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 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 151
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Do men really like submissive women? I haven't had complaints about my natural submissive nature, so I'd have to say that at least some of them not only like us, they prefer us. It's probably just another personal preference.
 Lostcauz
Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 152
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Posted: 10/11/2009 6:29:32 AM
I believe the desire for women to be submissive is a personal preference. Personally, I thoroughly enjoy my special Angel's being submissive. As it has been mentioned here already, it defines our roles in our relationship.

A lady's being submissvie by no means, means that she is weak. A submissive submits because they choose to, not because they were forced to.
 GeekedNow
Joined: 7/27/2009
Msg: 153
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Posted: 10/11/2009 6:48:08 PM
I perfer neither submissive or dominance I perfer mutual. I perfer full communication by her as well as myself. Radical concept to some I know but really much more natural.
 Super_Eve
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 154
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Posted: 10/11/2009 9:14:37 PM
Oh, yeah baby, do you think it only happens in the bedroom?

I am sure this has been stated before.
 LongAfterDark
Joined: 5/17/2008
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Posted: 10/11/2009 10:34:15 PM
dominant/submissive is such a boring, one-sided relationship. i prefer a power sharing one, where there is a give and take, and up and down, a constantly fluid dynamic. that's exciting. that keeps my attention.
 Super_Eve
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 156
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Posted: 10/11/2009 10:40:36 PM
^^^^^ You must be single again!
 LongAfterDark
Joined: 5/17/2008
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Posted: 10/11/2009 11:50:40 PM
^^^^ and happy!
 tennisman2388
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 158
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Posted: 11/5/2009 9:59:11 AM
Yes, I get it, NSAB.

My previous GF was similar.....fairly assertive and even passively controling outside the bdroom, but SO longing to be submissive and reliquish complete control inside with the right man. She introduced me to D/s behavior and coincidently (or not) she was also an Aries AND a Civil Engineer....go figure....very exacting and demanding with respect to her professional career.

Anyway, your feelings are understandable and a BDSM lifestyle would be too over the top for me as well. Find the man you are attracked to and are sure you can respect.....through conventional dating methods, etc....then simply groom him to accomodate the level of submission you desire. You're an attractive and intersting girl-shouldn't be that hard. I would think any guy that cares for you and is attracted to you would gladly get with the program. I know I did.......without the slightest hesitation.
 breeheel
Joined: 9/7/2009
Msg: 159
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Posted: 11/5/2009 12:14:55 PM
Ultimatly Ide prefere a switch. a woman who can play both roles
 domincanada
Joined: 11/26/2010
Msg: 160
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Posted: 12/8/2010 7:21:48 AM
Hi,

Most men have been feminised. Most women have been masculinised, either chemically or under social control (brainwash). Check out Henry Makow's "Exposing Feminism and the New World Order". Alan Watt also reported this, as many others...

In a nut shell, the level of endocrine distubtors, and other chemicals in drinking water, shampoo, cleaning products, etc. "mimic" human hormons and screw us up. Add on top of that the "feminist" agenda given to us to break up the family unit and pervert the basis of heterosexual relationships and voilĂ ...

Yes, some men like submissive woman. Very few subs out there! I've seen more Dominant women looking for submissive men...(in this case both don't even know about it, they just are like that because of what I mentionned above).

As for asking for it... Probably not the best approach. Better to "read the profiles" and look for subtle messages. For example, if a Dom is looking for a sub, he will stay away from women who write things like "I'm very independent"... or "I'm perfectly happy and don't need a man"... If a man writes "I like strong independent women" or "You can choose what we'll do on the first date", then best you stay away from him.

A Dom knows what he is looking for, and you will see it in his profile; check out my profile for an example.

