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 NewYorker58
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Pig, if he doesn't care, he's weird, lol. Sounds like she's on her way to finding a sexual replacement then. Still, I don't think she should have made that public announcement. Have some decorum.

Sun, thanks, that would be it. It is written by a doctor, and seems to ring true based on other info out there.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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Posted: 10/11/2017 6:52:55 PM
She rarely drinks, and had one episode where she let her emotions out of the bottle.

She looks like Jami Gertz and has guys half her age wanting a piece of her. My cousin doesn't want her, obviously, but I'm sure his big fat ego would still be crushed if she cheated.

I really can't stand the "I don't want you, but no one else is going to have you" types.
 Strawberry_Jello
Joined: 5/13/2014
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Posted: 10/11/2017 8:42:24 PM
I'm 71 now. was doing OLD 2013 - 2015. I've encountered the lessening ability to perform, but no lessening of desire. They all still want to do it, and they try. And bless their hearts, most of them go ahead and take care of me despite their own problems.
My 2 year anniversary of my relationship is coming up at the end of this month! Can hardy believe it. :D
My advice is to keep an open mind, and keep trying.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 10/12/2017 1:34:19 AM

Pig, that was awful that she revealed your cousin's personal issue to everyone.

Well, posting it on here is less "bad", if any level of bad, than saying it among people who are even loosely connected to people who know his cousin. I highly doubt his cousin (or anyone's cousin here) follows the posts thru these forums. His cousin's an unknown individual in reference to this arena. Mine as well be in a random library in Montana stopping by and saying "My cousin's like this..."

They all still want to do it, and they try. And bless their hearts, most of them go ahead and take care of me despite their own problems.

Well, they can take the V. Or even just natural stuff which at least makes it easier for many but nothing drastic. But then again, they may not want to "take care of you" quite as often if that's the case. ;)
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
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Posted: 10/12/2017 5:14:47 AM

Your opinion. Dying of viagra at age 60 is just stupid imo. Just as stupid as dying from drunk drinking because you want to live it up.



Now,,,,, you're just being silly.

Never try to tell anyone how they should live, let alone how to die.

Think about it.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
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Posted: 10/12/2017 5:43:26 AM
"Never try to tell anyone how they should live, let alone how to die."

Do you really think he would have taken it if he knew he was going to die? Another case of it won't happen to me gone wrong. Another case of I will live forever no matter what the warnings are.

People create terrible problems for themselves just because they want to stay young forever. IMO, better to accept ourselves as we are, as we grow older.

IMO, there is no shame in our bodies lack of ability to be young once we aren't young any more.

People damaging their health to perform sexually is an ego gone amuck imo.
 Baron1644
Joined: 2/22/2009
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Posted: 10/12/2017 6:07:35 AM
What would you know about erectile issues?
Are you in a relationship with a 70+ years old man?
Not all 70+ have problems with ED.
If you treat your body right and eat right, and do not suffer from High Blood pressure or Diabetes everything should work well into the 100 years.
Now that I am 73 what I used to do all night at 15 now it takes me all night to do.
What do you prefer the 15 years old or the 73 years old who can go all night.
 Baron1644
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Posted: 10/12/2017 6:36:39 AM
I bet you London to a brick he died with a smile on his face.
Of course there are men who stop having sex after they reach a certain age in their life.
As most men die before their wives, you very seldom hear women once they reach the magical age of menopause about hubby is not able to perform any more.
Almost all men (except for the odd one) who can not preform in bed because of ED, will be at their MD surgery begging for a prescription for Viagra or Cialis.
If the same thing is to happen to a woman.
Most women will not be paying a visit to their MD asking for Addyi tablet, I am sure that most women are not even aware that there are tablets out there to help their libido.
Hence the reason I said once a woman reaches that magical age of menopause, most are pleased she does not have to perform in bed anymore.
The husband be lucky if the wife preforms twice a year, once with his birthday and once with Christmas.
Ladies do not get upset, if my description of the average housewife after menopause is not you, please do not wear the cap.
 browneyesboo
Joined: 4/3/2017
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Posted: 10/12/2017 7:02:39 AM
Gads, where's the gag reflex emoji when you need it?
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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Posted: 10/12/2017 7:20:52 AM
^ Cooldog can hook you up with the code.

hahahaha@ "I bet you London to a brick".
 spot4username
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Posted: 10/12/2017 7:33:15 AM

Gads, where's the gag reflex emoji when you need it?

 moraima
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Posted: 10/12/2017 7:36:44 AM
"What would you know about erectile issues? "

You don't get to my age without dealing with one or more men with ED.

