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 *mae* flowers
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I think a man looks for various things in a relationship;

A woman who doesn't mind cooking
A woman who does some housework
A woman who is great in the sack
A woman who holds down a decent job
A woman who respects his free time


...Oh dear....I'm doomed. Number three....ummm, ahhh....Ok, I do have a decent job.


...maeflower
 kari135
Joined: 9/1/2009
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Posted: 11/6/2009 6:39:29 PM

A woman who doesn't mind cooking
A woman who does some housework
A woman who is great in the sack
A woman who holds down a decent job
A woman who respects his free time

I like cooking - but what I want, when I want it, not necessarily 3 times/day. If he wants 3 hots and a cot, there's the local jail.
I do housework - when it reaches the point where I can't stand it anymore.
I've always had at least one job, usually more, now I have a decent retirement. For me. He'd best have his own.
His free time is his own, as long as my free time is MY own as well.
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 205
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Posted: 11/6/2009 9:16:25 PM
A woman who doesn't mind cooking

I don't mind it, am rather good at it, but only when I want to.

A woman who does some housework

I clean my own house, and expect him to take care of his. However, if we cohabitate, I expect that there will be outside help. This is not a bad thing for it frees me up to be the upstairs maid.

A woman who is great in the sack

I'm not bad, especially when I have the downstairs maid issues covered and he picks up after himself.

A woman who holds down a decent job

I am steadily employed.

A woman who respects his free time

As I want mine respected.
 kari135
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Posted: 11/7/2009 5:14:15 AM


A woman who doesn't mind cooking
A woman who does some housework
A woman who is great in the sack
A woman who holds down a decent job
A woman who respects his free time


I like cooking - but what I want, when I want it, not necessarily 3 times/day. If he wants 3 hots and a cot, there's the local jail.
I do housework - when it reaches the point where I can't stand it anymore.
I've always had at least one job, usually more, now I have a decent retirement. For me. He'd best have his own.
His free time is his own, as long as my free time is MY own as well.


Eek! I forgot one!

I've never had any complaints....
 clockwork lime
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 207
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/7/2009 9:53:37 AM

My free time has never been spent on meeting an ugly one ...LOL!


I never quite understand if your comments should be taken at face value, or if there are some obscure meanings to them.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 209
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/9/2009 1:52:02 AM
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.


the same thing a younger man looks for: - BIG TITS!


 Discerning Virtuosa
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 210
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Posted: 11/9/2009 4:22:12 PM

the same thing a younger man looks for: - BIG TITS!


Well the older gals are gonna have gravity working against them - they don't stay perky forever.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 11/9/2009 5:57:41 PM

Well the older gals are gonna have gravity working against them - they don't stay perky forever.


speak for yourself!

having NOT had children, mine are still pretty darn perky - even at 40DD!

 Discerning Virtuosa
Joined: 6/10/2008
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Posted: 11/10/2009 7:00:58 AM

speak for yourself!

having NOT had children, mine are still pretty darn perky - even at 40DD!


DivineB: I wasn't speaking for myself. I am the same size as you and have had no children. I take pride in a damn fine rack.
One more benefit of women who have never had kids.
 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 11/10/2009 7:37:45 AM

mine are still pretty darn perky - even at 40DD!


Devine....I think I have just fallen in love.....
 thecatsmeoww
Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 221
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Posted: 11/10/2009 7:46:50 AM

mine are still pretty darn perky - even at 40DD!


Drat and here I sit in my training bra..

