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 ~Scoundrel~
Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 120
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?Page 5 of 24    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24)
^^^^ Disrespected? I man asks you if you have a healthy sex life and you think it's disrespectful? Sex is the only reason men and women have to come together. I'm am assuming you don't have issues with co-dependamce.

Do you need a man to pay your bills? Or, to fix things around the house? Maybe you feel you need him around for protection? To keep the boogie man away?

I know, it's all about that "connection with another person." Right? Well, why do you think that connection happens? So, men and women will get together and have sex!

Sex is a biological need like eating or going to the bathroom for men. When a man doesn't ejaculate for a while his body will take over and do it for him while he sleeps.

Yes, we want sex. It is what we were born to do. Asking a woman for it is not disrespectful. It is the highest complement he can offer her.
 oldsoul
Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 121
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/2/2008 3:43:05 PM

Sex is a biological need like eating or going to the bathroom for men.


Yes, we want sex. It is what we were born to do . Asking a woman for it is not disrespectful. It is the highest complement he can offer her.




Haha.

Anyway...as far as "older" men thinking they are teenagers...I say *whatever*. In my opinion, everyone, including older men and older women (like me) is entitled to think whatever they want.

So when any man, young or old or anywhere in between, exercise his right to offer me the highest compliment a man can give a woman, I am also free to exercise my right to accept or reject his...erm...compliment.

And the best thing is that I'm also free to think whatever *I* want about the man offering me such a compliment. Of course it's all good thoughts...I mean c'mon now... "do you do anal?" or "how big are your tits"...or "wanna fvck?" on the first email???? I feel privileged to be the recipient of such a compliment...and....well...I feel honoured to be perfectly honest. Ah yeah...life is good.



JMHO
 deere rancher
Joined: 7/9/2008
Msg: 122
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/2/2008 4:07:11 PM
THERE IS NO GUARANTEE THAT YOU WILL FALL IN LOVE AGAIN
AND GREAT SEX IS ABOUT AS CLOSE TO THE FEELINGS THAT I HAD WHEN I WAS IN LOVE as i have been able to come
i think alot of men are willing to trade great sex for love since love is so hard to find
they settle for a relationhship where the sex is good
 Mr Happy Pants
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 123
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/2/2008 5:19:07 PM

THERE IS NO GUARANTEE THAT YOU WILL FALL IN LOVE AGAIN AND GREAT SEX IS ABOUT AS CLOSE TO THE FEELINGS THAT I HAD WHEN I WAS IN LOVE as i have been able to come


Apparently you've never had really good bbq.

As to the point of this thread? Some men are like that, some aren't. Just keep pluggin along until you meet a like-minded man.
 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 124
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/2/2008 10:30:29 PM

Apparently you've never had really good bbq.


Oh wow I guess that is further proof the way to a man's heart is thru his stomach...dang that soooooooo leaves me out!!!!!!!!!
 ~Scoundrel~
Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 125
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/2/2008 10:45:28 PM
If I ask a woman about sex it's because I LIKE SEX!!! And I'm looking for a woman that likes it to. Yes, there are women out there that don't like sex. In fact, this thread seems to be filled with them.
 Mizz Demeanor
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 126
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/2/2008 10:56:56 PM

Just keep pluggin along until you meet a like-minded man.


amen to that !
Don't stress about the ones that don't fit your own personal parameters...it only takes 1 that does fit to make the search worthwhile.

It's much easier and, if you don't take e-dating too seriously.
It's not the questions that are so annoying...but the delivery ....oy !


~mizz
 Twisted Sister
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 128
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/3/2008 5:25:45 AM
In the past few years, I am finding that the tide is turning somewhat with respect to asking about sex. With so many men suffering from varying degrees of ED, it's gotten to the point where many women are wondering if they should be initiating the subject of sex and quizzing him about whether he still can or if he has difficulties. After all, we sexually interested ladies don't want to end up with someone who can't walk the walk.

I think the OP is giving teenagers a bad rap. They are much more polite than some older men and, these days, many teenage guys seem to have a lot more self confidence than many older men. My 16 yr old grandson would NEVER consider asking a girl sexual questions - because he'd probably get his face slapped.

So, men, if you think that broaching the subject of sex to women is a delicate situation, how to you think you'd react if a woman started asking you very pointed questions about your prowess in the bedroom? I've seen grown men blanch when put in that kind of situation, even when the woman is being tactful. I've heard the word "biatch" applied to women who would DARE do such a thing.

I agree that BOTH parties should be aware of any incompatibilities, but finding out about those is all in the APPROACH. People who are tactful don't get slapped up the side of the head (verbally or physically) for asking tactful questions. If one comes on like a goon, one is going to be rebuffed - it's that simple. If one can manage to ask some intelligent questions instead of the "do ya give head, baby", then one might be surprised at how amenable people are in their replies. Crudity, rudeness and aggressive/defensive behaviour is NEVER acceptable and, in fact, is a total turn off and affects one much like a slap in the face.

