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 Free-At-Last
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 105
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I know there might be some desperate women out there but are there really that many?

Doubt it...just SOME really desperate boys/men.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 106
sugar mommy?
Posted: 10/27/2009 6:19:48 PM
o/p: do you own a ferrari? how much beer would you have in your fridge at any given moment? cable tv? pool? do you have any supermodel friends who frequently come by for a visit or naked swim?



 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 107
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Posted: 10/27/2009 7:00:45 PM

none of them are rich enough for me...


Well, just how much money is needed to qualify? Xan older guys qualify at a discount???
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 108
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Posted: 10/27/2009 7:17:23 PM
sapphire asked: "Do you really think a man who is 44 is just wanting sex????"


<div class="quote">I judge only by what he says. Doesn't matter how old

but earlier you said this:


<div class="quote">If it's a man under 45, I just delete it unread.

so... if you're deleting it UNREAD, how do you know what he's saying??? can you read the minds of all the men under the age of 45?
 kari135
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 109
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Posted: 10/27/2009 7:34:17 PM

so... if you're deleting it UNREAD, how do you know what he's saying??? can you read the minds of all the men under the age of 45?

I should have been more clear about that.

I delete the ones whose profile says 'inimate encounter' - and they do get through, maybe they switch just to send a message, then switch back again. I don't know - but those are the ones I don't bother reading. But if the subject line says 'tell me about' or 'how did you end up in' - then I read, and answer. Sometimes it leads to an extended email correspondence, sometimes not. But it's usually men who have adult offspring in one or another branch of the military stationed where I lived for so long. Sometimes it's someone who's always wanted to go, and wants to know about hunting, etc.
 thecatsmeoww
Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 110
sugar mommy?
Posted: 11/1/2009 3:00:03 PM
Oh those much younger men never ever contact me.. I feel so darn left out..

thecatsmeoww
 thecatsmeoww
Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 111
sugar mommy?
Posted: 11/1/2009 3:01:14 PM
P.S. I only get them in real life not on the net.. Which is far far worse..

thecatsmeoww
 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 113
sugar mommy?
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:29:44 PM
I had this really hot 22 year old posing without a shirt write to me (.dang he was good looking) he said...to bad you dont like younger men...

I said you went to school with my kids...put your shirt back on before I show them what you said to me!

I am quite sure he gets some to take him up on it so it isnt the men alone who do this...
 professora
Joined: 7/28/2008
Msg: 114
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Posted: 11/1/2009 6:06:16 PM
I m single almost four years. I am also finding there are some men who hope to find someone to take care of them.

Everything is out there....we just have to be vigilent and watchut for these types. Luckily your experiences have been with upfront men.
 sk1960
Joined: 8/11/2008
Msg: 115
sugar mommy?
Posted: 11/1/2009 6:30:29 PM
ntm....

Thanks for the laugh ..... great way to end the weekend and start the new week....
 HarrNels
Joined: 12/18/2008
Msg: 117
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Posted: 11/1/2009 9:41:03 PM
I was contacted by a young man from Italy who wanted to be my sugar baby (my term). He was a successful architect living in FL. As tempting as it was, I just couldn't see myself introducing him to my family.
 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 118
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Posted: 11/2/2009 6:14:43 AM

Oh yeah... forgot to mention that they usually want to have e-sex too.


E-sex? You mean like with something that needs batteries? How does that work for a male?

So much to learn, so little time....
 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 120
sugar mommy?
Posted: 11/3/2009 12:44:12 PM
There was one guy on here that had like 15 testimonials from older women...and he wrote that he enjoys talking and learning about different people, their lives etc...seemed harmless enough...so one day he messages me on yahoo and says hey i have my webcam on ....the dumbass was in the shower with his webcam ...I laughed so hard...then I told him that the testimonials must be his notches ...

I guess I am to much of a computer dork all i could think of is boy are you gonna ruin that laptop from the moisture.
 kari135
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 121
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Posted: 11/3/2009 2:14:58 PM
There was one guy on here that had like 15 testimonials from older women...and he wrote that he enjoys talking and learning about different people, their lives etc...seemed harmless enough...

My current fave is a guy who has one - yup, I counted it, just one - testimonial on his profile. Sad to say, it was from someone who explained how he'd stood her up to go somewhere else and never responded to her invitation to lunch later.

I wonder what kind of action he thinks that will get him...
 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 122
sugar mommy?
Posted: 11/3/2009 2:50:31 PM
lmao you can post a testimonial without the person knowing about it, one man had a women saying all kinds of stuff (bad) about him and his DOG!

