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 lookn4you
Joined: 10/5/2011
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 CodyLynnL
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 352
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Posted: 9/4/2012 10:23:44 PM
I'm not necessarily into being dominated, but I much prefer a woman who is assertive with what she wants.
 Happy2Day
Joined: 2/10/2011
Msg: 353
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Posted: 9/12/2012 10:32:19 PM
I'm VERY sub...to the extent that I usually fall into Ds relationships even through vanilla means.

IMO, people who are true D/s just find each other. I can see a D from a mile away. I am very assertive in my career (an attorney) and really strong in life - but D always have no issues finding me.
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 354
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Posted: 9/14/2012 10:35:45 AM
i love to be in control men need to be whipped into submission and do as i say that is just the way it has to be
 edmerckx
Joined: 4/27/2009
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Posted: 9/14/2012 2:03:32 PM
there's a flip side to this question too -- there are plenty of men who like dominant women, and that works just fine for them.

I also think every relationship has informal negotiations/battles for power -- for example, I watch some friends of mine argue about stupid stuff, and it only makes sense if you see them as two strong personalities trying to get the other to back down.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 356
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Posted: 9/14/2012 3:43:32 PM

I also think every relationship has informal negotiations/battles for power -- for example, I watch some friends of mine argue about stupid stuff, and it only makes sense if you see them as two strong personalities trying to get the other to back down.

Augh! Power-struggle relationships. I'd slit my own wrists before I'd indulge in one of those again. This is precisely what lead me down a path of self-discovery to figure out exactly why there were power-struggles in my past relationships. I figured that out and in the past 12 years, it's not happened again. I am submissive in nature and if paired with someone who is not a strong leader at home, I'll do the leading. Doesn't take long for me to tire of that, and for me to let that be known. That's been the beginning of the end more than once in my adult life. I finally know that it's unacceptable to be personally to be with someone who isn't capable/willing/interesting in being the lead role with me. The great thing about those types for me? There is no "informal negotiations/battles" for power. The roles are effortlessly defined. The mere thought of power-struggles makes my teeth grind. Ick! (And I find it interesting how many don't believe those submissive in nature can be strong personalities ~ guess it's a stereo-type or something. **shrugs**) JMO
 danders1
Joined: 6/12/2012
Msg: 357
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Posted: 9/14/2012 8:52:13 PM
you are totally right as the sub will only submit to what she wants to and more if the dom is loving and respectful.
 Blueline294
Joined: 3/28/2012
Msg: 358
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Posted: 9/14/2012 9:44:14 PM
@ 2hotcougar. Meet message 444. I think we have a match ;)
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
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Posted: 11/4/2012 2:43:25 PM
There are no stereotypes, that's why there are more than one color of the rainbow and 40 kinds of peanut butter. All men AREN'T.
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 360
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Posted: 11/7/2012 2:05:01 PM
I agree with her. But most don't and so that's why they hop scotch from partner to partner always fighting.
 prettypuffer
Joined: 11/2/2012
Msg: 361
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Posted: 11/7/2012 4:32:20 PM
You need to ask him up front I think. Most men like women who will do what they want lol!! I think there are sites for that sort of thing as well. However I think the healthier relationships do switch roles and as long as there is no violence and just assertiveness, either party, that is fine with me. No fixed rules.
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 362
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Posted: 11/7/2012 9:02:55 PM
All I see is women trying to convince men who abuse them, to love them. It's not like I don't have female friends. Most that I have known who haven't been married, have lovers who treat them like garbage and they accept it. I find it easy to get laid but almost impossible to find a solid relationship which is what I have wanted from the beginning. I worked in the night club circuit as a bouncer and security. It's easy as pie to get a lover for a night or weekend, even a few months if you want to. If you are in to the bar scene. I was there because it's what I do. But I could not and never have been one to just sleep with anyone or sleep around in general. Every relationship I got myself in to I was in it for the long haul. So that doesn't make many. Because I have been single more of my life then I have been in relationships.
 R62
Joined: 9/5/2010
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Posted: 11/8/2012 7:31:23 AM
Most men I have talked to prefer more "docile" women because they are intimated by an assertive,fully self actualized woman..

For an S&M Dom...Submission is simply the women trusting the Dom with her personal power and not abusing the privilege when it has been entrusted to him...