I hope this helps?
 alexvanlee
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 161
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Posted: 7/30/2012 12:00:36 PM
i like submissive women.
 bigcalm
Joined: 3/14/2012
Msg: 162
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Posted: 7/30/2012 4:47:13 PM
I like submissive woman, I like telling her what to do in bed. spank, dirty talking....
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 163
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Posted: 7/30/2012 9:42:25 PM
of course. thats how nature made it. feminism has stufed it up by turning modern females into males.
 Ladybug28539
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 164
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Posted: 8/3/2012 9:31:37 AM
If you want a dominant man, you have to ask for it... but beware, talk is cheap. I "dated" a guy (very briefly) that made all kinds of promises that ended up being just disappointments... There are those that say they are the aggressive type and then don't deliver. There really is no way to tell without asking, but again, some will say they are just to please you for that moment and you end up with nothing
 sliceoflife4me
Joined: 7/3/2012
Msg: 165
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Posted: 8/3/2012 10:48:47 AM
OMG, get off it girls! Since 50 shades of gray you all want to be "controlled".......You can be submissive, yet strong, controlled and (in control), punished (and loved)..........and taken to the brink of sexuality. You just need to find the right partner : )
 SlaveDriver8
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 166
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Posted: 8/3/2012 1:13:20 PM
For some of us, it's not just a matter of liking. It's a requirement.
 GarnerGirl71
Joined: 2/10/2012
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Posted: 8/3/2012 3:38:04 PM
I am not into SlaveDriver's brand of dominance, although I see nothing wrong with it other than its a bit too much for me. I like a dominant male that takes charge, and communicates his desires so that I can please him. That in no way means that I don't get mine as well, or that I just lay there and be dominated like some posted last page. I just happen to prefer an alpha-male inside and outside of the bedroom.
 HanyMikhail79
Joined: 3/31/2012
Msg: 168
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Posted: 8/3/2012 5:03:58 PM
i can be your dominant man.
thanks

Mr Hany
 Drawesome32
Joined: 6/26/2012
Msg: 169
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Posted: 8/3/2012 5:57:24 PM
id prefer a truly submissive woman over any other type. someone mentioned that some guys were confusing submissive with unresponsive. that because ive known some women who referred to themselves as submissive when they were just unresponsive. not the same thing. a truly submissive women with few inhibitions is a great find :)
 Rhonda168
Joined: 7/30/2012
Msg: 170
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Posted: 8/3/2012 6:22:13 PM
I have met a few men who doesn't even know what a submissive woman is ? A submissive woman isnt a door mat, she is a man's toy. I believe My pleasure comes when I submit to my man desires.
 ranhard4u
Joined: 3/31/2007
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Posted: 8/3/2012 10:07:49 PM
I don't know about other men. But yes this one dose. I like to talk dirty. Take charge. To tell the woman just what I want her to do. Or how to do something. To. Spank her or pull her hair. To know she wants to be told what to do. I enjoy being dom. In the bedrOom. As long as we both agree. Never want to forceful. Just enjoy the dom/sub. Part of sexual fun. So. If you can't. Find what your looking for. Feel free to message me and we ll see what were both looking for. .
 honeyinhuntingtown
Joined: 6/19/2012
Msg: 172
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Posted: 8/4/2012 3:58:01 AM
From my experience ... YES!!
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 8/5/2012 8:14:18 AM
funny thing he more sub a woman, the more she is in total control lol
ask any sub woman
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 8/5/2012 8:28:49 AM
I could not imagine always being totally submissive.
Every once in awhile is one thing....but there are too many times that I want to take the lead......then let him lead......then me lead.........
a nice balance always leads to a greater sexual experience for me....
 len129
Joined: 8/22/2006
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Posted: 8/25/2012 11:07:28 AM
Hmmm that submissive word has many meanings when it comes to the bedroom. If a women likes to be spanked is she submissive? Because I like to spank a women does that make me a dominate male? . I would prefer a submissive female but I can tell you from past relationships , the submissive is really the one in control . Keeping her happy is a lot of work sometimes lol. The real submissive calls you sir which would be something I would have to get use to. Actually in past times women were submissive and men were dominate most of the time and the divorce rate was much lower lol. But treating someone like a dish rag ain't my thing either . E
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