...
 Trish1230
Joined: 4/1/2008
Msg: 681
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 4/18/2008 2:09:48 PM
Porn in a relationship is just fine with me. I quite enjoy it. I'm pretty sure any I guy I date would enjoy it too. And it's fun to enjoy it together.
 animefan1980
Joined: 8/25/2005
Msg: 682
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 10/13/2009 1:21:02 AM
It depends on how you feel about it. A lot of religious people will probably be against it, your religion might call it wrong too. Porn is usually something that single guys may look at a lot. Most of the time a girlfriend will ask a guy "so where do you keep them?" It's kind of embarrassing. However, sometimes a girl might want to see your "magazine and video collection," and like them. Many of "those" videos are used to help couples more than break them apart. The tapes have disclaimers specifically saying they are for consenting adults only and to help stimulate them. Sometimes if a video is on the couple ignores it anyway while they're "busy." If both partners don't mind porn it shouldn't cause problems. It's also a healthier alternative to things like drugs that are supposed to help your sex drive and testosterone stuff.
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