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 indigo rose
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 38
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POF has been vedy vedy good to me
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 6/21/2005 11:06:35 PM
POF has made me feel ugly old and unwanted
 carribeanking7
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 6/21/2005 11:28:27 PM
@fox- whadya mean old and ugly....if I lived within 75 miles of you I would be at your doorstep in a heartbeat.
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 6/22/2005 7:05:24 AM
Just what I said. I get the occasional IM or email from guys 5 hours away. Almost no local interest and if there is local interest, they don't actually want to meet. Gives me the distinct impression that I am not "good enough".
 dae
Joined: 12/6/2004
Msg: 42
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Posted: 6/22/2005 8:11:56 AM
who_the_fox, it's like that everywhere, so don't think that way, I thought that way too, but maybe part of it is, that some men say they want to meet, but perhaps there is a reason why they won't meet the local women, perhaps they aren't as honest as they say they are in their profile.
 undercover blonde
Joined: 6/3/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 6/22/2005 9:01:29 AM
Who the fox, you are looking at this from the wrong perspective! You don't need male interest to validate yourself. It is nice to have it of course, but even during the "dry spells" you should be able to look in the mirror and compliment yourself (and beleive it!). You are an absolutely beautiful woman! Work on your self confidence (which by the way will make you even MORE beautiful regardless of your age) ......
 rjbconstruction
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 6/22/2005 6:38:58 PM
I have not met anyone from this site. It's fun to mess around with, but I've had zero results as well. I dated 3 off of Yahoo! Keep trying, and don't use just one site!
 rjbconstruction
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 45
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Posted: 6/22/2005 6:40:18 PM
Are you still w/ Courtney?
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 6/22/2005 9:06:08 PM
I don't think there is much chance I will gain confidence by being ignored and/or insulted.
 gotitallalmost
Joined: 8/20/2008
Msg: 48
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Posted: 9/4/2008 3:02:04 PM
for the beautiful people
 pluger60
Joined: 3/11/2008
Msg: 49
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Posted: 9/4/2008 3:50:43 PM
(not to mention geriatric )hey I represent that remark
 Terri Lynn 55
Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 50
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Posted: 9/4/2008 5:13:04 PM
Same people are on the pay sites!! I was on Eharmony before and Match.com and saw the same people there!
 curlieblu
Joined: 9/19/2008
Msg: 52
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Posted: 2/16/2009 11:54:11 AM
what do you mean by "no offer's". I'm asking because I am experiencing the same thing. I have much to offer. So I ask you what are we doing wrong.!!!
 fullestsunflower
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 53
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:20:25 PM
I tend to agree with you.... I have no luck either.... other than people adding me to favorites then never to chat again lol so I remove myself
 alan_50501
Joined: 3/23/2007
Msg: 55
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Posted: 5/31/2009 8:37:58 PM
Results have been zero for me. Lots of women telling me I'm cute and a great guy....but no offers.
 dtaylor02
Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 58
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Posted: 6/7/2009 6:32:33 PM
yeah well you could be right but what do you have to lose
 dtaylor02
Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 59
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Posted: 6/7/2009 6:34:20 PM
Seriously, are you kidding me lol
 tassiegreatplace
Joined: 4/20/2009
Msg: 61
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Posted: 6/24/2009 4:38:33 AM
i hear ya im starting to think ill never find anyone
 ardeth123
Joined: 6/20/2010
Msg: 67
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Posted: 7/15/2010 6:41:09 PM
I agree. this sites has alot of weird people.. as compared to the paying sites. Have been on three weeks and have not met anyone.. Yet on usa sites lots of emails?? what is wrong with Canadian men?? Too fussy?? No wonder they are single.
 eve07
Joined: 12/13/2010
Msg: 69
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Posted: 2/16/2011 6:10:17 AM
o my God that is so funny.
 CynthiaSM
Joined: 1/29/2011
Msg: 72
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Posted: 3/19/2011 2:09:49 PM
Other than taking the pic(s) off, is that the same profile you've had all this time?

You know the definition of insanity don't you?
 sunkist69
Joined: 8/3/2008
Msg: 74
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Posted: 8/22/2011 9:13:46 AM
I do I agree, I've been on here for awhile now and nothing! tell me am I that bad looking?
Debra
 domo30
Joined: 6/7/2010
Msg: 75
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Posted: 8/24/2011 9:31:15 PM
All I get are messages from people my dads age and thats gross imo :( Or guys that are extremely overweight. Not fair yea yea I know life isnt fair but what did I do to deserve nothing :(
 LYNETTESONG
Joined: 7/13/2011
Msg: 76
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Posted: 8/26/2011 7:53:25 PM
because you only want one thing
 jmmevolve
Joined: 12/16/2010
Msg: 81
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Posted: 10/13/2011 7:12:08 AM
Where would you suggest they go?

you do realize in the olden days (you know when your parents played with the dinosaurs) that people met in person. They could not hide behind a computer and be and do anything they wanted. They were out there making friends, meeting people and perchance finding romance.

Where did this happen? At that time church was the centre of the social scene. Some met people at work that hit it off. And there were public dances (mostly for the teen crowd) where everyone got together. After all swaying to music is legal in public.

As this is no longer viable, and at an old age for dating (widowed) it is difficult to find the right venue. IMO bars don't cut it - altering your consciousness to be social just doesn't seem to help.

I find from my experience that all the men seem to want to do is write e-mails. I presume them to be more visual than females, but few will take a chance on love, despite what their resume may read.
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