Thanks a lot!!!

thecatsmeoww
 thecatsmeoww
Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 222
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Posted: 11/10/2009 7:53:39 AM
You know when you are in serious trouble when your children find out you are about to start dating again. They decide on Mother's Day to purchase you a very highly padded push up bra.. I am modeling it in my main photo..

thecatsmeoww
 clockwork lime
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 224
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Posted: 11/10/2009 9:31:29 AM
Well if there's more than a handful, then there's some left over for your mates.
 rearguard*2
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Posted: 11/10/2009 10:22:56 AM
From the male perspective, I observe the following:

When you are in your 20s you meet young, never married women who dream of living the dream.
When you are in your 30s you meet still young women who are good looking and had partied while all their contemporaries got married and who suddenly decided that they better do the family thing before its too late.
When you are in your 40s you meet women who are young divorcees with small kids in tow, or with the career girl types who are no longer sure they want a family.
When you are in your 50s you meet older divorcees with teen or college age kids and women who have developed all kinds of more or less exotic habits, like globe trotting and rescuing cats, own their own homes, and expect to be entertained.
When you are in your 60s you meet widows and divorced empty nesters who feel that its their time to party after all those years of sacrifice.
When you are in your 70s you meet women who have compatible medical issues.
When you are in your 80s you meet women who live down the hall in the residence
When you are in your 90s you hope like hell you don't meet any more women.....
 Free-At-Last
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 227
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Posted: 11/10/2009 10:32:20 AM
^^^awe rearguard^^^^
What if YOU were to skip the 70's, 80's, and 90's scenerios and just live YOUR dream starting NOW until eternity
 rearguard*2
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Posted: 11/10/2009 10:39:55 AM

What if YOU were to skip the 70's, 80's, and 90's scenerios and just live YOUR dream starting NOW until eternity


Well, its only a matter of speculation that I will not, in fact, be "skipping" the 60s,70s,80s and 90s. I do spend my time enjoying as much as possible today. We all assume we will go on forever, but at any moment, your doctor can say, quite casually, "I think I should send you for some tests.". Words that bring to an end any such speculations...
 DivineBovine
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Posted: 11/10/2009 3:22:01 PM

^^^^^^^ That would depend on how big your hands are


thank you, sacharissa!

 MAGIC_MARCO
Joined: 11/16/2007
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Posted: 11/10/2009 5:54:08 PM
Why oh why do we HAVE TO GO THERE !


Because, like it or not, it's important to a lot of men.



I don't know if I would say it's important but rather just part of the decision making (or should I say the vision making ) process.



 DivineBovine
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Posted: 11/10/2009 6:02:26 PM

bunny slippers......pink ones.


puppy slippers, bunny slippers....

they all pale in comparison to fuzzy cow slippers!

 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 235
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Posted: 11/10/2009 6:11:19 PM

mine are still pretty darn perky - even at 40DD!


..."Good for you, that's so nice", she says between gritted teeth (lol)



Devine....I think I have just fallen in love.....


...Oh gawd you're so fickle.

...maeflowers
 DivineBovine
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Posted: 11/10/2009 6:13:03 PM

..."Good for you, that's so nice", she says between gritted teeth (lol)


oh sweetie, why do you think i'm "divine"????

 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 237
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Posted: 11/10/2009 6:21:49 PM

oh sweetie, why do you think i'm "divine"????



..With that attitude I don't think you're gonna have any problem lassoing yourself a cowboy. What does a man over 45 look for?....why a cowgirl of course.

....maeflowers
 rearguard*2
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Posted: 11/11/2009 5:11:04 AM

...Oh gawd you're so fickle.


Naw.....to be fickle, you have to change your mind. I just love all the ladies.....
 Discerning Virtuosa
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 240
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Posted: 11/11/2009 9:18:48 AM

As long as the ladies express preferences for the man's "package", men will express preferences for their "attributes".


Ah, but smart women don't divide a man up into "parts" and look into the TOTAL package. A well endowed mental midget is of no interest to me. With a good set of batteries that "package" is easily substituted at any time and doesn't provide any dirty fruit of the looms and socks to be picked up after.
Men will easily forego intellect and sweet personality if a woman for the smokin hot physical stuff.
 morningsong53
Joined: 5/31/2009
Msg: 242
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Posted: 11/11/2009 10:05:18 AM
whew! Sounds like one mighty powerful "relationship"--yipes.
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