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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends? my girl get really pissed whenever i show my friends pix of my ex's especially the nude pix. she accuses me of still having feelings for my ex's which is not true. some people feel you should throw out the old ex pix if you're in a new relationship. i myself value the old pix because your relationship may not last. so why destroy your past? its your past. i kept every last pic i've ever taken of myself alone, me and other women or just the women alone including the nudes. what are your feelings on this issue. i personally wouldn't wanna see pix of her ex's, i told her to put them away because i don't wanna see them or see her showing others. and i do the same, i have all my pix put away out of respect. but i will always keep them. as we age, its nice to look back on how sexy we used to be ...lol
 packagedealx3
Joined: 2/4/2006
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/8/2008 1:53:27 PM
I don't get the nude pictures to begin with or why you would keep them. I ran into some when I was cleaning my x-husband's apartment before we moved in together. It was an unpleasant surprise and wtf would you be showing nude pics of a present or ex-girlfriend to your friends? Tasteful pictures with clothing, no problem. Nudes being shown to friends, disrespectful to the women, totally tacky.
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/8/2008 2:21:15 PM
I would not like it at all
 wjh55
Joined: 1/31/2007
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/8/2008 2:38:05 PM
Keep em locked away somewhere private. When you're 80 in the old folks home and tell people about all the fine women you had, you can pull out the pics and show them.Kind of rude to show them to the new girlfriend though.A steady girlfriend doesn't like the comparison to the previous ones.
 Kelley-88
Joined: 2/7/2008
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/9/2008 12:14:04 AM
ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?

It would not matter much if the nudes were artistic, in good taste, and not porno; that is, the kind of photos that are gross and obscene. For example, Playboy is mostly in good taste and we will not discuss some of the other photos that are below trash.

I am kind of down on guys that find porno attractive. Therefore, if they are porno photos, it is not the girls that I would object to; it would be the guy for having such gross taste. That is not my kind of guy. I realize the guy I marry will have had dates with other girls. However, I will know it is me he chose to marry ; not them. They don't concern me anymore than any of the other girls he might meet. And again, if the photos are not porno but similar to photos of girls in Playboy, who cares?
 sandra19
Joined: 9/30/2007
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/9/2008 10:59:31 AM
i would proly think that he is still attracted to her ...there fore prolly he still has feelings for her .
If your say u like to keep them so over the years u'll look back and remember ..well you Can keep them..but not the nude ones haha...if you really liked her at the moment u'll always have a pic of her in your mind ;) ....
my oppinion styll ..i keep pics of my ex ...but not the dutty ones ..haha that would be a lil weird
 blondago56
Joined: 8/21/2004
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/9/2008 1:57:58 PM
Not just the fact that you HAVE nude pics of an ex, but you SHOW THEM to your FRIENDS?!<img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0> You contradicted yourself in your statement: "i myself value the old pix because your relationship may not last. so why Destroy your past? its your past."( and then): "its nice to look back on how sexy we used to be..lol" You are not that old, why should you need to hold onto nude pic of your ex "to look back on", and esp. SHOW THEM TO YOUR FRIENDS and gloat about it? you sir, are Extremely Inconsiderate..(i was going to say you are a Pig, but that wouldnt be very nice...
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/9/2008 6:31:23 PM
you people just don't get it
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/9/2008 7:00:52 PM
let me explain something to you people, i'm talking about my wife, i showed her the pix way back in the 90's she especially didn't like the pix of the hot stripper i used to date, one of the girls she used to work with but her pix for some reason didn't bother her...lol i showed my wife the pix to show her i had nothing to hide. i showed a few friends the pix way back when, right now they're hidden away. I DO NOT SHOW THE PIX TO ANYBODY! do you people understand now? my wife and i been together 18 years, she trust me and i trust her. you people killing me with your stupid comments. you obviously have no idea what your talking about. anybody who destroy all their pix from the past are idiots in my opinion. look at all the hollywood stars with the hundreds of pix they have of themselves along with other ex's...you know they didn't destroy their past pix along with pix of their ex's. if they did, we wouldn't of had the opportunity to see how they looked as youngsters.
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/9/2008 11:14:53 PM
If you don't want to be attacked, communicate clearer. They are responding to you upsetting your girlfriend. You obviously know it is wrong to hurt her feelings by showing others the pictures, else you wouldn't be defensive about it and justify it.


i showed those pix to friends years ago, most guys do that. they show their friends all the past booty they had..no big deal. if you women don't like that, stop taking nude pix for guys. look at all those stupid miss america's who took nude pix for some guy, look what happened to them. in my case, i never tried to sell any of them to the media...lol give me some kind of credit here ladies
 MrSmileyHimself
Joined: 2/27/2008
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/9/2008 11:29:25 PM
I'm a photographer and my ex and I took some very tasteful and sexy artistic nudes. With her permission I even posted one of my favorites on my site. When the relationship ended, I removed it and locked it away somewhere that it would not be seen by anyone including me. It's not gone forever because I'm proud of it as work that I've done. One day, with her permission of course, I might break it out and use it again, but that is in a future I refuse to imagine right now.
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/10/2008 7:26:57 PM
I don't get the nude pictures to begin with or why you would keep them. I ran into some when I was cleaning my x-husband's apartment before we moved in together. It was an unpleasant surprise and wtf would you be showing nude pics of a present or ex-girlfriend to your friends? Tasteful pictures with clothing, no problem. Nudes being shown to friends, disrespectful to the women, totally tacky.
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/10/2008 7:29:02 PM
I don't get the nude pictures to begin with or why you would keep them. I ran into some when I was cleaning my x-husband's apartment before we moved in together. It was an unpleasant surprise and wtf would you be showing nude pics of a present or ex-girlfriend to your friends? Tasteful pictures with clothing, no problem. Nudes being shown to friends, disrespectful to the women, totally tacky.



