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 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 137
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Megina;

If you think you're good now; wait until you've had another twenty five years to learn and practice. That's why they always say "Older women make better lovers!"
 Merrylass
Joined: 12/30/2007
Msg: 140
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Posted: 6/25/2008 12:37:17 AM

The fact is 33% of ALL females have never had even their own first orgasm.

That's not a fact. That's a myth. Really, don't read the Sun if you want to find actual facts.
 Steff22
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 141
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Posted: 8/9/2008 10:16:53 PM
That is crap lol Funny, but still crap hahahaha
 sugarstwisted9
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 148
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Posted: 8/14/2008 1:40:02 PM
Jeeze wish I could have been in on this study!!

Im smart as a duck on ice! And I have no problems getting my jolly-ranchers from the candy store. I love jolly-ranchers, specially the watermelon ones....MMMM

Ummm....ya those are good....back on topic. I completely disagree with this study, I think if anything it would be easier for smarter than average woman to get off, as they would have a more in depth understanding of their bodies, what does what, what functions how and how to make organs quiver. As well EVERYONE knows that smart ladies are freaks in the sack!
 stephen_86
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 156
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Posted: 8/16/2008 1:38:05 PM
I would say the smarter the women the more likely she is to have quality sexual activity that leads to an orgasm. Intelligent women turn me on to no end and I have never had a problem with a women not being fullfilled and sated in that department.
 pepitinho
Joined: 7/20/2008
Msg: 161
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Posted: 8/19/2008 7:02:23 PM
possibly...isn`t it sort of why marijuana doesn`t seem to work on everybody? if your
mind is just too tense, focused on other issues, etc, it very possibly could prevent you from being completely relaxed and have an orgasm
but i still think smart german girls could have an orgasm! you could just dress up like
albert einstein or tattoo e+mc2 on your chest...that might just do it
bye
 SheKnowsWhatSheNeeds
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 162
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Posted: 8/20/2008 2:27:48 PM
No.
I know my body through and through...and I'm smart as hell (I am going to admit this) and I know I am and I have great sex...I'd like to think it's because I know my body and how it works...no confusion between the sheets (or in the backseat of a pickup)
 Ms. AdventureUs
Joined: 1/20/2007
Msg: 164
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Posted: 7/2/2009 7:48:26 PM
LOL. I read many of the replies posted on this topic, which I just ran across tonite, and found many of them amusing to hilarious. If I told you my IQ (150+) and how orgasmic in how many ways I typically am in a relationship (multi+) in which I love and trust the guy, you wouldn't believe me, so I'll spare you the details. Suffice it to say, the study must have been started by low-minded guys who weren't getting any with us glasses-wearing, librarian types with big vocabularies. Sorry, I can barely type from overwhelming mirth.....tee hee!
 wacowboy3
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 167
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Posted: 7/4/2009 7:05:45 AM
Wow this could be difficult
1.check to see if she is atleast 18
2.check her health certificat
3.Is she attractive
4.Do I have any feeling for her
5.Is she fun to be with
6.Check her report card
OMG She repeted 3rd grade 3 times
NEXT
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 169
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Posted: 7/4/2009 10:17:48 AM
the opposite is true, smarter women have much better sex, i have been in 3 long term relationships, all with very intelligent women, and the sex was very good
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
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Posted: 11/14/2009 2:31:18 PM
Not enough info to tell if the study has any validity whatsoever.
I usually find that all such "studies" are just lame efforts to get people excited about things enough to sell more magazines or whatever. I have yet to see any such alleged "studies" that were conducted in a scientific manner, such that they could exclude conclusions other than what they set out to prove.
Here, for example, modern education encourages people to be more picky about what they do or don't approve of. You'll generally find that educated people are more picky about EVERYTHING. It doesn't mean they are having less fun, just that they are less likely to admit it.
For a study such as this to have ANY validity at all, they would have had to study the actual sexual responsiveness and level of pleasure achieved by a far larger number of women than they would likely get to volunteer for such intrusive experiments. Even then, the study would be invalid, since it would rely exclusively on women who were willing or "into" having scientists watch them having sex.
Thus, no matter WHAT this "study" says, I would expect it is crap.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 181
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Posted: 11/14/2009 7:15:54 PM
Here is what I have learned from the POF forums threads......

Smarter ladies have worse sex ( I must be dumber than a box of rocks, cuz I'm having some great sex)

Very long hair on a woman is very femine and sexy, but few women have long hair (and here I thought it was about how a woman carried herself)

Big Labia Lips On Women ( my favorite line of that thread is the correlation of labia lips to promiscuous behavior)

What is it with men & sexually liberated women (because if we know what we want in the bedroom, we're automatically whores)

why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? ( uhm.....guess we gotta be dumb and ugly!)

Good While Dating, But not for Marriage or LTR ( (nice to know I'm not marriage material cuz I'm a freak in the bedroom)

How many is too many? ( My business suddenly becomes anybody I date's business, and God Forbid I tell them that!)

According to these forums, I might as well become a crazy cat lady and buy a sex machine!!
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 182
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Posted: 11/14/2009 11:47:20 PM
I can only speak for myself. I am way above average in intelligence and I have not had good sex for 4 and a half years. One reason is, 4 and a half years ago I was having sex in a REAL 5 year relationship and he learn to turn me on and all was good, but he left for unknown reasons. Even if a guy is technically good, if there is no relationship and caring between 2 people and the man does not actually want to hang out with me, this ruins the whole complete proper expression of sex between a man and woman. I am very enjoyable to hang out with, and worthy of caring about, and this is something you USERS and LOSERS don't realize and sex with you USERS and LOSERS leaves me VERY COLD. I am a very intelligent Lady and sex in the last 4 and half years has been the WORST.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 11/15/2009 12:05:26 PM

Hold off on the cats, MsMicki. I can also loan you a sex machine on weekends - just pay my airfare!


