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 biziedizie
Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 76
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@heathersoftfeathers

Hey I like that shirt that you have on, like the black on. Can you send it to me?
 *BumbleBee*
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 77
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 10:44:45 AM
Porn is good. Let's all watch some, act some out and then make our own.
 myxtup
Joined: 3/29/2003
Msg: 78
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 10:48:11 AM
Porn is great, especially when not on your own and with the aid of tissues


Yeah, I cry watching a good porn flick too..
 *BumbleBee*
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 79
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 10:56:38 AM
 djama
Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 80
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Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 10:58:09 AM
and dont forget the realistic acting too
 awaitingyu
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 81
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 10:58:38 AM
hehe they should have a topic about porn titles!
 awaitingyu
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 82
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 11:01:54 AM
hehe the names of masturbation forum didn't last long, so I figured the topic of porn names won't either lol
 djama
Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 83
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Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 11:02:07 AM
The sperminater!
 illnevertell
Joined: 11/17/2004
Msg: 84
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 11:07:15 AM
well, I have never given it up in a relationship, and no man bette ask me to...especially if he wants to make any of our own! lol
 awaitingyu
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 85
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 11:09:19 AM
woohoo brunette !
 UlaLume
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 86
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 11:20:02 AM
There's nothing wrong with porn... other than it being fairly boring 90% of the time. Like someone else said, if he needs/wants a little something when you aren't around, better getting off to porn than with another woman, or a hooker, or the family pet.

Perspective, ya know.
 salsagirl
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 87
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Posted: 5/29/2005 11:58:06 AM
I think that it depends on the people in a relationship. If a guy watches porn and his girlfriend is totally okay with it and is into it too, then that is healthy and okay. However, if a guy is really into porn and his girlfriend doesn't like it and feels disrespected by it, then it's not right for the guy to look. I am one to feel disrespected by this because I think it is wrong for someone to be in a relationship and lust after other people. I know that to some point it is natural if you see someone attractive on the street but to go and seek it out in the form of porn, I don't think is right. Only if the girl is okay with it, but otherwise i think it's disrespectful to the woman.
 UlaLume
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 88
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 12:26:50 PM
Why is it 'natural' for the guy to lust after someone on the street, but not watch porn. That's way more disrespectful than oogling some chick on the street.
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 89
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 12:39:06 PM
The family pet?? Gawd I hope to hell that guy never becomes THAT desperate. "Why is the cat hiding?"
 dazedgirl
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 90
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 12:46:19 PM
This topic was at the top so might as well start here. I'm a vocal person and will probably be posting quite a bit.

If both people in a relationship agree to the porn why not. If one starts it and the other doesn't like it, the relationship is probably on it's way to trouble. If one was into it before the relationship got to a relationship stage, and the other wasn't, that was a stupid move on both parts.

Porn is overrated.
 paddle your own canoe
Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 91
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 12:47:05 PM
Where I live Animal Kingdom is considered Porn. My fav is "down on the farm".
 dazedgirl
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 92
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 12:51:06 PM
Some in the big cities consider Animal Kingdom the best porn.
 SingleGuy75
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 93
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Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 2:11:51 PM
I say it helps the relationship and opens it up for more possibilitys
 dazedgirl
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 94
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 2:13:55 PM
You're joking right? If it takes porn to help a relationship, the relationship is probably nothing real substantial at that point.
 SingleGuy75
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 95
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Posted: 5/29/2005 2:16:34 PM
Not at all...... different style ect will enhance the relationship
 dazedgirl
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 96
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 2:23:22 PM
That's not porn necessarily, I'd term that experimentation and experimentation in a relationship is healthy. But, doesn't mean it's porn. Big difference.
 GothyGeek
Joined: 1/29/2005
Msg: 97
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 2:27:00 PM
My boundaries within a relationship are this: Absolutely nothing misogynistic or that contains any type of rape or sexual abuse scenarios. Also, if a man is dependent on porn it is a major problem. After a while you can build up a tolerance to it and then the sex life of the couple suffers. It should be an enhancement to the relationship; not a replacement.

I find most porn extremely boring but you can find some great amateur stuff. You can also find some porn that is well made, has a plotline and is sex-positive. I detest the usual Playboy/Penthouse type porn, as it is mundane, insipid and boring. I much prefer porn that challenges the mind. The brain will always be the most important sexual organ anyone will ever have.
 lisalee
Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 98
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 2:44:05 PM
porn is like .........."sex for idiots" LOL
ever watch a flick and say " dayum i'm gonna try that next time" lol
porn is educational! instrumental! enteraining! and dayum it i wish i had some to watch right now ..lol ....................rock on!
 geraldk2
Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 99
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 2:51:08 PM
well my wife and i are comfortable with it ,,but then again we are comfortable in our strong loving relationship!! so if need the strikes us we do what we want..
 awaitingyu
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 100
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 5/29/2005 3:15:06 PM
<--looking for a porn partner in my POF relationship here....any ladies??? heheh jk

I wish !
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