i hide my old pix, nobody see them but me. i keep them because that was my past, and all you have are memories, and the pix validate what you been through. as long as nobody gets hurt in the process.
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/10/2008 7:54:22 PM
your current girlfriend is defnintely gona end up offended and if not shes obviously not interested. first off if i were her i would assume that you would prefer to have the ex back rather than have a relationship with me and i would leave you immediately. it is incredibly rude. if you prefer to keep them as a "man" thing, lock them the **** up and dont bring em out. its sickening to us women to know that our men are oggling other women theyve had as if they wished they still had their exes


amersith...you are trippin, i never said i had feelings for some chix from 20 years ago. i said i would never throw them out because those were back in my playa days and every now and then i check them out. my girl will never leave me, shes not worried about those pix. if you chix are that insecure about little pix, all of you need to seek help and build up your low self esteems.
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/10/2008 8:27:02 PM
so...you don't show it off any more right? k, well, why not? why have you stopped showing it off? there's gotta be a reason right...isn't that reason of yours enough? or, you just wanted girl's opinions? well there ya go...it's an upsetting action...




pnayplayr.........i have no reason to show the pix anymore, that was a long time ago, everybody keep talking like i'm continuing to do this now, well i don't. my girl and i look at them together every now and then. i seen hers too, it doesn't bother me. these are people back in new york, i live in cali now. my girl know i was a playa back then and know that i will never get rid of my pix...and she has complete trust me in me. i been with this girl for yearsssssss, not to much bother her, she know i'm always here.
 labyrinths end
Joined: 3/1/2008
Msg: 16
ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/11/2008 5:42:06 AM
if its just a pic and its just a body i dont care
if its phone calls and keeping touch
hes out

im not jealous of the sex hes had ...no no no
im jealous of the contact he has- the emotions he may be investing in with someone else
otherwise
sexy pics..bring them on! not that id ever let the other know. i dont allow sexy pics and its not because im not sexy lol
however if there are any floating around of me - what can i do ? unless theyre practising voodoo on them or have them up as a dartboard...well hell i cant do anything about that one either
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/11/2008 7:38:24 AM
Sorry to inform you of this but you are not a movie star you are not involved with any bunnies and when people are in that business this is something that they no they will have to face with the media... Not in your case lmfao!!!



katzsprr.........first of all, i appreciate your input. but you know nothing about me. i'm not some regular guy on the street. for your information i worked in entertainment for many years. i did some medeling and i did stand up comedy for a long time. i haven't done a show in about 5 years but i'm still active in the game. i have about 10 photo albums full of pix including pix i took with movie stars who came to my house. all the pix i have are not just nudes, its a variety of pix including my navy years etc. i pretty much captured my exciting life. i merely asked a question about womens feelings about guys with nude pix of ex lovers and thats it. i don't do anything to disrespect my wife, i told her exactly what i was about while dating her, even my family told her how bad i was, my own brother said to her "girl, you sure you wanna marry my brother?" lol i had nothing to hide, my wife accepted me for who i was. i'm the one with an 19 year relationship and you people trying to give me advice...lol no i think you need to take advice from me, and learn what it takes to sustain a long relationship.
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/11/2008 9:49:43 PM
yeah i keep my pix for memories. as we age, of course you're not going to look like you did in high school. i have a 20 year old pic in my profile, the one with me shooting the basketball at the fair (1988), you can see all the attention i generated, i stood out in a crowd, well actually i still stand out...lol the point is, its good to keep your memories regardless of what others think.
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Posted: 3/12/2008 12:11:29 AM
there is nothign wrong with having pictures.. however what's childish as F*ck is you showing them to your friends.. I mean come on man... we are not in highschool anymore...
and keep in mind that it makes you look like you disrespect her by showing those... (your ex) and shows your character..
just my 2cents..



i don't show anybody those pix anymore, how many times do i have to tell you that i haven't shown those pix to anybody in almost 20 years
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 3/12/2008 6:10:56 AM
But your profile says you are looking for a woman to have some kind of relationship with. So, with respect, i don't think i'd be taking any of your advice on how to have a relationship if you think that a relationship with your wife involves you looking for a relationship with another woman...


dare to........its called flirting, and yes you people do need to take advice from me. i'm sure everybody on here has some sort of lie in there profile. but its true, i haven't shown anybody those pix in yearssss, i'm to old for that now. back in the day it was more like bragging. this thread was very simple...WOULD YOU LADIES GET UPSET IF YOUR MAN HAD PIX OR NUDE PIX OF EX GIRLFRIENDS? just answer that simple question instead of grilling me , all this crap about me having feelings about some old ass chic from almost 20 years ago..give me a break, or disrespecting my girl, or continually to show people...all your accusations are false ok. it doesn't apply to me. my pix are kept in the closet inside my photo albums ok.
 singlesuperdad
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ladies, how would you feel if your man had nude pix of his ex girlfriends?
Posted: 9/7/2009 5:50:13 PM

i myself value the old pix because your relationship may not last


forget the pics, with this attitude your relationship isn't going to last anyway
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