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 REDDRAGON.
Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 74
Still on POF after 1.5 yrs togetherPage 4 of 4    (1, 2, 3, 4)

He lets them believe he is still looking for love


It's time to cut the POF umbilical cord ... obviously it's his life line to escape.

I was going to say sabatoge the computer some how , but like many addicted users there is always a place to log in some where.

OP I don't want to sound mean but jeez girl the writing is on the wall do we have to spell it out for you???
 LMBB
Joined: 11/15/2008
Msg: 75
Still on POF after 1.5 yrs together
Posted: 12/31/2008 1:29:00 PM
Why are you still on here? I wouldn't trust the man, as a matter of fact, I'd dump him. He's an idiot.
 girlred228
Joined: 6/23/2008
Msg: 76
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Still on POF after 1.5 yrs together
Posted: 12/31/2008 2:09:10 PM
Ultimatums are a relationship killer.. Don't do it.. if he doesn;t respect your feelings on the subject. Start putting yourself first ask yourself if this guy doesn;t respect your feelings, why are you with him? It will only get worse.

IMO
 Louder than Love
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 77
Still on POF after 1.5 yrs together
Posted: 1/1/2009 3:16:01 PM
"we are close to buying a house and moving in together" Hmmmm
I wouldn't buy a Doghouse with this dude if I were you!!! Anybody who would use lame excuses like boredom, forums, or email friends as a reason to stay on a date site. Plainly they are still looking and get to keep horking you in the process. . 1) bored, read a book. 2) forums, they are everywhere. 3) email friends, give them your email. remember: K.I.S.S.
 KrisNAz
Joined: 10/14/2008
Msg: 78
Still on POF after 1.5 yrs together
Posted: 1/1/2009 8:01:01 PM
What? Have you read his profile,, what does it say? Sorry but sometimes when you meet a guy online, this is what happens-he may have a personal on Match also,, have you checked that? You need to make him remove his profile,, if he's truly not looking for anyone else, he should have taken it off a long time ago. Stick to your guns on this.
 tealmist
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 79
Still on POF after 1.5 yrs together
Posted: 1/3/2009 7:38:01 PM
Seems like both may just have an issue with a little thing called.... commitment?
$.02
 ladyinup2013
Joined: 8/22/2009
Msg: 80
Still on POF after 1.5 yrs together
Posted: 2/12/2013 12:46:52 PM
he just may have a hard time of letting go of complete control to one woman, he may also be ready to cheat at any given moment, you have some serious considering to do here and it's quite all right to make a rule now and then~~if you feel he loves you and only you, and you will know, let him have his time, it's just internet, but if you suspect he's gone a bit farther, dump his ass~ if he comes back, he must let the date sites go~is he into porn too?? that's usually a sign, this internet stuff is so messing up really really good relationships~~too many fake behind the computer~
 lovefun99
Joined: 6/14/2010
Msg: 81
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Still on POF after 1.5 yrs together
Posted: 2/12/2013 1:35:02 PM
I wonder if they are still together since this thread is 5 years old......
 abmccray
Joined: 8/3/2008
Msg: 82
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Still on POF after 1.5 yrs together
Posted: 2/12/2013 2:25:55 PM
ladyinup, why are you bumping all of these old threads and responding to them as if the original poster is still around?
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