Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > Sex Toys... (....for men!)      Home login  
Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 18
Sex Toys... (....for men!)Page 3 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
I have not used mine enough yet (it was just bought) so I hope I don't get jaded. That would totally suck. And I still don't understand why women have issues with it. I thought it would be a turn on to have a woman watch us. I mean we like watching a woman getting off on her own. Maybe it's just a man thing.. I don't know
Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 19
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/12/2009 4:25:10 PM
I never tried the flashlight, I have the pocket pu$$y. It's looks more real, and my friends have told me it feels more real then the flashlight.

I have the Tera Patrick .. Damn she's hott with a very pretty kitty
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 20
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/12/2009 4:29:44 PM
Hey bigdaddyjinx ... Why dont ya break out the J-E-L-L-O hun ... ... O wait Im sorry your not equiped with room for that hun ... ...

I guess evolution gave men the "shaft" millions of years before women with s@x toys and jello came along ... ...

Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 21
view profile
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/12/2009 6:02:53 PM

BDJ:No way darlin' junk may be jaded for hands, but never for women. The Fleshlight is nifty and all, but still no replacement for the real thing. Now if I could teach it to talk, and do chores, or hold a full time job............

We women have been saying that same thing about our BOBs for years!!
well.....we don't need it to talk!!
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 22
view profile
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/12/2009 6:28:14 PM
I dont think there is anything wrong with a man having sex toys. Actually take them out and lets use them together. Its what I say.
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 23
view profile
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/12/2009 6:37:37 PM
haha did I say that outloud???
 alpine ns
Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 24
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/13/2009 4:25:55 AM

Anyone that owns sex toys is on the desperate side plain and simple. Either they can't get laid and need to basically buy a toy the same as paying for sex in order to get off which is sad. Also the fact that a sexual aid was used to treat a medical condition for women who had psychosis tells you right there that women that use them probably have issues! Also I've heard women on this site before ask "why do men get upset if a woman wants to use a toy?" Women like this are nothing but trouble makers obviously as why would any woman need to use a toy or prefer it over the real thing? Why settle for 2nd best when you have the real thing in front of you? And even if you're single(men and women) , why waste your money on some toy when you can just finger yourself or jack off for free? I bet if a guy had a woman he was dating and then went out and bought a blow up doll to have sex with it would bother her. Its people with that type of mindset that cause problems in relationships and actually have no right being in a relationship. These are the same people that ask themselves "why can't I can't a relationship going?" D'uh its because you try to insult your boyfriend or girlfriend by using a toy there brainiac! Of course any man or woman would be upset if their partner wanted to use a toy, as what is the purpose of that if you have the real thing available as I mentioned? Instead of worrying about what toy to buy or use, why not try to find out what you and your partner can do to enjoy one another's own bodies more. The ignorance on this site is amazing
 alpine ns
Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 25
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/13/2009 6:11:45 AM

Deuteronomium, your either a moron or really good with your member. I doubt the latter one is the case. Obviously someone has been lying to you about your performance. Good luck with that. Wake up and smell the coffee!!!

Wow ...sounds like a hit a sore spot with rain311 lol. Like I said before, not every guy does a wham bam thank you ma'am. A guy that knows how to use his pipe wouldn't need to have his woman use a toy. I'm sorry if no men are attracted to you and don't want to have sex with you unless they were drunk or high and you need to use a toy, but don't come on here and blame others just because you are jaded and can't get laid or men aren't attracted to you. Every woman I shagged or talked to said they prefer the real thing way more , so if you don't because you can't get the real thing, then that's your problem not anyone else's!
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 26
view profile
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/13/2009 8:32:51 AM
sure.......we prefer the real thing......
but when the real thing isn't around.....what's the problem with using a toy?
Do u have a fear a woman will find out she can get herself off better than u can do it for her?

and toys in a's called fun. Spicing things up!
Any man that is so close minded about toys......has hangups this woman doesn't care to deal with.

and to say such needless things as "men aren't attracted to us.....and we can't get laid unless the man is drunk or high"......
Grow up!
Seems your the one with the problem.....not any person that enjoys a toy now and then.
Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 27
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/13/2009 10:58:30 AM
Deuteronomium msg 56 ...
Anyone that has a problem with toys is feeling threatened buy "TOYS" ... either they are insecure and feel the toys are better than they are, or they are not creative and there for do not feel free to explore living real sexual FUN ... witch I think is sad ...

