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Joined: 10/2/2010
Msg: 136
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OP, sad to say but the answer to your question is 'yes'. When men my age find out I live on a barrier island in Florida they fall all over themselves wanting a 'relationship'. You seem savvy enough to be able to read between the lines as I am and when I see what's out there to choose from (or did..I'm dating a really nice guy now), then being single ain't so bad is it?

Take care but don't take just anyone...

Joined: 10/4/2010
Msg: 137
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Posted: 4/9/2011 9:50:19 AM

I am in my fifties , own my own home and am self supporting. I have recieved many emails from guys wanting to move in with me and have me support them for sex. Are you kidding me!!!!! I know there might be some desperate women out there but are there really that many?

The guys that have been e-mailing you are looking/trolling for the "desperate" women.

Just do what you do. Weed out the losers and keep fishin'.
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 138
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Posted: 4/9/2011 6:13:58 PM
I have recieved many emails from guys wanting to move in with me and have me support them for sex.

Nothing new. Guys get messages from young women (girls) who want sugar daddy's. Some as far away as Ghana. I suppose some older men answer them but the DELETE button works just fine on my computer. No ladies, it's not new.
Joined: 8/22/2008
Msg: 139
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Posted: 6/22/2011 12:46:09 PM
I could never accept being "kept" by a woman I was interested in but it seems that many women have no problem with being kept. The last woman I had a relationship with had that in mind all along. Expected me to marry her and take care of her financial needs. What could I expect from a christian gold digger? Why is it acceptable for women to expect to be "kept"?
Joined: 5/27/2011
Msg: 140
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Posted: 6/27/2011 4:40:42 PM
Yep, got that right! No support no man no way no time no how!
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 141
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Posted: 6/27/2011 6:29:15 PM
I think it is a generally wise idea for either gender, to not get involved with someone who doesn't have an adequate means of keeping him or her self.
Some leeway might be in order, depending on circumstance, and if the person of inadequate means has other things to bring to the table, and there is good reason to believe that those things WILL be brought and maintained.
Cindy O
Joined: 11/21/2008
Msg: 142
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Posted: 6/28/2011 4:00:43 PM
pretty caty threads here-getting men who are looking for a sugar mamma comes with the territory of the dating world-get over it and quit crawling over the good guys to get a loser.
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 143
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Posted: 6/29/2011 9:51:52 AM
^^^^^Who says we are crawling over the good guys to get a loser? If this is true, maybe the good guys need to approach the women so they are noticed, if they stay in the background and ignore the good women, no one ever gets together. It does seem as if a lot of good women meet loser men and good men are used and abused by women who I would not consider to be good women. I do get tired of all the supposed good men talking about how women used and abused them. The same could be said about them---getting women who are looking for sugar daddies comes with the territory-get over it and quit crawling over the good women to get a loser.
Joined: 10/2/2010
Msg: 144
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Posted: 6/29/2011 6:52:30 PM
I can't count how many times older women have ask me to move in to their place; money, clothes, expensive trips, bmw's and etc were the lures. I tried it once and found out what a kept man is all about. Terrible.
Joined: 10/2/2010
Msg: 145
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Posted: 6/29/2011 7:03:44 PM
And yet, it happens. Being kept is a slow death.
Joined: 10/2/2010
Msg: 146
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Posted: 6/29/2011 7:11:22 PM
Very good. High intellect always shows through written word.
Joined: 3/30/2011
Msg: 147
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Posted: 7/26/2011 9:01:56 AM
why not females do it all the time. so it sounds like a female shovenest lady.
Joined: 7/3/2011
Msg: 148
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Posted: 7/31/2011 1:02:30 PM
Never judge judge based of something u really don't know ..There are men of values ..Its the women who are taking men for granted..lame ..There are so many things i would like to tell but its not worth it ..Never judge a book by its cover..
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 149
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Posted: 7/31/2011 5:19:29 PM
I heard J Lo is coming back on the market with a fat settlement
Joined: 10/19/2010
Msg: 150
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Posted: 7/31/2011 6:26:30 PM
Totally behind your comment "being single ain't so bad" - or at least it's true when men younger than my daughter want to start a relationship. I mean, what the hell do or could we have to chat about?
I think that as a woman over 50 with financial security I have a bulls eye painted on my butt for loser younger guys who would like to travel - I assume as long as I'm going to be paying their way. Maybe I am cynical but I can't think of any reason some guy twenty years my junior wants to start a relationship with me other than he sees me as easy money. I think the money angle far outweighs any plan to get lots of sex from an "older" , i.e. "desperate" woman.
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 151
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Posted: 9/23/2011 1:45:57 AM
Emails are just that emails.....They are just talking. Do these guys even know you?
WOmen can get sex when they want it and the younger guys will be all over you anyway so you dont have to trade your home and so on for sex... What a joke.....
Wait until you get the cougar hunters, you will have your choices and drop them when you are tired of them..

This is a dating site remember, dont take any of it seriously.
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 152
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Posted: 9/23/2011 1:49:25 AM
I dont believe a word of what you say.. If you were all that, you would not be on a dating site I am thinking......Older women can get the younger man nowadays at a flick of an eyebrow especially if she is fit and fabulous.....So dream on, would be gigolo..
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 153
Posted: 9/23/2011 1:55:35 AM
Holly Golightly1
Spot on........WOmen never have to pay for sex unless they are old and decrepit and then they dont want it......Yes that urban myth about older women being desperate is just that, a myth......No man worth his balls wants to be a kept man certainly not as he matures.

I went out with a gorgeous man who was open about his looking for a mature woman with assets and money to spoil him but he still wanted to have sex with me, a young nubile woman at the time.. ....I pretended to have nothing so he would not use me in that way..... He still wanted to see me but I kicked him to the kerb. I cant respect a man with that kind of mindset. He had a good job and so on. Make your own money I say...

Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 154
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Posted: 9/23/2011 1:57:21 AM
Yes what is it with the phone sex?? Getting off while a stranger listens.... Dont get it and dont want it.......
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 156
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Posted: 10/21/2011 3:38:24 AM
Yes, it is an new trend, lots of young men now have found out that there is indeed equality of the sexes and men now can be gold diggers too.
Joined: 2/18/2011
Msg: 158
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Posted: 10/24/2011 3:18:33 PM

I seriously doubt there are more than 3, however that being said, every time I open POF, I have this row of women in several advertisements strung across the page that Markus must be making a killing off of and most of them are advertisements for sugar mommys with huge parts looking for guys my age, with sucker written across their forhead

No, tell me it's not true, you mean those advertisemenst aren't real, how will I be able to get up tommorow without the anticipation and hope that one is actually waiting for me.
Joined: 4/4/2008
Msg: 159
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Posted: 10/24/2011 9:13:46 PM

Yes what is it with the phone sex?? Getting off while a stranger listens.... Dont get it and dont want it.......

Yeah, almost as bad as the women who keep calling me with an offer of a new credit card.
Joined: 8/10/2010
Msg: 160
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Posted: 10/28/2011 1:36:33 AM
Unfortunately, if you have medical issues, not many individuals would want to see you in a thong - even if they are in a medical field. It would be like they were still at work.
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 161
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Posted: 10/28/2011 12:31:27 PM
interesting comments. It should be worth pondering, for us females, that maybe it's simply the tide turning, but the pattern is the same.
The female types who want to move in and be care for abound, I'm sure. Why not the other way 'round?
Joined: 9/27/2010
Msg: 164
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Posted: 11/2/2011 5:20:42 PM
there are desperate people... male or female... you decide what you want... and good luck!
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