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 simpleman20188
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 29
Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?Page 5 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
Some times it is great fast and furious.

Some times it is great slow and sensual.

Personaly I think forplay is for all the time from the moment you wake up till you go to sleep and some times in the middle of the night when one or the other is asleep.

There is nothing more exciting than a constant slow burn of touch, look, inuendo and tease that lead up to the raging fire of all out primal passion.

Cr@p got myelf all horny now.
 TripleBisMeBobb
Joined: 2/28/2007
Msg: 31
Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?
Posted: 5/2/2008 2:59:31 PM
Calling ALL Girls,

Listen......a Man that passes on Foreply, is missing the whole point. Foreplay is the BEST part!!!! I'm a believer that, FOREPLAY should strat from the moment you wake up and go till you go to bed. Think sexy and you will be. The mind is a Sensual Tool. It's really NOT what is between your legs, as what is between your ears!!!! Foreplay is WONDERFUL!!!!!

Bobb(Y)
 doink 1962
Joined: 1/5/2008
Msg: 33
Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?
Posted: 8/1/2008 5:52:08 AM
I personally love foreplay and take my time in this area. There is nothing better than getting her and I all worked up and having her quiver and quake with just a touch or kiss or tongue! Question to why this post was put on as " I was asked to post this"? by whom and why?LOL
 flyingiguana
Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 38
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Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?
Posted: 8/1/2008 12:11:22 PM

I was asked to post this question from someone who says that women are the ones that want foreplay and men go along with it just to pacify the women, but they would rather go straight for home plate. He says all his friends feel the same way. They get so tired of getting turned on and then it goes down and up and down before the women is ready. By that time they are annoyed and just want to get it over with quick. Is this really true? Are women making men do things they really hate doing, like the kissing, touching, etc?


me thinks they just need some viagra
 Gangster Kitten
Joined: 4/3/2008
Msg: 39
Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?
Posted: 8/1/2008 12:54:11 PM
I'm not familiar with this "foreplay" proposition. I demand one of the females on PoF give me a personal and very in-depth re-inactment and demonstration. Only then will I be able to constructively post in this thread.


*waits*
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 40
Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?
Posted: 8/1/2008 1:17:14 PM
OP,

Home plate for me is my SO climbing the wall in pleasure. I don't find what it takes to get her there to be a chore.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 8/1/2008 3:58:51 PM

I find that if I spend time on foreplay, they have more chance of getting away
I'm usually not a basher; but if your foreplay technique was any good, you couldn't peel them out of your bed. I love foreplay. I love literally spending hours, when I have them, taking her to where she needs to be.

The guys who "just want to get to home plate" are either extremely selfish b^stards; are only having sex with people they don't care about; or are simply participating in vaginal masturbation, i.e. it doesn't matter who the vagina is attaced to. The only time I don't want foreplay is with a lover I'm very aquainted with, in those instances when you just have to bend her over, and go primal on her a$$, LOL.
 GbBengi
Joined: 11/23/2007
Msg: 42
Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?
Posted: 8/1/2008 7:04:01 PM
There is no honest answer, because every situation is different.

There are times (so I have heard) when a potential partner has absolutely zero skills in the sex dept, but are phenomenal at foreplay, manual and oral lovin. Those are the ones you try to NOT have sex with haha.

Then you get the ones who have no control over their teeth or nails, or knees or elbows, and rather look like you got hit by a bus the next day, you pin them down and take control!

That was meant as humorous, though im sure has a ring of truth. I dont believe that men are less into foreplay, or passion, romance or any of that. I just think that women are more closeted about their needs.
 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 8/1/2008 9:29:24 PM
For a couple of reasons, I can't always get to 'home plate'; so, I, like many women, learned to really, really enjoy trip, not just getting to the destination. Kissing, cuddling, and lots of foreplay really can be an end in itself. To the unasked question, yes, I'd love to be able to come every time, but unfortunately that isn't in the cards for me.
 silibus
Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 45
Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?
Posted: 8/2/2008 12:05:02 AM
I just gave a bunch on a thread titled, the way to a mans g-spot is through his prostate.