There have been many medical studies that show most men and women masturbate at least some of the time .... for those ppl not to look for ways to please themselves better and longer and for longer periods of time shows they have no idea how to explore their own true sexuality and they live in a closed mind ....

I have seen men say "Why do women need to use toys ?" They are suffering from a "what about ME complex" ... and are more worried about if she really wants him and there for they feel they need to be needed .... These ppl don't seem to care about her and her wants just about their own wants ...

A man buying a sex doll I would say "to each their own" ... its only right that if she can play the field of toys then he should be able to also .... (a doll is a little creepy tho ) but a masturbation toy for his penis is all good .... A man buying a blow up doll would be like a woman buying a blow up doll and once again "to each their own" ...

Ppl that cant seem to accept that their partner has likes and wants a lil spice in their sex life should not be in relationship ... A lot of ppl are not insulted by toys and find them to be fun , stimulating and even erotic ... A person should not be insulted by a toy ... its a TOY not another person ... What is wrong with enjoying a toy ? ... Its not like you are having a affair ... Of course it IS a toy and a person is more desirable than a toy ... how ever using a toy with someone or by yourself is finding out more about what turns you or them on ... Why not explore your body with both your hands and toys .... and also doing this for your partner has well to make them feel even more orgasmic ...

The ignorance on this site is amazing


This is a lot better than my if I was to use my comical version ... ...
Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 28
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/13/2009 11:03:15 AM
u just need friends that are more freaky, that's all.

sex toys rock, and women like them, so nothing wrong w a man having them.
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 29
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/14/2009 9:25:26 AM
I not only appreciate a guy willing to play with toys, I appreciate it more when its not EXPECTED he play with mine. Some things are better safely enjoyed by the owner, not shared.
Joined: 10/29/2008
Msg: 30
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/16/2009 1:30:51 PM
We have sex toys they are called WOMAN!

See and I look at it the other way.... men are my toys, i say sit and they do, beg and they will... you just have to make sure that you reward them accordingly... and I love a man that will allow toy play with himself...
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 31
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/16/2009 1:40:45 PM

i got my own, bring your own and lets see how long we can go. i am free all weekend

maybe this will be the new (technology) trend of the future..

A Brave New World...?

a man and woman will get together, and never touch each other.

just each get off with their individual own toy (s)..

sort of like how I often see 4 people go out for lunch "together" and never talk at all to each other..each whips out their cellphone and proceeds to 'converse' with some other person who is not present at the table...or "texting" to someone else..

Joined: 1/10/2008
Msg: 32
view profile
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 1/16/2009 3:47:14 PM
I thought that was a dittzy 21 yo that just loved sex with ya and didn't care if you were old enough to be her dad. Just help her make her rent payment and don't ask about her eating habits, friends, or if her term paper is done on time.

Sooooooo, how stupid am I???

You mean there is a man made device that wraps snuggly around your member, is warm, moist, varies in stroking speeds, knows when to get rid of evidence(or go get itself a towel)....

don't: ask for money, talk about co-workers or neighbors, ring your cell when your bowling/ with your buddies , ask questions about the washing the car/lawn/leaky faucet/toilet seat up, during the last 5 mins. of the game or NASCAR???

Plus It plugs into the wall, battery operated, optional adapter for car cigarette lighter, and is compact enough to get through airport security without embarrassment?

OH, He11 yea!!! Send me a link!!

Wait ....assuming it's a 4 week delivery schedule, and Valentine's Day right around the corner.

Here's my visa,
1002 1812 6841 4269

Would one kindly POF member surprise me? THANKS

Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 34
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 6/10/2009 1:51:09 AM
gah. i think its a little weird. a had a buddy who has a pocket p***y.. he litterally NEVER had sex with his gf because they both just had toys. i figure why play with toys when you have a wayyyyyy better alternative...
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 35
view profile
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 6/16/2009 6:02:39 PM
Honestly way back when I did think that they were a little pervy...until I got more information on I think that there is nothing wrong with them at all. In fact I bought one for an ex when he was always going away on business. For a woman, I would much rather buy him a toy for him to play with when he is away rather than him buy a drink for some random women at a bar. I actually sell them now lol. If you have any intest, feel free to visit my site
Joined: 6/7/2009
Msg: 36
Adam & Eve
Posted: 10/6/2009 7:18:28 PM
who is adam and eve ????
Joined: 6/7/2009
Msg: 37
credit card # ?
Posted: 10/6/2009 7:42:09 PM
Tito, did you post your credit card number in post above?? LOL

dam, you really do want some sex toys huh??
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 38
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/7/2009 2:29:52 PM

