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 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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If men use common sense, they'd have less to complain about. Same goes for women. Who are these meal hungry women anyway? Do they find them in homeless camps? They could probably use a meal. I'd give my doggie bag to homeless people if I ran into any after leaving a restaurant. It's always been to a man. I give them food without requiring sex from them like some men require from women. What a concept, generosity. No strings attached.
 BLONDE_ANGEL_1
Joined: 4/27/2018
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Posted: 7/21/2018 9:24:01 PM

What a concept, generosity. No strings attached.


That is bec. you are not one of the WALKING WANTING HEAD!
 LBJfan600
Joined: 8/22/2018
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On dating a cheapskate.
Posted: 8/26/2018 8:35:43 PM
nothing wrong with being cheap considering many women having the expectation to be paid for, that can add up over time. there are a few who will pay for themselves but there are none who would ever offer to pay for the man
On dating a cheapskate.
Posted: 8/27/2018 7:48:29 AM
Please forgive me for saying this, it seems that you have some self-esteem issues if you feel that you need to buy friends or a love interest.

Yes, you can praise and adore someone without buying their affection. If you can't maintain it over a 10 or 20 year period then don't start doing it because it is entrapment.
There are lots of women on this site that will take advantage of you then throw you away once your money is gone. I've had several ladies come out and tell me, Leo, if you want to date me you'll have to fly me to Europe or Paris, that's the only way you will get my attention.

You deserve better. You need a better plan to be deliriously happy
 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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On dating a cheapskate.
Posted: 8/27/2018 8:31:50 AM
^^^^oh, come on now, with saying women ask to be flown to Europe in order to date you, unless it means you are so horrific, that's the only way they'll do it.
 julystorm22
Joined: 6/15/2018
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On dating a cheapskate.
Posted: 8/27/2018 9:00:11 AM
Maybe you are just asking the wrong women out.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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On dating a cheapskate.
Posted: 8/27/2018 9:18:01 AM

I've had several ladies come out and tell me, Leo, if you want to date me you'll have to fly me to Europe or Paris, that's the only way you will get my attention.


I'd tell them to fück off. Why take sand to the beach?
 Coma_White
Joined: 9/15/2013
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On dating a cheapskate.
Posted: 8/27/2018 11:31:34 AM

There are lots of women on this site that will take advantage of you then throw you away once your money is gone. I've had several ladies come out and tell me, Leo, if you want to date me you'll have to fly me to Europe or Paris, that's the only way you will get my attention.


Oh my God. Just block and delete idiots like that. I've had women from other countries pay their own way to visit me and date. I would of course pay my own way if it was my turn to visit them, but there's no way I'm going to be some chump that opens his wallet to get a woman's attention. I don't want attention from those losers. Anyone that uses people for money, sex, transportation, etc is a terrible person. If you want a one night stand, be honest about it so both people are on the same page. If you want to see the world, plan a trip together, pay your own way, but only go with someone if you're sincere about getting to know them as a person.
 __TEXASCHICK__
Joined: 11/9/2011
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Posted: 10/29/2018 5:43:44 PM
^^ NY, he did lot more than just touch her but. That was her "privates".
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 11/1/2018 2:22:08 PM

Who are these meal hungry women anyway? Do they find them in homeless camps?

You can, but you can also find this degree of food-hungry folks on good 'ol POF, and any other dating site. :)

Leo, if you want to date me you'll have to fly me to Europe or Paris, that's the only way you will get my attention.

That's truly buy-your-way-into-dating, which is quite uncommon for it to be outright like that. Sometimes it can be on a lower-scale, like taking a gal out to fancy places, paying for her slop & tickets to shows. That's when they lack interest but wouldn't mind going out -- and they guy's trying to win them over.

More commonly he's not paying for her interest, he's paying to Keep or to add weight to her interest, by paying for the food she chokes down, the tickets to the movies/comedy-shows/concerts he gets for her, etc.

Paying to Keep/Sustain her interest is the reason why this Game continues. It started because women historically really had no money anyway, so he had to. We keep it going out of "tradition" and cultural habit. Since it is such a habit, many of us, including myself, don't really see it for what it Actually is -- yes, you're paying to keep/sustain/elevate her interest. Granted, it's no trips to Europe, but that sh!t adds up pretty quick, that's taken for granted by women in general, and by some men to some degree.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
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Posted: 11/10/2018 9:15:46 AM
NG, you’re leaving out one very important thing.

There is a reason that prostitution is the oldest profession. And that is because men have a higher sex drive than women, they are the ones driven by their hormones to pursue the opposite sex. As long as this is true (and I don’t see it changing anytime soon), then men will be the ones doing the pursuing and the paying for dates. Because dating is about sex, and anyone who claims differently is either grossly mistaken or lying to themselves and to you.