A long proccession of flirting, hinting and foreplat without release is the way to as man's extended orgasm. It sucs that few care to go this route. Instead most want instant gratification that in my opinion is no big thing. Now when a man can not stop coming? THAT is a bench mark. Oh and lots of 'necking' and touching. Even a seemingly brush of the hand in any area is so so hot done right. Men are generally hooked on the end result and few care about the voyage of getting there. Skin is the largest organ of the body. There is nothing more sensual and satisfying than the touch of warm soft skin on shin. the body begs for this.
 silibus
Joined: 4/8/2008
Msg: 46
Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?
Posted: 8/2/2008 12:07:23 AM
Of notable reading on the topic is: Teresa Crenshaw's 'The Alchemy of Love and Lust'
Out of print so you have to buy used online or rearch you library.
 ohio07
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 49
Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?
Posted: 2/7/2009 7:49:04 AM
Foreplay, please, please, PLEASE! Turn on my mind, tease me, make me beg for it, and I will be "motivated" to give you everything I've got till we're both spent. I never have been able to just go from 0-60 in 5 seconds. And if I did, I wouldn't last long enough for a good "quality" sexual experience. For me foreplay is a must.

Unless you have steadily teased and hinted throughout and my my mind is already working on what we are gonna do to each other later... Then the process is underway.

But sex at the drop of a hat, without ANY previous mental or physcial stimulation, is not gonna be me at my best game.

Foreplay first for me, definitely.
 god_of_rock
Joined: 1/17/2009
Msg: 51
Do we need a new word for 'sex play' together? instead of dividing into the 'warmup' &
Posted: 2/7/2009 10:36:12 AM
"play" is all part of a good sex life

maybe the PROBLEM is the word itself?

"foreplay" tends to imply in itself that it is just a prelude to the 'important' stuff - in this case intercourse?

why does it have to be this way? I've had sex before..manual & oral pleasing of her, and her of me , with out it 'always' ending up with penetration..although I do love that too

maybe we need a new word? consider everything you do together as 'play' ?

not separated into 'foreplay' and 'the main act' ?

anyway it is good to warm up, have fun, make sure you and her are both very excited..teasing is fun..and she is completely wet..

I can't understand guys jumping straight to intercourse, I don't think that without a fully lubricated pvssy it could be much fun for either party?

Vvvvvvv

thanks, probably makes too much sense to be adopted by many people though? ;)

Vvvv
 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 52
Do we need a new word for 'sex play' together? instead of dividing into the 'warmup' & Main Act ?
Posted: 2/7/2009 10:39:13 AM
^^^^^^^^
exactly...sounds like common sense to me what you wrote

 _jay_see_
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 59
Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?
Posted: 2/7/2009 10:17:34 PM
Personally I love *lots* of foreplay (but don't always get it, because some hookers like to move things along quickly).

Maybe it's just me, but I find if I get off too quickly, I feel kind of tired and wasted after sex, whereas if I draw things out for a long time, like an hour or more, the feeling at the end is one of invigoration. I'm sure women have a similar experience.
 Heitaliano
Joined: 6/23/2008
Msg: 63
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Posted: 2/8/2009 5:23:43 PM
Well Lively you asked a question that I feel " some" of us men get sold short on.
Meaning that if the analogy of baseball that I used in grade school was "my" thinking on the subject. You would be "right on" in what you might be wondering.
I personally think its because not enough couples work on the pleasure of loading bases so to speak. And especially men who play on the moans.
So wrong because men and womens arousal rates are usually different too.
I was "taught" what a woman really wants from a man sexually when I was in my twenties by women in there early and late thirties.
I found the build such a turn on for me and for them, I never looked back.
I dont see what the rush is usually, I dont have a hot date to go to.
I also found that when they really want it now, they tell ya.
Aloha
 kevindusty
Joined: 11/5/2008
Msg: 64
Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate?
Posted: 2/8/2009 8:31:42 PM
I have this friend and he reacons, satisfy your girl first with fore play then head fur home.
 anazdaddy
Joined: 1/6/2009
Msg: 67
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Posted: 2/9/2009 7:09:22 AM
Why are they mutually exclusive? Sometimes just foreplay without intercourse is awesome! Sometimes when in the mood a quicky with little foreplay is what is needed. Generally, a lot of foreplay followed by "home plate" is what happens. Shhh..little secret..I also have known women who don't care much for foreplay and want a quick home run!
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
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Posted: 6/11/2009 6:59:40 AM
I'm a guy who enjoys a lot of foreplay,but my girlfriend doesn't need it. She's multi-orgasmic so she usually likes to go straight to intercourse. She usually does go down on me first because she enjoys doing it,then she climbs on top for a while. Really,who am I to complain,lol?
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