"Now that I am 73 what I used to do all night at 15 now it takes me all night to do.
What do you prefer the 15 years old or the 73 years old who can go all night."

You really think it is fun for the women to have to "work on the man" all night so he can do the deed. Trust me, it is heartbreaking to see how frustrated/sad it makes him. Too many people buying into the viagra commercial view of life.

"The husband be lucky if the wife preforms twice a year, once with his birthday and once with Christmas.
Ladies do not get upset, if my description of the average housewife after menopause is not you, please do not wear the cap."

Most women have dated a man who whines the above story. I found that within a couple of hours of my first date with such a man, I was thinking that I can feel sympathy for the women being married to a man who was such a turn off. No second date.

I will quit having sex if I ever have to think of it as being something I must perform. IMO, if is it isn't natural and enjoyable I'll pass.
 ohenryx
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Posted: 10/12/2017 7:59:04 AM

Strawberry_Jello
I'm 71 now. was doing OLD 2013 - 2015. I've encountered the lessening ability to perform, but no lessening of desire. They all still want to do it, and they try. And bless their hearts, most of them go ahead and take care of me despite their own problems.

My 2 year anniversary of my relationship is coming up at the end of this month! Can hardy believe it. :D
My advice is to keep an open mind, and keep trying.

Strawberry, it’s nice to hear from you again. It’s always nice to hear from one of the old timers, and it is especially nice to hear from someone who has a positive attitude and outlook about these things.

Congratulations on your 2 year anniversary! I strongly suspect that the reason you are having a 2 year anniversary is due to your positive outlook towards the opposite sex.

We could use a lot more of that around here.


Walts
Never try to tell anyone how they should live, let alone how to die.

My point, exactly. Well said.

moraima
Do you really think he would have taken it if he knew he was going to die?

People very seldom “know that they are going to die”. They often know that they are risking death, and accept that possibility as cost of achieving what they desire.

A few years back, aids was a death sentence. Contract aids, you die. Kissing someone new (never mind sex) opened up the possibility of aids, followed by death. I did not stop dating, I did not stop kissing pretty girls.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 10/12/2017 8:19:32 AM

^ Cooldog can hook you up with the code.


code is 38.
 moraima
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Posted: 10/12/2017 8:43:33 AM
"They often know that they are risking death, and accept that possibility as cost of achieving what they desire."

What they desire or what they have allowed themselves to be brainwashed to believe is normal?

Belief in crap like your are not a man if you aren't out boiking every woman you can get is just sad for an older person, but some people's egos are a delicate thing. They wouldn't dare just age gracefully. They think they need to prove they can be a stud in their old age.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 10/12/2017 9:50:28 AM
I don't even know where to begin. I would not ask a partner to do harmful drugs like Viagra. Sometimes we age differently sexually; it's part of life.

Baron's description of an evening with him sounds like a full-time job and a very unpleasant one. Baron, you make it sound like it's a woman's duty to help you out sexually. It isn't. If you knew anything about women, after menopause can be a great time sexually with no more worries about pregnancy, and a more openness about sex. If you find that women don't want to "perform", it's not necessarily about low libido, but rather a choice, lol☺
 ThroatLozenge
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Posted: 10/12/2017 10:52:15 AM
How bout them disabled folks marketing themselves as retired?
 ohenryx
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Posted: 10/12/2017 10:56:21 AM

Baron1644
Now that I am 73 what I used to do all night at 15 now it takes me all night to do.
What do you prefer the 15 years old or the 73 years old who can go all night.


newYorker58
Baron's description of an evening with him sounds like a full-time job and a very unpleasant one.

It has been my experience, based on a lifetime of purely scientific field research, that most women do prefer a 60 minute man to a 60 second man. As with all things in this life, YMMV, and please note that I said “most” not all.
 Walts
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Posted: 10/12/2017 5:04:54 PM

Do you really think he would have taken it if he knew he was going to die? Another case of it won't happen to me gone wrong. Another case of I will live forever no matter what the warnings are.

People create terrible problems for themselves just because they want to stay young forever. IMO, better to accept ourselves as we are, as we grow older.

IMO, there is no shame in our bodies lack of ability to be young once we aren't young any more.

People damaging their health to perform sexually is an ego gone amuck imo.


Ummmmmm, we are ALL going to die. How is another question, a question that you should be only answering for YOURself. Many people will do all kinds of things that others would not do, because of the "fear" of death. And then, there are those who think they should be telling those others they are "wrong" to do those things because of the possibility of death. Again, we ALL will die.

It's too bad most of us will die with a frown instead of big smirky smile on our faces.
 moraima
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Posted: 10/12/2017 5:30:40 PM
"It's too bad most of us will die with a frown instead of big smirky smile on our faces."