It was so funny, he wrote me and I was like hey handsome you might want to address the women who is in love with you and leaving you such a glowing testimonial...he didnt even know it was on his profile cause he never looked at his own...he wrote back and said it had been on there for weeks and that was why no one was writing him back...she was right about the dog!
 spunkybum52
Joined: 9/8/2009
Msg: 123
sugar mommy?
Posted: 11/9/2009 2:53:48 PM
Well any woman with self respect will not let a man use her for money, and vice versa. I think there are many desperate people around who will let a man or woman move in with them, and allow themselves to support that person, because they are deseprate. Wow... they need to really get their lives right. I would never let a young guy or older man come live with me for the money and security. They would have to love me for myself or nothing. I am not a desperate woman and would not stoop that low. Good on you for not allowing it.....shows me that you are not a desperate woman, but have self repect and know what you want. Stay that way!
 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 125
sugar mommy?
Posted: 11/9/2009 3:13:40 PM
^^^ Just what we need more of a man of values...he will let a woman use him for sex but he keeps his self respect by keeping a job
 blueyesrsmiling
Joined: 6/25/2008
Msg: 127
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Posted: 11/9/2009 4:02:42 PM
I guess I can't be a Sugar Mommy....because I am not very sweet....dang my bad luck.
 blueyesrsmiling
Joined: 6/25/2008
Msg: 128
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Posted: 11/9/2009 4:10:00 PM
I am still trying to figure out what E sex is.........
Is that like really great sex and I am missing out on it? Well I have been missing out for awhile.....still never figured the cyber sex thing either.....how can you type and have cyber sex at the same time? Or phone sex.......I don't get that either, while your having a great time the phone drops....or its some 85 yr old man talking dirty to you. Still curious about E sex.....might want to try some of that........probably more fun than the lack of sex that I am having right now....have you ever gone so long that your going blind........I think its happening to me.....
 JCN4Fun
Joined: 9/16/2009
Msg: 129
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Posted: 11/9/2009 5:06:06 PM
WOW! The self-esteem level of these guys is sub-human!!! Guess that it's true that it takes all kinds..... Would love to see you ladies call these bums out with testimonials for each of them...too funny!!! LOL!!!

blueyesrsmiling, in case I missed your sarcasm...: E-sex=webcam, I think. No typing. Phone sex can be fun; again no typing, but often requires one hand on the phone, unless you have a speaker. Cyber sex via chatting, tough; need two hands to type... Never had cam sex. Didn't like cyber sex. Phone sex? Outstanding!!! I recommend it!!! Helps to be in a relationship of some kind. Never had the $1.99/minute variety, so I cannot speak to it...LOL!!!
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 131
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Posted: 11/9/2009 5:50:59 PM

Still curious about E sex.....might want to try some of that...


could be one of those vibrators that plug into the computer!

yes, they DO exist!

 blueyesrsmiling
Joined: 6/25/2008
Msg: 132
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Posted: 11/9/2009 7:50:32 PM
Web cam.....that doesn't sound like fun.....have to go back to being one.....
And a computer that runs a vibrator? Yeah me I can do that while being on web cam. Not really, but how funny that sex has taken on a whole new dimension of many things I have never thought of.....
I thought I was being daring by trying lap dancing......guess I am still way behind the times.........crap .......now I not only have to figure out how to date now I have to figure out how to have sex.....guess no one does it the old fashion way anymore.....the new sex is look but don't touch.....some how I am missing part of this element its the human touch I crave........
 JCN4Fun
Joined: 9/16/2009
Msg: 134
sugar mommy?
Posted: 11/10/2009 6:53:20 AM

"guess no one does it the old fashion way anymore.....the new sex is look but don't touch.....some how I am missing part of this element its the human touch I crave........ "


No, many of us prefer the old fashioned way, where emotion and communication make things more passionate and sensual for both parties. The new way is just about getting off, just like all of those things that are supposed to make us go blind, and they have little to no emotional involvement. If it's all you can get, OK, but many of us, even those of us with a penis between our legs, long for the emotional connections and the feel of a warm soul next to us, with both of us wondering what "perversion" we are going to undertake next!!! We are just a smaller group and apparently hard to find!!! But I plan to keep looking, because when you find it it is pretty damn good!!!!!
 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 135
sugar mommy?
Posted: 11/10/2009 8:05:24 AM
Actually I totally disagree about E-sex, phone sex etc...basically with all of it you are mind-fvcking yourself...and since you know yourself you set the other person up to be a disappointment if you met cause when you think of a touch or a kiss (keeping it pg) you know what you like and image it that way and then you have them touch or kiss you and the human element of their touch or kiss being different...harder, softer, or whatever and at that point you are disappointed.

As far as just getting off, some can become more emotionally attached cause they let down their guard.

The new sex I can totally do without.
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