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 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 17
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Why do I keep having to beg her for my company!?Page 2 of 3    (1, 2, 3)
Im thinking either this girl doesn't like you and is just playing with you, or she does really like you but is just really smart. I mean she could just be taking the advice of many books like some of the previous posters mentioned. They often advise girls to stay busy and not take every date invited on. If thats what shes doing it seems like it is working to a degee. I mean you do seem to be mooning over her.
 Black velvet 46
Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 20
Why do I keep having to beg her for my company!?
Posted: 4/3/2008 4:50:47 PM
"If it were up to her, she wouldn't see me for 2-3 weeks at a time"

A woman that stays away for weeks at a time. Don't have much to say on the phone, pretty much gives you as much space as you need.

Where is the downside to this relationship?. I keep reading but i can't find what the Op needs to be complaining about.
 aprincelyfrog
Joined: 7/25/2006
Msg: 22
Why do I keep having to beg her for my company!?
Posted: 4/3/2008 5:34:03 PM
She says she loves me. She says she cares about me, but nine times out of ten I have to plead her to spend time with me, because she likes having her space.

Because YOU are an idiot! Why would she want to spend time with an idiot?

You are an idiot because you NEVER beg to spend time with anyone. If she doesn't like you enough to want to spend time with you or she doesn't respect your wants, needs desires enough to try to meet them without your having to beg THEN she really just doesn't give a sh*it about you regardless of what she says.

Since she really doesn't give a sh*it about you and you are begging her to spend time with you that makes YOU an idiot...

Which brings me back to my original question: Why would she want to spend time with an idiot?


whats her idea of love?

She LOVES cake... that's why she wants to have HER cake AND eat it too! LOL

Where is El Kabong when you need him?
 woobytoodsday
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 23
Why do I keep having to beg her for my company!?
Posted: 4/3/2008 5:38:13 PM
At any point in any relationship where someone is having to *beg* for anything, it's time to go. Period.


 JimmyD1963
Joined: 2/17/2008
Msg: 27
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Why do I keep having to beg her for my company!?
Posted: 4/3/2008 5:46:00 PM
LOL Run man run! She is just keeping you around for that night out that she doesn't have someone else buying her dinner!
 Obsidius
Joined: 9/11/2006
Msg: 37
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Why do I keep having to beg her for my company!?
Posted: 4/4/2008 10:20:24 AM
man you are wasting your time on this bottom feeder. Go out and meet someone else, if a woman wants to be with you, she'll be around you.

and yet you literally "beg" her for company...Is she that good looking? No woman is worth begging to make a date. Are you into that whole S/M thing because you sound like a submissive...grow some balls son
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 38
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Why do I keep having to beg her for my company!?
Posted: 4/4/2008 10:46:50 AM
If she really loved you she would want to be with you all the time.
 ShadowLands
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 39
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Why do I keep having to beg her for my company!?
Posted: 4/4/2008 11:57:38 AM

She says she loves me. She says she cares about me


Only when she wants something from you.
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