Before anyone breaks out the flamethrowers, yes, I am aware that there are exceptions to the above. But I’m not talking about the rare exception, I’m talking about the great majority of people in this world.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 11/10/2018 9:52:59 AM

Because dating is about sex, and anyone who claims differently is either grossly mistaken or lying to themselves and to you.


As they say on Leykis 101...

Dating equals porking...
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 11/10/2018 12:05:45 PM

There is a reason that prostitution is the oldest profession. And that is because men have a higher sex drive than women, they are the ones driven by their hormones to pursue the opposite sex.

I disagree, in a way. I don't think it's due to hormone construct at all -- I think it's due to the way society's constructed. Maybe females' emotional construct helps put them in that direction... to be provided for, to provide for kids, to look out for danger with the opp-sex, etc. The more open/modern/progressive a society is, the more open a gal is to getting in the sheets. Becomes less a "bad thing" to hook up... or to sleep around, etc. I think it's pretty much how we're shaped by society that women won't get a male escort/prostitute.

Men don't need high testosterone at all to get an escort/prostitute once that "social barrier" in their minds is eliminated. Many older men do so, who have lower T than younger guys -- and have lower hormones than a 30 year old gal. Social consequences the way society's shaped is what will keep (most) men from prostitutes, and keep (virtually all) women from it. Women have also not been able to afford said things (working for themselves independently is a Very new thing) -- and societies have set it where men have more freedom & women don't. Blah blah blah, I could go on. :)

Bottom line: I agree with many findings out there that women have just as much a sex drive as men. And when I suddenly had gals attracted to me when they never did, back when I was hitting 20 years old -- holy hell, a totally different world than the "Mars Venus" BS. :)
 I_Am_Con_S_Tip_ated
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Posted: 11/11/2018 2:39:40 AM
Too many women want Ken when they are not Barbie and vice versa....

What about GI JOE AND CHATTY CATHY?

MRS BEASLY? EWWWWW!
 Clytemnestra
Joined: 6/6/2018
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Posted: 11/11/2018 5:58:16 AM
msg#414:
Too many women want Ken when they are not Barbie and vice versa....


You're so funny. Have you ever actually SEEEN a 'Ken Doll'?
Not much there that a woman would want~

hahahaha
 Ladyinred0407
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Posted: 11/11/2018 6:46:04 AM
LOL, My daughter has 2 Ken dolls from her childhood. She allows her nieces, ages, 3-6 to play with her old Barbie and Ken dolls. The Ken dolls ……………...keep falling apart. She has glued the heads on, and the legs, and dressed them. She told the girls, "Do not take Ken's clothes off! …………...LOL

I just looked up, new Ken dolls. I'm in love with "Denim" guy. He has a man bun!
 julystorm22
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Posted: 11/11/2018 12:45:04 PM
I couldn't stand Barbies and Ken Dolls growing up. Occasionally I'd get one as a gift and I never played with them. I actually won't let my daughters play with them because I think Barbie is ridiculously proportioned and I don't want my girls to consider things like fashion and accessories important.
 2ufo
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On dating a cheapskate.
Posted: 11/11/2018 1:40:44 PM

What about GI JOE AND CHATTY CATHY?


I forget how many times I partnered my Barbies off to my brother's GIJoes.
Course he got back by taking my Barbies on 'special ops' with his GIJoes…
I'd get them back all muddy painted in camouflage green and shadow.
 ohenryx
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Posted: 11/11/2018 8:07:55 PM

norwegianguy456
I disagree, in a way. I don't think it's due to hormone construct at all

Bottom line: I agree with many findings out there that women have just as much a sex drive as men.

We’re going to have to agree to disagree on this one. We could argue “nature vs nurture” all day, but in the end, men pursue women for purposes of sex, not the other way around.

Yes, yes, I know, there are exceptions. But they are exceptions, not the rule.
 norwegianguy456
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On dating a cheapskate.
Posted: 11/11/2018 8:36:56 PM

You're so funny. Have you ever actually SEEEN a 'Ken Doll'?
Not much there that a woman would want~

Yeah, he doesn't have much of a package. Turns women off! But, nothing that a little super glue and chopping off one of the fingers from another doll won't fix.

We could argue “nature vs nurture” all day, but in the end, men pursue women for purposes of sex, not the other way around.

I agree. But my point is -- men pursuing women far more and as "the expected standard" everyone recognizes, has nothing to do with level of sex drive. That's comparing apples & oranges. You can say men are constructed (with genetic wind at their back) to put their foot forward to take risks, being more emotionally 'hardened' to failures, etc. That's what that's about.

When I compare certain big-city spots where women will strike up conversation with men somewhat commonly VS other places in small suburbanish towns where a gal ain't going to do that -- no, I don't make the false assumption that one area has a greater sex drive than the other area (something in the water?).
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