You seriously believe he died with a smile on his face. He had a heart attack, was taken to the hospital, transferred to another hospital and died in terrible pain a day later with his wife screaming for him not to leave her.

Viagra commercials seem to have instilled these unrealistic dream that have turned into myths. Died with a smile on his face indeed.

"most women do prefer a 60 minute man "

60 minutes of sexual pleasure is heaven.

60 minutes of trying to pleasure someone with ED is hell (viagra or no viagra).
 gtomustang
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Posted: 10/12/2017 6:17:28 PM
The scenario Pig raised, may have many things occurring under the surface. If the fellow has been romantically involved with his wife since age 16, perhaps its his nature to be set in his ways, and not entertain the idea that life can be different from the choice he has made it to be. Also, if he's tuned her out years ago, she would have to be a saint to have not returned the favor, and he might think that's just evidence he's doing the right thing. There's an old story of graffiti in a bar bathroom that declares, "no matter how hot she is, she's here b/c some guy is sick of her #$#@".

But who knows. He's definitely made a bed to lie in, and he's not fixing it b/c he sees nothing broken--he's got the girl. She's the one who's going to have to make the fix, I think. As for the Viagra issue...its easy for me at age 47 to look down at my nose at older men trying to act my age. When i'm their age, and cemetaries look different, I may have a different attitude about wanting to recapture youth.

some people like to live like an old phart...usually when they aren't forced to by nature (like the fellow Pig mentioned)
 ThePigOfYourDreams
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Posted: 10/12/2017 8:34:01 PM
He's just tired of banging the same woman, pure and simple. I doubt either of them wants to go through the hassle of divorce, either. So, they're just settling for monotonous misery. Ah, the joys of marriage.

His brothers have told me he talks shit about me all the time, and it's out of envy that I didn't get sucked into the same trap he did. Oh, well. That's his problem.
 Strawberry_Jello
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Posted: 10/12/2017 9:49:47 PM

Hence the reason I said once a woman reaches that magical age of menopause, most are pleased she does not have to perform in bed anymore.
The husband be lucky if the wife preforms twice a year, once with his birthday and once with Christmas.
Ladies do not get upset, if my description of the average housewife after menopause is not you, please do not wear the cap.


Oh how wrong you are. I sailed thru menopause happily. To me it was a bonus, I have more energy.
I never performed, I enjoyed.
I'm not upset. Just disappointed to see such a negative generalization.

Thanks Henry :)
 Baron1644
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Posted: 10/13/2017 2:13:13 AM
[You don't get to my age without dealing with one or more men with ED.] >> 1989: British Pfizer scientists Peter Dunn and Albert Wood create a drug called sildenafil citrate that they believe will be useful in treating high blood pressure and angina, a chest pain associated with coronary heart disease.

[I will quit having sex if I ever have to think of it as being something I must perform. IMO, if is it isn't natural and enjoyable I'll pass.]
That you have no interest in performing in bed, hence the reason is why you are still looking,
For sex in or out of bed to appear to be natural and enjoyable, both parties have to perform.
 Baron1644
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Posted: 10/13/2017 2:37:06 AM
Strawberry_jello >>>> You are 1 in the 100 lucky woman. For there are 99 other women who are now divorced for not wanting sex after menopause.
Please stop thinking, because you are a unique woman that all other women are the same.
By the way >>>> I used the word MOST.
Of course there are women out there who will bang like a dunny (a toilet) door on a windy day
By the way all those who think Viagra kills, are wrong.
Viagra saves lives and adds the the smile on the males faces.
1989: British Pfizer scientists Peter Dunn and Albert Wood create a drug called sildenafil citrate that they believe will be useful in treating high blood pressure and angina, a chest pain associated with coronary heart disease.
Are you aware that many men and women die sitting on a toilet defecating? Those that think Viagra is killing men. >>> Is that now a good reason I should not go and sit on a toilet to do my daily routine business.

[quote"Heart attacks which occur during defecation are, in many cases, the result of using the (unnatural) sitting posture for waste elimination.

"Excessive straining, through the use of repeated Valsalva Maneuvers, is needed for emptying the bowels in the sitting position. The Valsalva Maneuver adversely affects the cardio-vascular system, and can cause fainting and death.

"The cardio-vascular system of a healthy man can cope with intensive and repeated straining on a sitting toilet. But with a weakened vascular system, straining on a sitting toilet may result in fainting or even death.

"By squatting for waste elimination, the straining required, if any, is much reduced, which would help prevent many of these tragic (heart attack) cases."quote]
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