I'm perfectly willing to answer questions if they asked with some degree of intelligence and don't come across as being asked just for titillation purposes. Boorish questions are not conducive to eliciting positive replies from most people. Besides, if I'm interested in YOU, you will have no doubt in your mind as to whether I'm sexual or not (and I think most women fall into this category).
 pofer61
Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 129
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:08:18 AM
I have to agree with you April1952. I find it's a real turn-off when the first time you chat with someone it's all about sex. There must be a lot of guys out there not getting any. They're history with me if it comes up, makes you wonder what they are really after.
 blueberry_kisses
Joined: 9/21/2007
Msg: 130
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/3/2008 1:58:30 PM
Did you not know April they want to talk about sex because most of them have no idea what it really is or how to do it they are looking for us older woman trying to get us to teach then something they should have learned years before l and they need to experience it before they die ........ Why do they give old men in nursing homes Viagra?..................S o the poor old dears will not fall aout of bed
 Twisted Sister
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 131
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/3/2008 2:09:38 PM
^^^^^ Now there's a thought. The ones who keep whining they've had sexless marriages for years and years could have no idea how it's done anymore. Or maybe they had sexless marriages because the women got tired of Mr. One-Shot-And-I'm-Good-For-The-Whole Day.
 blondago56
Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 132
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Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/3/2008 2:52:12 PM
i read through most of the posts here, since this thread was started by th OP in april...and i have to say , 'Of Course, Men are going to (eventually) bring up 'the sex topic'.... its in their nature & requirements...some just do it in a more diplomatic way than others... i want to have a companion for Life, in due time, However, i wouldn't want to waste time with endless emails, texts, messages, expensive dates, more messages,emails, etc... with someone i wouldn't be compatable with... in ALL aspects...
 rogerrabbitrr
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 133
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/3/2008 6:52:34 PM
OP
Where have you been for the past 40 years, in a cloistered convent?
Take a look at a calendar it's the year 2008 might give you a clue as to why aren't men behaving like it was 1958.
 vrb1955
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 134
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 7:01:58 AM
To quote a great line from a great movie

" People in hell want ice water .. That doesn't mean they are going get it "
 colormeblue
Joined: 7/26/2008
Msg: 135
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 7:59:12 AM
i am a older man and i can't even answer that question..but believe me, all older guys are not like that. but i do know what you mean. i know some guys my age that can't talk about anything for 2 minutes without bringing sex into it...maybe they are just trying to convince themselves that they are still a stud ,,LOL....i don't know..
i never thought i was a stud to begin with so i don't have any reason to try to be one now...LOL.. don't get me wrong, i'm not dead yet. so i still enjoy sex . but to have a woman that i can talk to about anything ,go places with, and be my best friend is everything...after that, sex is just icing on the cake...
 Kra961
Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 136
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 8:07:29 AM

the men always throw in the sex topic, which makes me think they are only looking for SEX
Absolutes for the win!! got to love those really large brush's
 NoseyNeighbor
Joined: 2/19/2008
Msg: 137
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 8:11:39 AM
...Because your a smoker. And smokers are more promiscuous?
 AlligatorAlley
Joined: 8/1/2008
Msg: 139
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 12:57:06 PM
And let's not forget that even guys over 50 are still fertile, hence the sex drive (the instinctual drive to increase the human species) is still active.

Also, the business of the sexless marriage is indeed important regarding the sex drive of men. Imagine, the wife (for whatever reason) refuses to be physically intimate with her husband, often for years. Divorce ensues. The newly single fellow is anxious to avoid that situation again so he makes sure that the women he dates are as enthusiastic about sex as he still is.

Better to find out sooner than waste time and effort in an elaborate courting ritual. No one here is getting any younger, after all.
 NoseyNeighbor
Joined: 2/19/2008
Msg: 140
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 5:01:22 PM

so he makes sure that the women he dates are as enthusiastic about sex as he still is.



That will get you ten years in the proverbial dating site slammer.
 GEOSCH
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 141
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 5:16:50 PM
I am going to take a shot at it. It might be because they did not have a normal sex life. Once a month is not normal. So yes I am looking for a women who likes sex as much as possible. And anywhere possible. But I am respectfull and dont bring it up till she does.
 chelsea_hou
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 142
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 5:54:36 PM
"Once a month is not normal."

It is for a married couple....

Just kidding.
 Suzette351
Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 143
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 6:01:29 PM
Oh thanks for that laugh!
 Suzette351
Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 144
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 6:04:02 PM
FYI
My reply was in response to the date site slammer comment
 GEOSCH
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 145
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 6:11:23 PM
Tell me about it. I almost forgot how to have sex.
 chelsea_hou
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 146
Why do older Men think like they are teenagers. Wanting to know about Sex first?
Posted: 8/15/2008 6:34:46 PM
^^^It's like riding a bike you never forget!!! You just get out of practice.
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