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 TexasHunk69
Joined: 11/5/2012
Msg: 101
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All i care about is women cuming. They love to brag about how many times they can cum compared to us men so i put their bodies to the test. I love hearing them scream knowing its me doing it to them :P
 TheRezz
Joined: 8/26/2012
Msg: 102
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/16/2012 5:31:32 PM

Just curious???????

I can only have an orgasm is certain position...sometimes not at all.......
sometimes it bothers me and others time as long as the men is pleased I am happy.
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I think a lot of men are selfish lovers... I personally love the satisfaction of making a woman orgasm.. It's seriously art... Nothing in my mind sexier then when a woman loosing control of motor function for that brief few mins.

There are a few tricks I've learned to use over the years... the reset (have him take small breaks to give you oral or finger you) and as it's now called "going a second round" (self explanatory.) You've got to teach a man what works for you if he doesn't know or if you're constantly faking it he'll never know.... I think more women need to take charge a little in the bedroom... You know what gets you off... teach him... when he sees it happen he will want to EVERY TIME... I promise
 vancitygurl78
Joined: 7/6/2012
Msg: 103
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/16/2012 6:03:34 PM
My ex cared that whether I had an orgasm or not. He made it a point to always make me have an orgasm and then he would come.

They were times when no matter how hard I tried to have an orgasm, I just couldn't get there so I would tell him to have his orgasm. And then he would.

He always came last. It was awesome that he cared for me enough to wait till I had one or not then he would have one.

Not many guys out there who would wait
 blueeyessmile4
Joined: 9/26/2012
Msg: 104
YES
Posted: 11/16/2012 7:57:09 PM
Sometimes she is first,other times I am. Her touch is what makes me love.
 _Meta_Man_
Joined: 7/2/2012
Msg: 105
YES
Posted: 11/16/2012 9:04:37 PM
quite honestly I have little doubt all the guys who insist on their woman having an orgasm are the source of many fake orgasms.
 moon_breeze
Joined: 10/10/2012
Msg: 106
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/16/2012 10:12:08 PM
I find some care A LOT, and others care-as long as it's with minimal effort and it's usually an ego boost thing, like "How many times" then they all but physically high-five themselves. lol. Most of the time yes, I think they do care about my pleasure, comforts and wants. But if they didn't I would't be with them, so.
 bes914
Joined: 10/9/2010
Msg: 107
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/16/2012 11:03:35 PM
That's stupid... I feel horrible if i do and a female does not... advice, tell whoever the position, how, exactly, instruct, and that can be some sexy syntax.
 tricia3753
Joined: 4/5/2010
Msg: 108
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/16/2012 11:49:05 PM
yes men care because they want to know they have pleased a woman.....
 tvtommy
Joined: 10/31/2009
Msg: 109
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/17/2012 12:56:35 PM
I do, I'm gonna get off, she should too.
 Dravenbane
Joined: 5/24/2012
Msg: 110
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/18/2012 7:25:37 AM
i find that honestly most men dont. they rather get themselves done. me i rather spend the time on a woman to make sure that she has the time of her life. when it comes to anything sexual i love doing things to make a woman feel good.
 King_brady
Joined: 11/12/2012
Msg: 111
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/18/2012 6:31:10 PM
I can't speak for all men but I know I certainly do. I would rather know the female is satisfied as well/
 ladyseekinggent
Joined: 1/1/2009
Msg: 112
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Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/18/2012 7:08:25 PM
I think they probably like to hear pleasure....even if she isn't having one.... idk
 WstCdnGuy
Joined: 10/14/2011
Msg: 113
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/20/2012 12:13:21 AM
After reading 3 pages it seems some do and some don't. I can't imagine not having the woman get hers.

I want sex and she is the one I need to help me get it. So I want her to be so damn satisfied that each time she thinks of sex with me she gets wet. It has to be a sort of addiction.

I will not let it not happen, unless we have talked about it and she just wants me to have fun that time.

Well I did frustrate one GF in a bad way just to give her the idea of how I feel if I can't get there.
 kens1234
Joined: 10/3/2007
Msg: 114
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Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/22/2012 5:42:17 PM
Yes, Yes and Hell Yes
 denae37
Joined: 11/17/2012
Msg: 115
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/24/2012 10:59:06 AM
Men are so visual. If you orgasm in front of your man, and you make it visually stimulating for him, he is going to want to make it happen again. =)
 BrandonLudwig
Joined: 9/9/2012
Msg: 116
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/24/2012 10:54:50 PM
nothing like giving a women pleasure to hear her and feel her body shaking
 parmagreg
Joined: 8/5/2012
Msg: 117
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/25/2012 4:31:50 PM
Yes. It's a matter of pride.
 ana_karenina_
Joined: 11/8/2012
Msg: 118
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/25/2012 8:25:45 PM
a real man cares =D
 Rhymes_w_Orange
Joined: 10/17/2010
Msg: 119
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/26/2012 7:05:51 AM
Actually, it's almost MORE of a turn-on for me to see my partner enjoying herself. If I rolled over selfishly after getting mine, I'd fully expect my partner to pull a Lorena Bobbitt on me. If you aren't both enjoying yourselves, what's the point?

Oh, and if women really want guys to care about this, give them the guidance and the incentive. Some of us might actually appreciate the information -- this isn't like a road trip where the guy won't stop and ask for directions until it's apparent that he's completely lost. In our own way, we kinda wanna know without having our pride hurt. :)
 MrMeSir
Joined: 2/17/2012
Msg: 120
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/27/2012 12:45:39 AM
No, i do not care at all.

It's not my responsibility to magically know what works and what doesn't, if she voices her opinion i will work with her during sex, i will even talk with her before and after sex, but as for me caring, i don't and i never will. I care about people, so it someone im close to cares about something, it will definitely make me geared towards making their life more enjoyable.
 Goinhard389
Joined: 11/12/2012
Msg: 121
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/27/2012 6:35:04 AM
i dontno bout every1 else but i tr to get my other half off before i even enter her so yes it means smething to me
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 122
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Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 12/2/2012 5:18:33 PM
Hell YES! I Care!!
If it weren't for Shared Pleasure....I may azs well just Do Myself!!
I L*O*V*E getting a Lady off..._Several Times_ to each of my own!!
I especially like her getting off on my Tongue....
(Something I've _Dearly Missed_ over the last 14 years of Widowhood!!)
*VOOF!*
 smileitsrteal
Joined: 11/19/2012
Msg: 123
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 12/5/2012 7:41:43 PM
I think it's very important for a man to bring his woman to the brink and fall over the edge with her. I will not get off until my partner does. It makes it really special.
 FoxyRon65
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 124
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Posted: 12/5/2012 8:16:52 PM
ABSOLUTELY!!!! But, there are times when women are just as happy to see you pleased. Simultaneous is the ultimate. :)
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 125
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 12/6/2012 3:17:01 AM
yes men care.....sheeeesh..... we also care if she can cook and mow the lawn and take out the trash.....
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