In fact, it actually seems a bit more warped (in my mind), for a woman to use a dildo, because it's unfathomable that ANY woman couldn't find a willing man to give her penetration satisfaction, so those women are, in reality, rejecting a huge variety of flesh and blood penises for a slab of rubber or plastic. To me, that's quite, um, sexually dysfunctional. In a man's case, he's probably only SETTLING for the fakery because circumstances aren't giving him the option. Mind you, if he PREFERS it, he's equally warped (in my opinion) as the women who PREFER it.

that sums it up. it is ridiculous for a woman to not be able to find a man. women's manipulation gives them all the power.
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 39
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/7/2009 4:59:19 PM
Sex toys for men include: the Fleshlight (and other masturbation sleeves), certain sleeves that fit over vibrators, the eroscillator, butt plugs, anal dildos,****rings, etc.

Why would someone own/use a dildo? or even a chick masturbating. If I were a chick I would never be desperate for sex to a point of resorting to these 2 acts.

Seriously? Okay:

I masturbate. I masturbate with a vibrator, even, and sometimes I'll throw a dildo in there to mix it up a bit. Why?--Because I get horny and it feels good. I mean, isn't that why we all do it? Sure, I could find a partner, but I'm extremely picky, and don't really want to be with someone only for sex--it just doesn't work well for me, I do get emotionally attached, and I'm not going to form some arbitrary attachment because I'm horny and need a release. Masturbation provides a release on my own terms, without complications--the only complication I've ever run into is running down my batteries without a new set in my house.

I would be disturbed if I am in a r/ship with a chick using dildos. I would tell her 'I have a live one permanently strapped between my thighs. Just jump on it whenever you feel like using one.'

Again: Lack of complication. Or possibly, lack of availability. If my partner's not there and I need release, I can do it myself if I feel a need. If I want a selfish orgasm where I don't worry about my partner and his pleasure, I have ways to get myself off where I can do just that and not disappoint him. In practice, I do tend to just jump on my partner and wait for him, but I don't have any issues with a partner playing with himself without me, and I wouldn't stay with anyone who felt he somehow "owned" my sexuality to the point where he'd get upset if I did the same. Likewise, any partner who isn't okay with my using a vibrator during sex on occasion is not the partner for me (though I've yet to have a partner who objected to this).

Likewise a normal man who can easily get some..should not masturbate.

Why on earth not?! It's easy, it's uncomplicated, it feels good, there's no risk of STDs or pregnancy or complex emotional involvement. . . it seems like a winning situation to me if he doesn't want to find a new partner or just wants a little alone time. What could possibly be the problem with that?

Thanks for the enlightment now I know the diff btw a vibrator and a dildo. I thought there purpose is the same

Kind of. They're both for sexual pleasure, but one's purpose is penetration, while vibrators are used largely for clitoral stimulation, and often not inserted at all. Or you can use both at once.
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 40
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/8/2009 3:17:05 PM

The d!ck is the best dildo in the world and the finger and the tongue the best vibrators.

Tongues and fingers don't vibrate, yo. Really.

Your man should shift some gears in the bedroom and 'wean you off" toys.

Why? If it works for everyone involved, what is the problem with it? (No, that's not rhetorical; what is the problem as you see it?)
Joined: 12/18/2008
Msg: 41
view profile
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/8/2009 7:09:48 PM

If a woman has trouble with orgasm, doctors will advise her to masturbate and get familiar with her own body

Exactly! And "Use it or Lose it!" Nothing wrong with toys for men or women. Using them together just adds a little spice to the mix.
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 42
Sex Toys... (....for men!)
Posted: 10/9/2009 5:28:33 PM
OP: The hell with what the boys have to say/think. It's healthy and maintains the spice in a relationship!

Bring 'em out, and enjoy!!!!
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > Sex Toys... (....for men!)