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Joined: 10/29/2008
Msg: 179
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I dont think this has to do with a person being good in bed or not. This has a lot to do with your partner being good at communications. When a woman knows what makes her turned on or turned off, she needs to tell her partner in some way. Every woman is different in there likes and dislikes, I have not found 2 the same. But between feeling comfortable with each other, and not is a stressed out way (performance issues), and not to be in a rush, and when each person feels a connection oral as well as any other sex will have a better out come, and if she can let you know what she is enjoying and if you are hitting the right stop, your dreams may come true.
Joined: 3/31/2007
Msg: 181
oral sex on women
Posted: 12/14/2008 8:38:16 AM
most women like both but ask her what she likes to be sure
Joined: 4/3/2008
Msg: 182
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Posted: 12/27/2008 8:36:20 AM
true,though i really prefer a woman to be shaved .dont like it when they are not
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 185
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Posted: 12/27/2008 8:56:26 AM

The problem is that 95% of the male population think they really know what they are doing down there- but the reality is that only about 5% do. Its mainly our fault (women) we are too nice about it- we have faked liking their lame approaches so many times- its sad- they can only learn if we teach them!

LOL, ya know, you could EXACTLY turn that little quote around to apply to WOMEN,a s well..

"The problem is that 95% of the female population think they really know what they are doing down there- but the reality is that only about 5% do. Its mainly our fault (men) ..we are too nice about it- we have faked liking their lame approaches so many times- its sad- they can only learn if we teach them!"
Joined: 7/7/2008
Msg: 187
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Posted: 12/27/2008 9:27:31 AM
Go for it women love it, once you start doing it again, it like getting back on a bicyle and riding. Good Luck
Joined: 12/8/2008
Msg: 189
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Posted: 12/29/2008 11:17:05 AM
Yay I'm in the 5th percentile,I got a map tattooed to the inside of my eyelids so I think I should be ok.
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 191
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Posted: 1/4/2009 11:57:39 AM
Please sir may I have some more.......
Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 192
oral sex on women
Posted: 1/8/2009 9:48:51 PM
i love giving oral sex to women nothin pleases the feeling like makin sure its pleased i could go on a "jenny clit" diet an be happy with skipin the sensable dinner !!!!!! LET GO OF THE EARS I NO WHAT IM DOIN DAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 194
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Posted: 1/12/2009 7:44:59 PM
wow i wish i found someone who is all hot for the banging off of his woman lol. oral sex could be good if i had ever been with a guy that enjoyed it. as it is, i haven't and so, consequently it is not an important part of sex for me. nor do i like it very much when the guys not into it. but some day i would love to meet a guy who says those magic words - that he would find it really sexy to eat me out and finger me until i was fully satisfied and then do it again as often as i liked. didnt know that existed, thank you, something to hope for.
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 196
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Posted: 1/12/2009 8:36:18 PM
I agree with you, i am use to oral sex, but for the past 10 years i havn't had a good one done on me, and i feel like am missing something, well i have been single for a while now, still waiting for Mr right i suppose...... sometimes i feel i should go back to my country to get some lol. i am clean and desease free, so am good to go.
Joined: 7/21/2006
Msg: 198
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Posted: 1/13/2009 3:46:51 PM
A man that truly enjoys preforming oral sex on a woman should be in tune with her moans and movement to know if he is doing it right. And if all else fails, Man up and ask " Baby how can I make this a plesurable moment for you?" Listen and do exactly what she says. (the problem is that 50% of women do know their body well enough to tell a man what is pleasurable to her)
Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 203
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Posted: 1/19/2009 11:19:18 AM
most women wont meet me as im not their type due to me being short. but the women who are smart and realize nice guys are in all shapes and sizes every woman ive ever been with said too bad their isnt an online site that says you are good at pleasing your woman orally. ive never had a woman not climax this way. i hated it when i was married but pardon the pun ive aquired a taste to doing it and if im involved with someone i love doing it to them time and time again. it makes me happy when they climax this way. short people make good lovers LOL!

Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 204
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Posted: 1/19/2009 11:21:16 AM
its true some women fake but some cant fake and my ex g/f used to get so wet she left a mess pardon the pun LOL. u cant fake an orgasim when u r that wet this way. boy do i miss her but that was years ago. move forward i always say. lol
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 208
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Posted: 1/20/2009 11:40:22 AM
what you have to know:

(might disturb those with 'sensitive ears' )
Joined: 1/17/2009
Msg: 210
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Posted: 1/20/2009 11:59:30 AM
i need to go find my guy ....grrrrr.....
Joined: 1/12/2009
Msg: 214
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Posted: 1/21/2009 10:02:01 AM
I for one love giving oral on my partner. My last GF would beg me to go down on her, and then beg me not to stop. I love the aroma and taste of a lady. I would tease her, just get her to the brink then slow down, let her build up again, then slow down, I would do this serveral times until she would exploded on my face. She was also a woman who had vaginal ejactulation and I would just drink her juices in. Oh what an experience. After that she would be begging me to F*** her, it's the best sex I have ever had.

Joined: 1/15/2009
Msg: 216
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Posted: 1/21/2009 2:47:53 PM
But if it's good, then you might as well take up residence and think about filing property taxes on that ass.

I like your style darlin .........very funny
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 224
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Posted: 1/28/2009 7:14:02 PM
If you know how to use your toungue and your "magic fingers", they will BEG you for the rest of you. Jeez, if I do it just right, the woman attacks me with a vigor and absolute passion that makes me raise my game to the next level. Don't think women are the only ones who enjoy and get something out of finger and oral play... Once you master these tools, they are quite effective and are essential to a great, mutual, sexual ecstasy. The benefits don't stop with just her, if you do it right. Sometimes this is all that's needed to unlock the keys to her ultimate passion. Don't be shy. Your having sex. If she wants it, you have everything to gain and nothing to lose... If you reciprocate, so will she, in my experience.
Joined: 1/30/2009
Msg: 232
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Posted: 2/4/2009 7:42:37 AM
I love, love, love, love, LOVE pleasing women orally. Cunnilingus, analingus, foot fetish, toe fetish, you name it. I can go for hours on end and don't even want any reciprocation. Now that that's established, my question is why are women so freaked out when men talk about that? I realize they enjoy it and nothing can possibly bring greater pleasure than the thought that the man (or woman in cases) who's performing is totally in love with giving it!
Joined: 1/3/2009
Msg: 236
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Posted: 5/2/2009 3:59:20 PM
seriosly oral sex is better than the actual act ...its ****en awesome!!!!!wut can i say ..
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 238
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Posted: 5/8/2009 7:57:23 AM
I don't think men are "clueless" at all! I think men need us to express what feels good and what could be changed up a little. Just because we women all have vaginas, does not mean we all like it the same way! COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR LOVER. :O)

I said this before...will say it again...not all men like the same oral sex technique on THEM, either. Some like the focus deep down on the underside of the shaft, some prefer the head, and for others the balls will make them bust! Why would WE all like the same thing?? Some of us can barely handle our clits being touched, much less sucked and licked and swirled...some of us need a little finger/tongue/toy penetration at the same we have to tell them what feels great, otherwise they are stuck using the same technique on us, as their last lover.
Joined: 5/8/2008
Msg: 248
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Posted: 7/1/2009 11:52:16 AM
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 250
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Posted: 7/1/2009 3:49:39 PM
I didn't read all the responses, but I feel that I'm possible the only one who doesn't like a guy to go down on me. I went out with a guy who, before anything else, started licking me and really made me uncomfortable. It was after a day at work, and needless to say, I didn't feel the freshest. I finally said that I really wanted him inside me, just to get him to stop the oral. Even though I told him many times (after he asked) that I absolutely loved his fingers down there and feel I can have an orgasm that way, he doesn't seem to want to do it. He just continues to lick.
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 252
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:19:52 PM
Everybody is diiferent and the problem is once somebody finds something that works for their last GF, they think that's all they have to do.

One girl loved oral, some just could get off by fingerplay and fisting; while I had one girl who said that she only came in a certain position for intercourse and no other way.

You simply have to talk about your history, what you like, and what you'd be willing to try... You never know what could happen and both of you may be pleasantly surprised Or sadly understimulated

But if you both communicate and are willing to not give up, you can both find what works for both of you. It just takes patience, relaxation and an undying effort to please.
Joined: 2/23/2006
Msg: 253
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Posted: 7/1/2009 8:34:23 PM
We all have feelings and needs to be taken care of......a women should enjoy ot as much as possible,.......i really enjoy giving women orgasms,...{oral sex to a women} I am dam good st it.... and i know is about pleaseing the women...making her felling out of control and enjoying climaxing over and over again. i enjoy giving her that rush...i is a turn for me to do this..... so ladies if you need a little something extra.
smile.......... romeopc
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