Ooooh.......you're sending me your wife!!
Awesome!!
 Tarnished_Knight
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 189
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Posted: 11/16/2009 10:05:25 AM
kpooks wrote:
If that is true, it's probably because smarter ladies can be overly analytical, rather than letting the moment BE and simply enjoying it.

There is such a thing as editorializing...then there is such a thing as discarding all that mental junk and simply letting animal instinct take over. If she's smart ENOUGH, she should be able to do either.


Alright, this thread has been resurrected, so here's my simple take on the situation: First, I am not the most sexually experienced fella around, in fact, I'm probably so far down on the experienced scale that one would have to use log-log graph paper to even see my minuscule data point, so let me comment on the data set I have available, the lady I married way back in the days of slide rules and main frames, a lady who had as much education as I.

Perhaps the authors of the article in question were referring to women like the lady I married, who in a march for professional success focused exclusively on achieving that success, looking neither to the left nor to the right. If an activity did not enhance route to the desired professional success it was either ignored or set on the back burner. The problem I/we experienced was that once professional success was achieved behavior patterns were set in place, thought processes entrenched, and the thrill of achieving professional success was supplanted with a drive to maintain the success and then climb the next rung. So, instead of having time together at the end of a long day, free time at home in the quiet of the night became another part of the day devoted to "catching up" on reading, reports, etc. 10, 15, 20 years of that drains the desire the other partner feels or wants to devote.

Now, I realize that this can go equally in the other direction. And I wonder how many marriages suffered long term damage when the man, also on an upward track, devoted himself to that task rather than to the other who desired to share a life with him.

So, do smart ladies have worse sex?, well, maybe, but perhaps it's not about ability but focus.

Personally, I like smart, intelligent women, women who can and like to contribute; but there has to be a balancing act. Perhaps, if there is a 2nd time around for me and I fall for one of these smart, driven women, life' lesson's will have been learned (by both of us) and we can have a better go of it than we did.

TK
 boho_bookworm
Joined: 12/6/2008
Msg: 194
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Posted: 11/17/2009 2:39:30 PM
I don't know. I'm pretty smart... above average IQ scores and curious, love to learn, etc, etc. I do have a pretty hard time reaching orgasm during sex. I don't think that I "think too much during the act, that's one thing that usually makes my brain go to goo. I do know however that it takes a very long time and quite a bit of attention to detail to get me there. I have no trouble giving myself an orgasm so I'm not frigid by any means.... just difficult I guess!
 boho_bookworm
Joined: 12/6/2008
Msg: 195
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Posted: 11/17/2009 2:40:57 PM
"I can have an orgasm in like 30 seconds flat if I do it myself, about 2-5 minutes if he goes down on me. "

Yeah, those are the easiest ways, although I tend to take longer during oral than just a couple a minutes.
 AnarchoCapitalist
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 197
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Posted: 1/15/2010 11:36:27 AM
Can't say for sure, but the smartest girl I knew (and I mean smartest by FAR), was pretty frigid. Still had good sex, just couldn't make her cum.
 AnarchoCapitalist
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 198
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Posted: 1/15/2010 3:52:02 PM

personally - master's degree, IQ just over 140


In all fairness, going to an indoctrination center funded by special interest through federal subsidies (Universities) and receiving a piece of paper doesn't necessarily make you "smart"

Einstein, Thomas Edison, Tesla, and Bill Gates never got degrees.
 AnarchoCapitalist
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 202
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Posted: 1/18/2010 9:00:41 AM

Not at all. I am technically in the top 2% for iq. Though I don't buy into iq tests, no doubt I'm above average intelligence..


This thread sure is bringing out the modesty in the ladies, eh? When I was a kid I was told I tested high and my mom used to tell me, "Don't ever tell people you're smart, they will know it when you speak."

1honestfrenchman- Thank you kind Sir. You're a true French Canadien!
 AnarchoCapitalist
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 205
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Posted: 1/18/2010 10:59:25 AM

you are a perfect example of a man threatened by a woman's intelligence... mine's 167, is that bragging? Nah, just facts. get over it.


Typical feminist response. any criticism of a woman means you either hate women or are threatened. To point out just how ridiculously wrong you are- My last girlfriend spoke 3 languages, graduated summa cum laude as a music major who could play piano, accordion, and some guitar, was politically active, and could walk through a garden and tell you what every plant was. Did I pursue her because I was threatened by her? Please grow up!
 Mike Seguin
Joined: 8/5/2009
Msg: 209
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Posted: 1/19/2010 6:01:09 AM
I don't know about you guys, but I'd much rather put in the extra effort to get her to orgasm than have a woman who's a complete dumbass.
 just4- 4ums
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 215
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Posted: 1/19/2010 7:33:38 AM
You can roughly determine one's IQ by counting the number of teeth in their head and then multiplying that figure by 3.4
Not exactly scientific but it makes for an interesting observation the next time you are lucky enough to bang an almost toothless chic.
 MakeYouSmile26
Joined: 10/6/2009
Msg: 217
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Posted: 1/19/2010 2:07:39 PM
As age goes up you have increased chance of "completing your education" and increased chance of understanding your body

There are way too many extrenal factors here to determine that education is the cause
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 5/23/2010 6:08:55 PM
The study conducted by a German lifestyle website surveyed over 2,000 women between the ages of 18 and 49.

Do you agree with the study's findings?


Does this mean I have to play dumb to get laid?
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