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 ana_karenina_
Joined: 11/8/2012
Msg: 129
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a real man cares =D
 Rhymes_w_Orange
Joined: 10/17/2010
Msg: 130
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/26/2012 7:05:51 AM
Actually, it's almost MORE of a turn-on for me to see my partner enjoying herself. If I rolled over selfishly after getting mine, I'd fully expect my partner to pull a Lorena Bobbitt on me. If you aren't both enjoying yourselves, what's the point?

Oh, and if women really want guys to care about this, give them the guidance and the incentive. Some of us might actually appreciate the information -- this isn't like a road trip where the guy won't stop and ask for directions until it's apparent that he's completely lost. In our own way, we kinda wanna know without having our pride hurt. :)
 MrMeSir
Joined: 2/17/2012
Msg: 131
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/27/2012 12:45:39 AM
No, i do not care at all.

It's not my responsibility to magically know what works and what doesn't, if she voices her opinion i will work with her during sex, i will even talk with her before and after sex, but as for me caring, i don't and i never will. I care about people, so it someone im close to cares about something, it will definitely make me geared towards making their life more enjoyable.
 Goinhard389
Joined: 11/12/2012
Msg: 132
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 11/27/2012 6:35:04 AM
i dontno bout every1 else but i tr to get my other half off before i even enter her so yes it means smething to me
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 133
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Posted: 12/2/2012 5:18:33 PM
Hell YES! I Care!!
If it weren't for Shared Pleasure....I may azs well just Do Myself!!
I L*O*V*E getting a Lady off..._Several Times_ to each of my own!!
I especially like her getting off on my Tongue....
(Something I've _Dearly Missed_ over the last 14 years of Widowhood!!)
*VOOF!*
 smileitsrteal
Joined: 11/19/2012
Msg: 134
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 12/5/2012 7:41:43 PM
I think it's very important for a man to bring his woman to the brink and fall over the edge with her. I will not get off until my partner does. It makes it really special.
 FoxyRon65
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 135
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Posted: 12/5/2012 8:16:52 PM
ABSOLUTELY!!!! But, there are times when women are just as happy to see you pleased. Simultaneous is the ultimate. :)
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 136
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 12/6/2012 3:17:01 AM
yes men care.....sheeeesh..... we also care if she can cook and mow the lawn and take out the trash.....
 Ray_1957
Joined: 12/11/2011
Msg: 137
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 12/6/2012 11:42:13 AM
YES !!!
ABSOLUTELY !!!
DEFINITELY !!!
POSITIVELY !!!
CERTAINLY !!!

Can you tell I really, really care?
 GentleSeduction
Joined: 4/28/2009
Msg: 138
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 12/8/2012 7:53:38 AM
Are you kidding? There is nothing I find more exciting and rewarding than to feel my lover writhe in orgasmic pleasure as a result of what I'm doing. It only makes me more aroused and heightens my own senses and physical reactions. In fact, I make it a point to make sure she has come at least once or more before I let myself do so.
 FWB21
Joined: 11/2/2010
Msg: 139
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 12/18/2012 7:33:02 AM
I like to give her an orgasm...makes me feel good about me and I sure do like that.
 that1mofo
Joined: 2/11/2012
Msg: 140
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 12/18/2012 10:41:06 AM
Some don't. I certainly do.

I love showing off the claw marks down my back to my friends, I love the looks from her friends as they gaggle around her whispering in smiles, I love how eager she is to cook me breakfast in the morning after I've rocked her world.
:)

The thought of being the only one to cum during sex really has no appeal to me. Kinda makes me want to apologize and try again.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 12/18/2012 1:58:51 PM
Oh HELL yes! That's why I'm there. I can relate to that1mofo... I was standing in a room talking to some friends, (I wasn't wearing a shirt) when I turned around to leave the entire room broke up laughing. I looked in the mirror, and had three perfectly symetrical claw marks down each shoulder blade! The question isn't IF she can orgasm, it's how many times, and how many different ways! Also from that1mofo, I get off seeing that look on her face, and the looks on the faces of her friends.
 starshiney
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 142
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 1/31/2013 8:15:26 PM
The problem is that some men don't know anything about a female orgasm. They assume that if she appear to be enjoying penetration that she is cumming. For me, now that I am in my thirties, I have no problem showing a man exactly what is required to bring me to orgasm. If he is not doing it right, he just needs further direction and perhaps a manual demonstration from yours truly.

If he expressed no interest in my pleasure then "Houston, we have a problem!"
 434handyman
Joined: 1/21/2013
Msg: 143
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 2/1/2013 2:58:42 AM
I will not cum unless she has had a few. That's just me because I feel very special when a woman spreads her legs for me. I guess I just want to please her.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 144
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 2/1/2013 11:18:25 AM
I care very deeply if my partner has an orgasm. To me it takes priority over my own.
 Blanketthenegitive
Joined: 12/20/2012
Msg: 145
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 2/1/2013 5:30:59 PM
It matters to me for a couple of reasons, A) I need to know she's being satisfied and that inturn makes me feel, well good :). B) It feels great when a woman orgasms while we're making whoopie, she gets super tight, and then she splashes. It's a rush for me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 meetme28269
Joined: 4/11/2011
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Posted: 2/2/2013 5:00:36 AM
Sex is about two not one.
 MutedEnthusiasm
Joined: 7/8/2011
Msg: 147
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 2/2/2013 5:32:20 AM
Given the context of OP’s original question…


I can only have an orgasm in certain position...sometimes not at all....... sometimes it bothers me and others time as long as the man is pleased I am happy.


…I’m gonna say I feel much the same as she does, about hers or mine. I care about it if she cares about it, but if it’s not happening (for her or me) – no heroic gestures required. If it’s a must-have, there are usually ways to make it happen. But in an ongoing relationship where sexual opportunities are abundant and next time could be anytime, it’s not the be-all, end-all. It’s just not.
 THEMEPACK
Joined: 12/17/2012
Msg: 148
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 2/2/2013 10:57:35 AM
Sometimes I do sometimes I don't.....
 jjoenyc73
Joined: 11/9/2012
Msg: 149
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 2/2/2013 11:23:52 AM
Of course I care. I guarantee she will cum multiple times more than I will BECAUSE 1. penis is not only instrument for her pleasure 2. I hard long time.
 Genuine_Gentleman_For_You
Joined: 4/22/2009
Msg: 150
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 2/2/2013 10:58:51 PM
Yes. I won't be completely satisfied until she does. So even if I'm finished first, I will continue to focus on pleasuring her. I want us both to enjoy the experience.
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 151
Do men really care if a woman has an orgasm????
Posted: 2/3/2013 9:08:17 AM
Now i know not every man cares about a woman/women much less even if it had to do with a woman getting to the big O..

so where are the men who out right are all about busting a 30second maybe if the woman is lucky 2minute nutt an then being gone out the door on to the next one,,

i know they are out here so far its only been the guys who claim to care speaking up..

so where are the lousy lovers at? to admit they dont care bout nothing..
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 152
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Posted: 2/3/2013 2:32:52 PM
*IF???*

I feel like I've let her down if I can't give her At Least a half-dozen!!
...then again...I _AM_ a bit Out-of-Practice...so I hope 'she'll bare with me ....f
or a few sessions...
to regain my stamina.

~ b l u s h ~
 KToned53
Joined: 3/2/2012
Msg: 153
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Posted: 2/4/2013 12:38:47 PM
Yes i do care, want my parner satified if i can. Women have orgasm in different ways. Some take time, some you have to find the G_Spot. Some its mental and can not always have the orgasm. But i like to take the time to find out how i can help her achieve it if i can.
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