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 catman40
Joined: 5/20/2007
Msg: 26
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I don't see what hisa problem is . at age 40 , he has to bare his ass for a prostrate exam .
 easyguy71
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 3/11/2008 8:59:53 AM
Catman, what is this "has to" get a prostate exam thing? Nobody HAS TO do that. It's a voluntary thing and there's a large difference between a medical proceedure and getting pleasure from an act in the same area.
Women are wise to see gynocologists now and then but I doubt I'd hear many volunteers to have a nicely refrigerated speculum pulled out for foreplay!
 catman40
Joined: 5/20/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 3/11/2008 9:09:37 AM
NOW easyguy tells me . they told me that ALL men must have a prostrate exam at age 40 . IF he lets the nurse tough him why not his GF . I would rather have MY GF touch me then the nurse .
 AManofAdventure
Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 3/11/2008 10:19:34 AM
How does he know what a woman feels like? I bet he looks in the mirror sometimes and thinks "I feel pretty". Stop touching his butt and buy him some rouge.

 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 30
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Posted: 3/11/2008 10:45:01 AM
Your BF should lighten up. When I am with a woman, just about everything is fair game, although discussion first is best. Some guys may be homophobic, but heck, if its done with a woman, then theres nothing to 'worry' about!
 MrSmileyHimself
Joined: 2/27/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2008 6:35:42 PM
Touch me anywhere. Different places do different things. All of them make me happy.
 BOIT
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 32
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Posted: 3/12/2008 8:31:18 AM
Hmmmmmm......I do not mind it one bit......actually, a butt massage is one of my favorite massages (after a foot massage)
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 3/13/2008 1:19:59 PM
i think its a form of flattery, whether its someone flirting or your s/o. really nice that she's intrigued with with your ass so much she cant keep her hands off of it. happans in the bars alot -i zoom in on the gal in the group who isn't laughing -her sheepish smile (she's trying to look inconspicous) -she did it!
 duckling
Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 3/13/2008 1:49:59 PM
I guess it depends on what you're touching it with.
 duckling
Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 3/17/2008 10:16:43 AM
Hey, Easyguy and Catman. I admit that a prostrate exam is probably a good (yet somewhat unnerving) idea. Does anybody know of a doctor with really, really skinny fingers?
 itsmeinco
Joined: 5/18/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 3/18/2008 8:24:32 PM
I'll touch yours if you'll touch mine!

What is so complicated about this?

 Giantrican
Joined: 1/15/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 3/18/2008 9:10:41 PM
Shit if you want to toss my salad go ahead lick it suck it! If it feels good and you like the woman you are with let her explore it, that Anus in full area. But hey somethings like she wants to put strap on and do you from behind tell let me first then we can do it, if you have been doing her up ass for a while well say you arent into and leave it at that.
 duckling
Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 3/19/2008 7:27:48 AM
I think my spelling was correct, Live2ridenh. In order for that to happen, they'll have to gas me, knock me out or render me unconcious in some other way. I'm anal about anal! For clarity's sake, I should have problaly said "my prostrate prostate exam". My apologies!

"Rectum? Damn near killed 'im!"
 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 3/19/2008 8:24:36 AM
Nerve endings are nerve endings no matter where they are. If it feeels good and she's willing then that's a plus. If it doesn't feel good and she's trying, work it out or realize you're incompatible and move on. If it feels good and he's trying - ditto.

A lot of guys criticize women for having these mental hangups which won't allow them to enjoy stuff HE wants to do to HER. This butt stuff is the perfect example of reversing (ha-pun intended) that argument.

A piece of advice for those suffering a bit of sexual identity confusion.... If you think something is a bad thing based on the fact that some perverts are known to partake of that activity then you're missing out on a lot of fun for no good reason. Don't forget it's ONLY perverts who give kinky sex a bad name.

One rule for those who associate an activity with "gay" sex and they're scared that activity will "turn them" please don't forget this: If you are turned on by the FEMALE form and are in bed with a person who does NOT have a peni$ then you are not gay and NOTHING she can do to you whilst stimulating various nerve bundles on/in your bod will turn you gay. OK?

ANything else means you're either gay already or Bi.
 Farve2009
Joined: 3/10/2008
Msg: 40
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Posted: 3/19/2008 6:16:06 PM
I have no problem with the touching as long as a finger doesnt slip in there. then ill flip out.
 fixitfred
Joined: 11/10/2007
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Posted: 3/19/2008 6:21:12 PM
This is about touching a man's butt not butthole. Off topic but that's all I seem to be doing these days. Any man pushing 50 needs to have 2 things shoved up his @ss or possibly die needlessly.

1. A trained finger to check for prostate cancer or prostrate cancer and/or a psa test.

2. A scope to check for colon cancer. (women too)

Knowing this I will still probably die of embaresment not getting these test done. This has been a public service announcment.
 BuzWeaver
Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 42
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Posted: 3/19/2008 6:35:36 PM
My BF says he doesnt like it when I touch his butt too much , he says It makes his feel like a woman... I dont know maybe I suck at it lol ,what do you people think about this??? Is it normal or what??????


He feels like a woman, as apposed to him feeling like an athlete? Just because its stereo typical that guys slap/touch womens butts is hardly a reason to feel as though you are a victim of such behavior.
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
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Posted: 3/19/2008 8:03:23 PM
This is confusing. I'm not sure what his connection between touching a butt and feeling like a woman means. If you slap it does he blush, cover his mouth and giggle like a school girl or something?
 Wound_Up
Joined: 3/14/2008
Msg: 44
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Posted: 3/20/2008 1:18:18 AM
Your boyfriend is insecure about his butt. If it was me I'd stick the thing out and do a booty roll. SHABANG!
 fixitfred
Joined: 11/10/2007
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Posted: 3/20/2008 1:21:25 AM
Most women do that as a playful thing or as a demeaning act to a man. If you want to go ahead but you better mean business like I do when I touch a female tucas.
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
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Posted: 4/11/2008 11:38:37 PM
The majority of guys don't really have an ass! When I find a man with a nice ass it drives me crazy! I man with an ass is like wow!! How could u suck at touching a butt it is not that hard. Guys I know like their non existent butt touched!
 flyingiguana
Joined: 3/4/2008
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Posted: 4/12/2008 3:07:57 AM

Would you ladies wanna touch a man's butt if it was hairy, like more than a little fuzz?


maybe you can ask the ladies to braid it...
 Nancy54534
Joined: 1/30/2008
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Posted: 4/12/2008 10:01:01 AM
Guess matter of personal preference but love to touch don't tell me not to
then it is what the heck is your hangup question time
 littleaudrey
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 49
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Posted: 4/12/2008 10:59:37 AM
I love playing with my boyfriend's butt. His rule is no fingers inside, but tongues welcome. I just find butts hot! And he gets to play with mine, so it should be even steven LOL.
 Just_Serendipity
Joined: 4/7/2008
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Posted: 4/12/2008 8:17:37 PM
My man loves his butt touched, massaged, squeezed
Sounds as though something put him off this earlier in life
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