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 Jiperly
Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 8
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Holy christ people, you need to get a life- she's asking for advice to better understand what turns her on, not for lectures on how to live her life.

Is it so hard to allow someone to have a topic questioning their turn ons without turning it into another damn social issue? She's a grown adult, and she's clearly made her decision- GROW UP AND DEAL WITH IT. Her smoking isn't what this topic is about, stop trying to derail someone elses topic in an vain and self-righteous attempt to force people to do as you say.

Plus, all this talk of lesbians is pretty damn hot
 wowsad
Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 9
Girls and smoking
Posted: 4/25/2008 9:50:35 AM
my mother died of lung cancer, most likely from smoking... i smoke. i don't know if i'll quit, but i'm planning to when i graduate college. we'll see what happens. right now though, i love it. its a very selfish addiction, and a personal choice.
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 4/25/2008 12:59:25 PM
Obviously it's not the smoking, it's the rebelliousness which turns you on.
If smoking were socially acceptable then you would probably be a rabid non-smoker.

Being a rebel for the sake of rebelliousness is no rebel at all.
The true rebel makes up their own mind about things and does what makes sense to them. This takes personal life long introspection and observation. It also requires a willingness to recognize social pressure and decide for yourself whether to follow it or go against it .
The ability to smoke, paint your hair different colors and wear unusual clothes doesn't make anyone a rebel.
Being original, not imitating others, that's rebellious.
 Fleur_de_Lis
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 18
Girls and smoking
Posted: 4/25/2008 8:54:04 PM
I never wanted to start - when I smell someone who just had a cigarette it grosses me out

I don't like seeing young beautiful girls smoke because it will give them wrinkles

 wowsad
Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 20
Girls and smoking
Posted: 4/26/2008 2:26:39 AM
there's three major cigarettes that i need... the driving cigarette, the after a meal cigarette, and the after sex cigarette.. the rest i can probably give up, but those three... they're going to be the hardest to kick. especially the meal one. the sex one i could almost do w/out as long as the chick i just had sex with doesn't smoke. the driving one, ehhh.... i dunno, i've never tried it.
 Jiperly
Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 22
Girls and smoking
Posted: 4/26/2008 8:41:22 AM
How is she pressuring others? She's expressing what arouses her, and people are condemning her for it- so she may be defending her beliefs, but thats only because others are assaulting those same beliefs.

I'm curious how she can express her beliefs without "pressuring" others, as you claim? Or do you believe she doesn't have the right to express herself?

And since she's obviously trying to pick up adults, what do you care? If she actually does pressure someone into smoking, wouldn't that person be responsible for their actions? Or should she be held accountable for the actions of others?
 Jiperly
Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 24
Girls and smoking
Posted: 4/26/2008 10:22:41 AM
>>>She's freely admitted that she's proud of herself for getting others to smoke for her own selfish needs. THAT isn't cool.

And thats fine- you're entitled to your opinion- but this is not the place to express that opinion- should I stop wasting my time and just start demanding the moderators step in, cause I will....

Whats hard for this to understand- the user is expressing what arouses her, and wondering if anyone has any understanding on why she feels the way she does- she is not looking for advice on how to quit, she is not looking to convince others to smoke or looking for others to convincer her not to smoke, she is not bragging about how wonderful drugs are and how no one has ever been harmed by them- and you're ignoring all these factors in a desperate attempt to turn this into another anti-smoking thread, because you feel its your right to bastardize a legitimate thread and brow beat someone into following your convictions- its not- you are permitted to post on these forums so long as you stay on the topic as created by the OP- you are not allowed to go into any forum, express yourself, and then complain that you were stifled when you went into a thread about whale hunting to express your opinion on how sky diving is fun.

What is so hard about this? Stay on topic, go somewhere where your topic exists, or create your own topic!

You want a thread about anti-smoking versus smoking? Heres some;

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts8725319.aspx
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts7710409.aspx
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts8964656.aspx
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http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts9750398.aspx
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts9750398.aspx

All have had posts in the last week, and all are a debate for or against smoking.

>>> pressuring someone else into a deadly act is just wrong on so many levels IN MY OPINION.

And just where does personal responsibility come into this argument? If she goes up to a non-smoker, tells her how wonderful she thinks smoking is and how hot it is, that adult is capable of deciding for themselves if they want to smoke or not- its their own personal responsibility to decide, not yours. Just because you disagree with Sammysmokingpunk, doesn't mean this user doesn't have the freedom to express what they believe without you harassing them!
 jefftuller44
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 26
Girls and smoking
Posted: 5/6/2008 1:20:10 PM
Nothing's more sexy then kissing someone who tastes like an ash tray!
 Lacquered
Joined: 10/10/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 5/6/2008 3:49:15 PM

I remember developing a fascination with smoking by the time I was old enough to have any real memories, 4 or 5 years old.

I remember this to at the same age, felt more like a need than a desire..... Not like wow, thats so cool..... but almost like cravings.
I dont have an oral fixation, that I know of and have never convinced anyone to smoke, just because I do...... I dont really know if it makes anyone look or not look sexier, either....... Its just something I do.
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 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 6/14/2008 5:35:26 PM
I'm a non-smoker but I have always been turned on by a sexy woman smoking.I love having her tease me by blowing smoke in my face and flicking the ashes on me.Sexually,I have always been attracted to the more sexually sadist female.
 lazurm
Joined: 4/26/2015
Msg: 29
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Posted: 6/6/2018 12:45:35 PM
I know a formerly anti-smoking athletic type who, being attracted to his next door smoking neighbor, got "pressured" into smoking in order to have "relations" with her. She apparently enjoyed turning the tables on him and, after awhile, he got addicted to the point where he smokes now all the time. Needless to say they're a couple now and he doesn't badger her about her smoking anymore. I think she got a kick out of it actually.

Oh, and he's not into athletics anymore, gained weight, etc.
 Viper1j
Joined: 2/6/2015
Msg: 30
Girls and smoking
Posted: 6/6/2018 2:11:03 PM
After smoking for over 40 years, I stopped because my girlfriend wanted me to. I used e-cigs to work myself from high down to zero nicotine in 9 months.

A year later, she was killed by a drunk driver, I thought I would go back, but I haven't.
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