It does not mean she is weak,nor timid or any of that stuff..To be honest,most submissive women are very high driven "A" type personalities who simply want a break from being inundated by the responsibilities heaped upon them by their jobs,family,social responsibilities..

The relation is very much give and take,it is not solely a 1 sided relationship...

Anyway,I could go into a long dissertation on the psychological dynamics of Dom/Sub relationships,but to be honest,it,s best explained(and even shown) to the individual who seek,s to explore that particular side of themselves.

Bob
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
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Posted: 12/17/2012 12:39:15 AM
Women who are soft and very feminine, not like into being beaten etc. Are very exciting. Docile and petite, like, very sensitive and seem helpless when you are making love gets a lot of guys charged up. It's that nymph or Tinker Bell fixation we were fed through Disney when we were little. A nymph in passionate, ecstasy repose on a soft bed of cushions, with her eyes glazed over begging you to take her. lol, who wouldn't?
 TedJMill
Joined: 7/6/2005
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Posted: 5/5/2015 4:32:02 PM
I'm a quiet, non-aggressive type myself, so I'd like someone who's also like that; someone who's too loud and aggressive would overwhelm me.
 GattoMonstrosis
Joined: 4/4/2013
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Posted: 5/6/2015 3:59:42 AM
A lot of men will tell you they are dom but that doesn't mean they are or that they know anything about sub/dom relationships other than what they see in porn. I'd say if you are looking for a dom man then you need to be very very clear about what you mean and very careful of wannabies and plain old a$$holes, they can do a lot of damage.
 MaleFeasance
Joined: 3/13/2015
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Posted: 5/6/2015 6:32:39 AM
Submissive women are boring.
 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
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Posted: 5/6/2015 8:10:58 AM
I resemble that remark! ^^^

I'm assertive in my daily life and enjoy
being "taken" by my man for the most part.

I'm also capable of taking him at times.

I'm far from boring in bed.

And he seems to enjoy me giving the reins
of my body over to him so...it's all good.
 Siennarh
Joined: 5/1/2015
Msg: 369
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Posted: 5/6/2015 9:24:13 AM
Most men are more dominant in the bedroom and in general. I prefer them to be less dominant out of the bedroom and more dominant in the bedroom. I tend to be dominant when I am irritated and when I know them more. When I don't I'm very submissive. I can also be dominant in the bedroom too.
 mike26130
Joined: 10/26/2006
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Posted: 10/3/2015 6:13:07 AM
I like submissive woman myself but I always want to hear what they are thinking,feeling I don't read minds :)
 NikonGuy007
Joined: 4/1/2012
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Posted: 10/6/2015 5:12:53 PM
Yes, I prefer submissive women.

She should not speak. She should wear a burkha whenever she is out of the house, and keep 7 paces behind me at all times.

I kid. I kid.

She can walk 4 paces behind me.

I'll be here all week. Tip your servers.
 sonnesun
Joined: 9/14/2015
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Posted: 10/8/2015 2:48:40 PM
I prefer versatlity. I don't really like it totally one way or another. It's quite boring if she's totally submissive, or quite scary if she's utterly dominant and controlling. I'm not just talking about sex here either.

A dominant woman is quite a turn on for me though, I guess that's what made me fall for my first partner. It's like when many women say that they like to tame an aggressively dominant guy, I guess. There's nothing like making an aggressively dominant woman go weak at the knees which I've made my first ex do a few times, lol. The problem with her though is that in the end putting aside any romance, she was too dominant and controlling in other aspects without any sense of compromise for me, it was largely a one-way relationship only that there were actually separate house rules just for me, even watching any football or listening to music she didn't like was a bad move. There needs to be a balance. This is just as much true for guys as well as for gals.
 MisterEd0950
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Posted: 10/9/2015 10:06:10 AM
I love a women who will do what she is told to do. One who enjoys being whipped, choked, peed on, etc
 kj521
Joined: 9/20/2015
Msg: 374
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Posted: 10/9/2015 3:43:16 PM
Really? Do you think Ms. Sunnydaysss?

Which did it for you? The whipped....choked...or peed on?

LMAO! I'm going with all three! :D


And Mr. Ed? Please....do NOT let us know what etc. entails! Sheesh!
 ucantcjay77
Joined: 4/16/2014
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Posted: 10/26/2015 12:24:26 PM
Yes we do , at least I do the problem for me is , I can't find a real sub , just ladies who wish they be but aren't
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