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 Darma
Joined: 5/16/2005
Msg: 142
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My answer is who cares.
 jennifer j
Joined: 10/15/2004
Msg: 143
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 12:48:47 AM
Porn is boring so boring yawn every story line is the same dumb woman jumping dumber guy
 americangentleman
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 144
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Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 4:32:15 AM
Porn in a relationship in my opinion is okay; however, I think though if the partner is offended by it than probably you should consider their views. Secondly, if you love your partner than you would take into account their feelings as such, it is just that simple.
 lonertx63
Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 149
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 6:43:25 AM
It's your thing, go for it. The fact is, porn is OK for people who are not affected by it too much to the point of an obsession. For some it's better not to watch porn. It can give some people the wrong idea, and cause bad things to happen.
 corazondeleon
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 150
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 10:12:03 AM
Porn is garbage! I only like the real thing, not a cheap posed imitaion.
 jennifer j
Joined: 10/15/2004
Msg: 151
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 10:14:14 AM
Porn porn porn porn everybody loves porn porn porn sing along porn porn everybody loves porn
 corazondeleon
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 152
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 10:44:45 AM
Porn is garbage. If you need a magizine to get it up then somethings wrong. I understand it's a thing that kids check out before they know what's up but as far as I'm concearned it's destructive and is linked to crime and produced by scumbags.
 sweet_kisses05
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 153
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 10:53:10 AM
depends on how much if a healthy sex life is still maintained a the other person is secure in the relationship it can be healthy
 M1DN1GHT*
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 154
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 11:41:30 AM
mmmmmmmmmmmmmm poooorrrrrrrnnnnnnnn
 grubeci
Joined: 10/30/2003
Msg: 155
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Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 11:43:38 AM
its wrong. objectifing and lust...I know I am attracted to beautiful women which may be natural. I guess..if I got into porn..I'd never be again..I'd be turned on by printed paper.

Latoya Jackson said it keeps pervs off the street and off real women...so..its good?
Probably not.

Would you want your woman..having trashy films and magazines..and going to mens clubs every night..or just having her friends..strip for her..who know.s.
 Tigress
Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 156
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 11:55:59 AM
burnleybabe...

I think you have the right idea. Too many women ARE thereatened by porn. I think it's mostly the insecure ones or the insanely jealous ones.
 Tigress
Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 157
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 11:58:06 AM
jennifer j... most people don't watch it for the story line!
 M1DN1GHT*
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 158
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 12:45:47 PM
@grubeci

Used in the right way, porn can be a learning tool in a relationship. It can reheat a cold relationship. It can be just as useful as a book on the Kama-sutra. Is your imagination good enough to make things sizzle again in the bedroom? "Gee honey, I want a new position. What did you have in mind? (partner) I don't know, let's see what there is by watching this video I picked up."

Sex is natural my friend.
I'd be turned on by printed paper.


Are you kidding? Those woman are just as real as someone you see in person. Personally, I think you're afraid of women.
 luvinlittleyellowjacket
Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 160
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 5:03:02 PM
I believe porn can spice up a relationship
but it isn't always for everyone.
 M1DN1GHT*
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 161
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 5:07:03 PM
@alejandro604
Why is it sick? Is sex therepy also sick? How about this, is sex sick? Can you give me a little more insight? I can understand opinions, but you should also have a reason for it.
 tiffi78
Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 162
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 8:14:04 PM
the only time porn has ever bothered me in a relationship is when i was unhappy with the sex life in my own relationship. not having sex with me but still watching porn to jerk off to...????? HHHHHHHmmmmmmm something was not right there

porn in a healthy relationship is fabulous! i love to watch porn with guys...talk about things we would like to try, have sex while listening to their moans...MMMMMMMmmmmmm
 M1DN1GHT*
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 163
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 9:23:04 PM
sicko,sicko,sicko and then some


still waiting for more my friend, alejandro604. I'm hungry to hear somemore of your wonderful insight on this topic.
 M1DN1GHT*
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 165
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 9:53:14 PM
Gawd, is he alive? My professional analysis will tell you that this boy is definately in need of some exitement in his life. Either that, or he's become addicted to porn. Which would be a great reason for being against it.
 smilincaligal198
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 166
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 9:55:52 PM
i like watching porn together, or if im not in the mood, i dont care if he watches to do his thing, but if its on a regular basis, it would bug me
 M1DN1GHT*
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 169
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/11/2005 11:24:48 PM
Well that was a buzz kill.
 dceeeee
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 170
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/12/2005 1:06:25 AM
I believe in a saying I heard, that covers this topic, and that is....."IT DOESN'T MATTER WHERE HE GETS HIS APPETTITE, AS LONG AS HE COMES HOME FOR DINNER!" Now, if you have a guy who doesn't come home for "dinner", well, that's another story!!
 goodkisser
Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 171
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/12/2005 1:22:27 AM
I like porn as much as the next guy, but Im not sold yet on the idea of "sharing the experience" with a significant other....Or maybe I just shared it with the wrong "other."

Why is it always the woman that is insecure about porn? Why is it only the woman who cant be compared to the movie hottie with the boobs, imagination, and flexibility?

Now I'm no slouch, but I dont have an anaconda for a d i c k either! And i dont present the happy lady with a half a gallon of sex sauce, shot half way across the room and up the walls either!

That can be just as intimidating for us guys when our lady fair seeing that, turns to us and says, Gee, how come you cant do that? Seems like all the MEN in this movie can? I screw as good as she does, so it must be something with you?

whoa....mood killer! From then on I stuck to lesbian porn with her.......
 MMoore88
Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 173
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/12/2005 4:22:29 AM
I personally love Porn but my former wife did not I looked out of boredom when she was not around. When she found it (which I did not try to hide ) she went ballistic and associated watching with cheating( in the mind). we went to the marriage counselor she said Porn make s men better lovers b/c they are able to learn more positions and other random ideas.

Now we are on our 2nd separation and she calls me up one day at work to tel me she "took a walk on the wils side " she masturbated to porn on the internet.....go figure.
 M1DN1GHT*
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 174
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/12/2005 11:25:25 AM
If you involve porn in a relationship then both parties have to be cool with it. Porn has pretty much destroyed my parents marriage because; 1. My Dad was addicted to it and 2. My Mom felt it to be immoral. Now I'm not crying over their failed marriage because I do have a point to this.

Guys; If your wife doesn't want to watch porn with you, do yourselves a favor and find a better hiding spot.

Women; If you feel that porn is downgrading to women and immoral, do yourselves a favor and give your man a reason NOT to watch it.

 M1DN1GHT*
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 176
Porn in a relationship
Posted: 6/12/2005 12:20:52 PM
I'd like to make a porn with wldone911
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